definition of love., whats yours? |
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 Oct 29 2004, 12:35 AM
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 aiko Nakamura at your service  Group: Member Posts: 1,518 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,144  |
whats your definition of love? is theyr one to even start from? can you define it?
love - the feeling/emotion in which you feel sincere happiness. have felt pain &somehow been brought back together. feel like everyones opinion doesnt matter. where all flaws somehow disappear and the good in the person overtakes it. love is a word you shouldnt overuse because you may just lose its meaning. |
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Oct 29 2004, 07:24 AM
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 me now...me 4eva Group: Member Posts: 83 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,710 |
Definition of luv is easi--there isn't one...luv is unpredictable
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Oct 29 2004, 06:08 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
At Dictionary.com, love means...
QUOTE love n. 1. A person who is the object of deep or intense affection or attraction; beloved. Often used as a term of endearment. 2. To experience deep affection or intense desire for another. 3. To have a deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward (a person) 4. To have a feeling of intense desire and attraction toward (a person). Love is undescribable. There could be millions of different meanings for love, so there's no exact meaning for it. If you're talking about the love for someone (i.e. love for boyfriend/girlfriend, husband/wife), then I've got many difinitions of love. In my perspective, love is a feeling (an emotion) towards another that has truly touched/affected one's life in (good) ways that no other has. Love is being able to imagine wake up every morning to that significant other and knowing that seeing their face would make your day so much better. Just thinking about your beloved would put a smile on a face. Love is a warm, fuzzy feeling that causes butterflies in your stomach whenever you're near that significant other. Love is to care for another in an affectionate way. Love is the devotion one has for another. |
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Oct 29 2004, 06:16 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 110 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,849 |
hmm...
love is like pi, rational, irrational, and important. well.. thats one i remeber from so long ago... was in the card making business... made a nice profit too ... 
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Oct 29 2004, 06:29 PM
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QUOTE(designergurlxx @ Oct 29 2004, 7:24 AM) Definition of luv is easi--there isn't one...luv is unpredictable i agree with you love can be so wonderful and you anc be the happiest person with the one you love but when love turns its back on you it hurts so much so it can hurt so much yet it can make you feel so wonderful .:tony:. |
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Oct 29 2004, 06:31 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
love gives u a reason to give someone ur heart and they now have the power to break it.
i saw that on an icon. prettie nice |
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Oct 29 2004, 07:41 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,172 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,045 |
my friend's sister had a definition for it . here it is.
(as much as i remember) love builds it's definition over time of a relationship something like that |
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Oct 29 2004, 10:02 PM
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 ...Oon sro lanh Bong... Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,944 |
to me, love isn't a word that can be describe easily. i think there are many different definitions out there for love and all of the ones that you guyz posted are really good ones. i haven't been in love yet so i wouldn't know wat to say about defining it.
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Oct 30 2004, 12:01 AM
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 iLLeGiT NeWbIe :D Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,953 |
nature's way of tricking people into reproducing
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Oct 30 2004, 12:13 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,087 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,491 |
want to hug them even though they're sad/angry/happy or just cuz they're just there. and you feel safe with them no matter where you are
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Oct 30 2004, 01:23 PM
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 Bubble Group: Member Posts: 341 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,405 |
Someone told me this once when i asked the same question... so i thought i would share it.
"There are decisions in life that require careful consideration, but when you overanalyze emotions they lose what makes them special, the fact that they don't need to be based on some logical explanation. When you're in love you'll know it! You can't expect to know what love is from other people's descriptions of their own experience of it. No one experiences love in the same exact way. It's a profound emotion that will consume every part of you when you have it, trust me you'll know. But if you rely on other people's experience to try and figure out what it is you'll lose something, your own personal experience. And if you sepnd too much time trying to figure out what it is with your head, you might miss it when it's right there. Love can never be fully comprehended by the mind, that's why it's so wonderful. Think about it, there's no logical reason for unconditional love to exist, but it does. If love was something to be so scrutinized and thought about mentally, then it would lose it's luster. The greatest minds of civilaztion have tried to come up with definitions of love and even they haven't satisfied everyone. What makes you think anyone else can?" |
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Oct 30 2004, 01:38 PM
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 E! Online Group: Member Posts: 302 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,082 |
there is no definition of love. thats how powerful it is.
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Oct 31 2004, 03:39 AM
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 cacaboii. [SAN FRAN is where... Group: Member Posts: 566 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,562 |
ma cuzins's def.
