a dangerous illness, cutting yourself |
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 Aug 20 2004, 11:17 PM
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Newbie  Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,500  |
i need some advice on some stuff. a friend of mine has a friend who cuts herself. (no this isn't about me lol) n says that she showed him the cut. and then i told him to tell her parents or adults about her situation. so what would you do if you were in my place? except the fact that tell him to tell her that cutting oneself is bad, cuz most likely, the person already knew that
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Aug 20 2004, 11:39 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
wow that suks. tell ur fren to keep convincin his fren till they stop cutting
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Aug 20 2004, 11:55 PM
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i have 3 friends who used to cut themselves, but not anymore, thank god. i suggest that you tell your friend to have a talk with her and ask her why she feels that she needs to cut herself, and tell him to just be there for her, i dont really know the whole situation so that's all i can say for now =T.
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Aug 21 2004, 12:44 AM
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Get to know the person who is cutting herself. Try to talk her out of it, and ask her WHY she's cutting herself. Tell her life is too special to waste.
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Aug 21 2004, 12:54 AM
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 fragile Group: Member Posts: 1,044 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,807 |
talk to her
get her to a counselor or something |
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Aug 21 2004, 01:53 AM
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fOreVer YoURs Group: Member Posts: 92 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,341 |
i 've never known anyone like that..but i've heard they cut cuz they're going thru so much pain their lives..n cutting makes them feel better. they like the feeling n all.. n i agree with everyone else..get to know her...hang out with her..have fun times..try to make her ferget you now...is hard tho...
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Aug 21 2004, 02:26 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 167 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,504 |
i used to haf a friend who cuts herself she stopped thank goodness she realized dat it waz wrong so she stopped
just talk to ur friend tell her dat u care for her and ask her y she cuts herself. |
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Aug 21 2004, 04:43 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
i know a few girls that cut.....uGhZ drama drama drama..... anyways ide ask her what is the reason behind her cutting,and why does she cut ...like suicide or just a release/directing pain.... if her parents dont know i mite tell them....but ide mostly suggest she try to cut less and if she can find another way to release her emotionaly baggage
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Aug 21 2004, 10:02 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
have a SERIOUS talk with her
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Aug 21 2004, 10:45 AM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
whoa. don't tell parents! they make it hell. cutting is something that person and that persons friends need to help eachother out with. i hate being mentioned about it and ill bet she does to. do you even know her? YOU shouldn't be left doing anyhting. sorry if that sounds harsh but tell your firend to talk things out with her...
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Aug 21 2004, 05:43 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Wow.
That's bad. Uhm. Talk to her about it. |
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Aug 21 2004, 11:37 PM
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 Mmm..Meat :D Group: Member Posts: 326 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,086 |
Well, I heard that when you like, slit your wrists, it makes you feel good...but that isn't the point. :|
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Aug 21 2004, 11:37 PM
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Mmm..Meat :D Group: Member Posts: 326 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,086 |
But what I would do, I would go to those clinic places for the "insane". I'm not saying your friend is crazy, but I heard those places offer help for teens with those problems.
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