How would you feel..., if a supposed friend betrayed you??? Options

[xsweetdreams12x]

Well, I had this friend, Sammie. I invited her to my birthday party sometime ago, and just to let you know she is a, what I call, Parent-Controlled-Freak. Her parents won't allow her to have sleepovers, go to the mall alone, or anything normal pre-teens do. Anyways, well on the bus in the morning, I was sitting alone because my best friend missed the bus, and a b**** named Jenna who hates me, and also stole my bus seat to humiliate me, had Sammie sit with her. That was the last straw for me. I told everybody I was going to un-invite Sammie, and asked my parents to. They said no, probably because they are good friends with her parents. Anyways, we got into this e-mail war after my party because she found out from one of my friends that I didn't like her. She demanded to know why. Next thing I know, we're sworn enemies, and she shows Jenna (most of our e-mails I dissed Jenna) my e-mails PRINTED OUT!!

I told her it was low, actually lower than low. What can I do to get her back?? I REALLY WANT TO

[iTs eMiLeE]

that girl is meannnnn... you should TP their house.. and then when they get their papper in the morning put like a free sampel of shampoo... but... put nair in it:-D hahaha .. i donno that might be a lil mean.. haha

[sweetest-emotion]

don't do that!!! its bad karma man...just tell the girl how u feel! seriously. or just ignore her, that way she has no ammunition to get back at u. or just make an even better friend. when a so called "friend" does that to u, she no friend at all, and u're better off w/o her.

[IIO__oII]

umm. it sounds like.. u were the one who started to hurt this friendship? cause u were the one that said to everyone that u werent gonna invite sammy to ure party? maybe that really humiliated her..? so she got out of control/jealous and showed all the emails.. i agree with sweetest_emotion-try to talk to her. maybe shes hurting inside and misses u, but is shy to say that out loud. =]
hope everyting goes good with u two

[babygrl23]

I have a friend just like that Sammie girl. She used to be my best friend. She lies about me and spreads rumors. There's nothing you can do if someone wants to behave in a manor that is uncomfortable to other people. My advice is BE THE BIGGER PERSON. That way, in the end, she'll come out looking like the jacka** and you'll come out looking like a good person!

[01BEBE]

Being the bigger person is always hard. I happen to get involved with everythihng. I"m like.. one of those girls who knows everything that goes on..[between the group that i hang out with] so it happens quite a bit. Usually we patch things up within weeks or sometimes months. But a friend like that truely isnt a good friend. Unless she gives you a good reason and talks it through with you, i think .. ugh, i know getting back at people is wrong, but its me. i do stuff like that. >< Rumors.. bad..but yeah. Do little things.. but not really to her. Don't talk to her, avoid her ect. Or if your coragous enough,be the more dominant person. =3 always fun. get people to hate her. i do that.. but its really bad. it maeks htings worse.. i jsut cant help it sometimes.. okay most of the time

[xsweetdreams12x]

I keep forgetting things in my topics. Well, we had a major fight which included a closer friend. After that fight, we made up ((or so I thought)) and Sammie no longer sat at my table. That kept or relationship pretty distant. But since she was my friend ((or so I thought)) at the time, I felt obligated to invite her.

[ichiban]

I think you should talk to her nd make things up .. tell hur what you really mean .. nd yeahhh .. hope it werks out

[KaMuElA_sWeEtIe]

damn ... this chick is a full on bitch huh? well, n.e waiz uhh ... i don't reallie know what u kan do to get her back ... but like did she diss n.e one in the emails she wrote to you? if she did you can take that and print that out ... uhh ... maybe you can humiliate her somehow, pull a prank on her ... like somethin' reallie shame ... i dunno?

[babygurl_xtacy]

whoa.. that was mean. shes such a bitch.. try to turn people back against her?

[redpeony]

How old are you guys?

Because I remember when I was about 10-13, I knew nothing about anything, thought I did and was the biggest b!tch in the world. Then we got into a lot of fights, cried a lot, learned a lot and the ones who stuck around and got through it with you are your friends.

It's just a phase. It hurts a lot I know, but once you get over this you'll be laughing to yourself thinking how stupid everyone was, and how much you've learned and are glad you learned (as to not make the mistake again).

Don't get back at her. She might think you're weak or whatever now, but in a couple of years she'll know that you were the strong one and she was a complete loser. Otherwise it might be the other way around.

[emrzz09]

I'd feel well...betrayed. And upset. But dont get back at her, because she'd know that you were mad, which would make her feel happy.

[Squeegie]

i would be depressed and probably do drugs and get drunk or something to get my mind off of things..this is just me and i dont think i set a good example so just keep going past this post...lol

[xsweetdreams12x]

Yes she did diss my friends. 2 of my closest friends she called them *Wanna-be's* and I didn't tell them, until she told Jenna.

[Behbi_Simplicity]

umm. it sounds like.. u were the one who started to hurt this friendship? cause u were the one that said to everyone that u werent gonna invite sammy to ure party? maybe that really humiliated her..? so she got out of control/jealous and showed all the emails.. i agree with sweetest_emotion-try to talk to her. maybe shes hurting inside and misses u, but is shy to say that out loud. =]
hope everyting goes good with u two

yup! she`s right

[babixlilac]

it would b hard to do dis..buh jus ignore her buh realli wanna get bac..maybe steal her boi?

[sheepy]

umm. it sounds like.. u were the one who started to hurt this friendship? cause u were the one that said to everyone that u werent gonna invite sammy to ure party? maybe that really humiliated her..? so she got out of control/jealous and showed all the emails.. i agree with sweetest_emotion-try to talk to her. maybe shes hurting inside and misses u, but is shy to say that out loud. =]
hope everyting goes good with u two

yeah i agree.

[islandkiss]

it seems like you both contributed to this lets get her scheme.

try to talk to your parents about what she has done to you.. maybe they'll reconsider.

[legallybrunette1...]

yea wat ally is sayin is ALL true......i m ONE of the people Sammie dissed o no ally didnt start the fite sammie did she started by callin me and mah other friend wanna bes which started all 3 of us furious! she doesnt have ne respect tats y we didnt want her to come!

[sheddingtears]

TALK TO HER. Tell her how you feel even if you're the first. You'll set things out.

[Devastation]

wow stole your bus seat, thats low.

[Counting]

TP her house, write mean things with shaving cream over the cars or her bedroom window, throw rocks at her, etc..xD..BUT in real life, it sounds like you sort of started this whole thing. You should really just talk to both of your friends and try to apologize.

[inthemudhole]

Grr, that's LOW.
Hm.
Can't think of anything for revenge.

EDIT//
Wow, this is old.

[lilanglbaby418]

I know you want to get revenge.. I used to have fights like this with my ex-friends.. but this year for some reason we are friends again.. lol anyways, don't do anything you might regret later. Just try to talk to her and tell her what you're feeling. I hope things work out!

[captured_serenit...]

talk about the situtation...it helps...but you have to consider the consequences but dont worry, i think it will all be flushed and things would be better...