Love is like a game."If luv isnt a game y is der so many players? ma def. Love is ... i huv nothing love is QUOTE Definition of luv is easi--there isn't one...luv is unpredictable das true |
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Oct 31 2004, 09:18 AM
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QUOTE(Perfection @ Oct 30 2004, 12:01 AM) nature's way of tricking people into reproducing haha...love always finds a way to get in your heart |
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Oct 31 2004, 09:23 AM
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Gackt's Wife Group: Member Posts: 411 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,549 |
something you cant show... someone you cant stop thinking about... the risks you would take to be with them...
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Oct 31 2004, 01:45 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Love can be defined in both ways..the negative and the postive.
Love can be the best feeling in the world. Or, it can be the most painful. You worry every day if it will end becuz of the fact that yur love wasnt strong enough to beat the odds. It's a constant price you pay for being in love. But love can fulfill you like nothing can. The feeling of love cannot be defined...but only described...the feeling of love should be different for everyone. |
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Nov 5 2004, 11:46 PM
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well i read this story a long time ago on the internet somewhere and it was a love story. anyways, at one point in it a character had this description of love which is exactly my definition as well. i saved it from the story so yeah, these words are not my own though they are exactly what i think:
QUOTE My interpretation of love is a very deep, sometimes unexplainable connection between two people. It is a longing to be with someone forever, and knowing that your life will not be complete with out that person in your life. It is more than a sexual relationship, it is a companionship that develops over time. Love is equivalent to having a best friend that you know will always make you smile, will never judge you, and know they will be there to give support, encouragement, comfort, or anything you need in your life. Being in love is letting go of all restrictions you might have, and at your most vulnerable point, giving yourself completely to that person and having complete faith that they will not hurt you in anyway. I do believe that love can be limited to a person's level of self-acceptance. In order for love to work, both people must be secure with themselves and believe that they are worthy of the being loved. I deem it possible to subconsciously attach conditions to the expression of love without realizing it. It's having that deep and unexplainable connection with someone. It's finding the person who understands you, makes you laugh, puts a smile on your face just thinking of them, accepts you for who you are, flaws and all, and believes in you.
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Nov 6 2004, 12:06 AM
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 Will write poetry for sex! Group: Member Posts: 1,110 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 600 |
Okay, here's a definiton...
Love is when you can't get somebody out of your mind, when they're your first thought in the morning and your last thought at night. Maybe it's not in your heart, but it is in your head. The definiton of Love is as long as the amount of time it grasps you and lingers, even when it goes away. |
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Nov 6 2004, 12:26 AM
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U'll find the true defination of love when u find tat one person. s/he will show u the meaning to love.
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Nov 6 2004, 04:54 AM
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they're far from perfect... you can see their flaws, but you accept and truly appreciate the person they are with those flaws, unconditionally.
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Nov 6 2004, 09:28 AM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
there's not really a definition. it's just a feeling. but i do believe you can't be in love with someone you haven't ever dated or something..they have to show some feeling for you as well and you have to spend a lot of time together, being together..for you to be in love with them.
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Nov 6 2004, 11:28 AM
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 We are the cure. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,936 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,456 |
QUOTE(VaguelyAware @ Nov 6 2004, 9:28 AM) there's not really a definition. it's just a feeling. but i do believe you can't be in love with someone you haven't ever dated or something..they have to show some feeling for you as well and you have to spend a lot of time together, being together..for you to be in love with them. They didn't ask you how to fall in love. Love is appreciation. Love is acceptance, and love is wanting another to feel good. Love is looking at somebody and having no desire to change them, because they're perfect how they are. Love is when you focus on what you love about someone, to the point where it consumes your every thought. Love is wanting them not to be hurt, ever - emotionally, psychically, mentally - whatever. Love is not lying to the person, never lying to the person because you know in the end that both of you are going to be hurt by it. |
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Nov 6 2004, 12:35 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,746 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,931 |
to define love is to make it a concrete, real thing.
and one who is real about love can never experience it truly. |
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Nov 6 2004, 12:51 PM
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 can't believe I let people call me Lynne on here 5 yrs ago o Group: Member Posts: 243 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,591 |
when whoever u love..in ur eyes the person is so perfect despite all their flaws n wrongdoings
its when u still care for them no matter what they do.. its when u try to make them happy..that ur always there for them for anything that goes wrong because all u want is to see the person happy its when you love them so much that even if they loved someone else you wouldnt care as long as the person's happy eh..i think im saying the same thing as other ppl.. |
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Nov 6 2004, 12:54 PM
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Bubble Group: Member Posts: 341 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,405 |
Steph... you always have the best love definitions. You have one from earlier that was awesome too
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