Internet, Is internet relationships ok? |
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 Mar 9 2005, 05:37 PM
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Theres this guy i met. Name is Paul. I met him through Xanga actually. Turns out he lives SUPER close to my house, should i take a chance and meet him? hes already my boyfriend and there a good chance we could end up not liking eachother afta!
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Mar 9 2005, 05:45 PM
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 Fearless? Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,183 |
Nope dont do it you could get raped!
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Mar 9 2005, 05:45 PM
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 I have no life Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,675 |
mkae sure that he is really who he is....ask your parents
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Mar 9 2005, 05:46 PM
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Fearless? Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,183 |
Dont ask your parents they'll yell at you for going out with a guy you met on the internet and they'll get mad
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| *Programmer* |
Mar 9 2005, 05:46 PM
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awww...thas cute....see thing about internet and real life is one is real one is not......if you meet him your both gonna be nervous as hell....lmao....because you really don't know that much about each other....maybe over the net you do..but it's so ez to lie about shit like that....be careful
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Mar 9 2005, 05:54 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
Man that is kind of wierd. His already your boyfriend ? What the eff man.. you should at least meet him before you start a relationship. If you meet him bring someone with you.
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Mar 9 2005, 05:57 PM
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 when we speak, we breathe Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 |
1.) If you think you two won't hit it off, don't borther. You've never met him before, and you're not really losing anything but someone you talk to, who claims that you're his [only] girlfriend.
2.) If you really do want to meet him, bring a guy friend with, and meet him at a public place, say a coffee shop, an eatery, or a mall. Never go to his house, etc. 3.) Bring a cellphone with, if you can, for precaution. |
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Mar 9 2005, 05:58 PM
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 ¢¾ Wanting it. ¢¾ Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
hm... its pretty dangerous.
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| *Azarel* |
Mar 9 2005, 06:21 PM
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 Meet up in a public place. Don't go alone. If you do go alone, go with other people. And to answer the question in your post title, it all depends on you. |
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Mar 9 2005, 09:54 PM
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 boa loyal fans 4eva!!!! Group: Member Posts: 533 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,738 |
well i think it ok,
because some people jsut can't get a real relattionship in real life and the only thing the good at is computer, so that their only hope in napoleon dynamite, napoleon brother relationship with that girl go prefectly ok. online realtionship is ok if you actually talk to that person like 2hr everyday on web cam for like 4year or more. and then it save to meet that person. |
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Mar 9 2005, 09:56 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
meet him somewhere w/ a few friends. i think there's a topic like this?
But always go to a public place and w/ friends |
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Mar 9 2005, 09:56 PM
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when we speak, we breathe Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 |
Napoleon Dynamite was a G rated movie. Of course the interinet meeting was going to go alright.
Real life > Fiction. |
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Mar 9 2005, 10:09 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
NO DO NOT MEET HIM!!!
if he was an honest or at least normal person, you two wouldn't be boyfriend and girlfriend already when you haven't met...he seems like some weirdo...it's like he's controlling you and you've even been face to face yet... he can't call you his girlfriend just yet or anything like that, it's like he did that so he has your trust...this seems so wrong...who can already be boyfriend and girlfriend but never met...? me might be a freak and guilt you into stuff and i don't know...just don't do it |
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| *wind&fire* |
Mar 9 2005, 10:13 PM
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what a whole lot of b.s dont meet him...
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Mar 9 2005, 11:21 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 90 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 110,867 |
You can if you want.. just dont go anywhere ALONE with him... then you're probably safe... but I wouldn't if i were you
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Mar 9 2005, 11:23 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
I think you shouldn't. Internet is like a scary world; walking in it alone. That guy could be like a 60 year old perv and he could rape you. Better safe than sorry. Good luck
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Mar 9 2005, 11:45 PM
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 Je vous aime Group: Member Posts: 361 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,078 |
If you've been talking to him for a long time and you just think you know he's not some stalker trying to get you maybe you could if you really want..
but maybe take one of your bigger guy friends just to be safe!  But in my own personal opinion, I wouldn't meet him.. it does sound kind of weird. |
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Mar 10 2005, 02:00 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,268 |
Just to let you guys know. I've been into an internet relationship before. And now it has become long distance. and it is still going ( 3 years and still counting) and I'm 13. I've done this behind my parents back.. please dont do this behind yours.. this will get you into deep shit. What ever these people are saying is ignorant because they dont know what they're talking about. They never been into this big shit. The guy I'm dating is a few years older than me... But still, i never had sex, or had been raped by this fool.
All i have to tell you is to 1.) Ask your parents 2.) Know this guy, take a few months like about 6 months clearance 3.) dont have sex on first blind date rofl. |
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Mar 10 2005, 02:47 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
sigh
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Mar 10 2005, 03:19 AM
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 APPLE Group: Member Posts: 2,989 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,182 |
Paul..over..xanga..i met ppl over xanga..but i wouldnt risk internet relationships..i mean..if u live close to him..you know..
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Mar 10 2005, 07:12 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
sure.
then when u show up, its a 75 year old guy who ties u down in his basement and wants to do lewd uncatholic things to u. internet relationships...hah. find someone real. |
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Mar 10 2005, 12:34 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
I hate net relationships there so cyberish (sp?) hehe
btu if he lives close , but meet him at the mall or movies no where thats secluded! he could be forty years old and still lives with his mom for all you know |
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Mar 10 2005, 06:10 PM
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 you kissed my bliss away Group: Member Posts: 37 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,695 |
QUOTE(eCkO. @ Mar 10 2005, 2:00 AM) Just to let you guys know. I've been into an internet relationship before. And now it has become long distance. and it is still going ( 3 years and still counting) and I'm 13. I've done this behind my parents back.. please dont do this behind yours.. this will get you into deep shit. What ever these people are saying is ignorant because they dont know what they're talking about. They never been into this big shit. The guy I'm dating is a few years older than me... But still, i never had sex, or had been raped by this fool. All i have to tell you is to 1.) Ask your parents 2.) Know this guy, take a few months like about 6 months clearance 3.) dont have sex on first blind date rofl.  dang 3 years???!! i applaud you..and only 13? yea juss make sure to be careful & dont go anywhere alone |
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Mar 10 2005, 08:57 PM
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dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(eCkO. @ Mar 10 2005, 2:00 AM) Just to let you guys know. I've been into an internet relationship before. And now it has become long distance. and it is still going ( 3 years and still counting) and I'm 13. I've done this behind my parents back.. please dont do this behind yours.. this will get you into deep shit. What ever these people are saying is ignorant because they dont know what they're talking about. They never been into this big shit. The guy I'm dating is a few years older than me... But still, i never had sex, or had been raped by this fool. All i have to tell you is to 1.) Ask your parents 2.) Know this guy, take a few months like about 6 months clearance 3.) dont have sex on first blind date rofl. QUOTE(purestkiss101 @ Mar 10 2005, 6:10 PM) dang 3 years???!! i applaud you..and only 13? yea juss make sure to be careful & dont go anywhere alone no sh*t he hasn't raped her, it's a long distance internet relationship, what can he do to her?  wow big deal, 3 years of telling some person over the internet, "i love you  how was your day baby?" and all the while that person is probably messing around with other people...i think it's just stupid
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Mar 13 2005, 12:00 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
QUOTE(Ba11erZ4lyfe @ Mar 9 2005, 6:46 PM) awww...thas cute....see thing about internet and real life is one is real one is not......if you meet him your both gonna be nervous as hell....lmao....because you really don't know that much about each other....maybe over the net you do..but it's so ez to lie about shit like that....be careful he's got a point. 
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