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 Jun 10 2004, 04:12 AM
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 lovesick+  Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,104  |
sex..is a beautiful thing..it's supposed to feel great and stuff..
but is it rite? even before marriage? i'm not gonna lie. it has crossed my mind.. but how am i going to continue being pure until i'm married? is it ok?...is it worth it? 
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Jun 10 2004, 04:16 AM
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 aint the world lovely? Group: Member Posts: 228 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,602 |
personally i think it depends on the person. im all for not having premarital sex but hey thats just me. maybe in a couple years ill feel different. but its really up to you. everyone person is gonna look at it differently.
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Jun 10 2004, 05:33 AM
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I dunno... I'm to young to think abt that anyway
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Jun 10 2004, 05:51 AM
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 Master Debater Group: Member Posts: 1,066 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,719 |
What's so unpure about sex?
I mean, casual humpidy-hump sex every day with multiple partners may be unpure; but there's nothing wrong with some good ol' loving. Just be extra careful and know your partner well, it's not worth getting diseased/pregnant over. ...and in my opinion, marrying somone you've never had sex with is kinda creepy. |
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Jun 10 2004, 06:59 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
hmm... heh before marriage? hmm.. well i never experienced of the word "sex" but... if u love him and u think is right to have sex, then go for it.... but u prolly gona regret wen u marry someone in the next 5 to 10 years... cus that`z wat happened to my friend...she was mad and say stuff like "omg why did i ever had sex with that creep" so yeah think again before u go for it.
. . i dont know if this is wat ur asking for, but yeah...heh
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Jun 10 2004, 09:07 AM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
I don't think it's worth having sex before you're married. you put yourself in the risk of getting STDs and getting pregnant. I'm waiting. lol.
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Jun 10 2004, 09:32 AM
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 SoMehOw iT sEeMs CoLdeR nOw.. Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,718 |
i used to be all "ill never have sex til im married" n all that.. but that was back when i was like 12.. im 15 now n still a virgin.. but i kno i wont make it til im married. i say if you care about the person, trust the person, and be careful and smart about it.. then its ok.
but for all these lil 13 year old girls.. around here goin out makin out w. random guys n havin sex n all that... thats jes not right... 
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Jun 10 2004, 09:54 AM
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Master Debater Group: Member Posts: 1,066 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,719 |
QUOTE I don't think it's worth having sex before you're married. you put yourself in the risk of getting STDs and getting pregnant. I'm waiting. lol. Yeah, cause the risk of you getting STDs shots to 0 once you're married. And if you're married, your guy friend will most likely think it's a good time to tell you he's diseased. And all married people are ready for babies. *sarcasm sarcasm sarcasm* As long as someone isnt trying to have a baby when they're not married, i'm alright with it all. But if a couple actually wants a baby and tries for one, those f00ls better be teh marriedz0rz. |
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Jun 10 2004, 09:58 AM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
i odn't think waiting till marrage is right actually. if its the right time, if the time comes i think you'll know it and it will be right whether you are 15 or 50
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Jun 10 2004, 12:07 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i dunno i think its better after marriage.. cuz thats when u know if u get pregnant u can support the baby and raise a family
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Jun 10 2004, 12:14 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
whatever you want... your still young right? i say it is a great thing... it pulls the relationship closer too? as long as u think u've found the right one..
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Jun 10 2004, 12:33 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
it depends on YOU! there is no right age to start having sex...when you feel ready and comfortable and have the RIGHT person to lose it too, all the power to you...if you decide not to wait until marriage USE PROTECTION! that way you can stay as pure as you want to for marriage lol...
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Jun 10 2004, 01:59 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
yehh it depends on that person... but i choose to wait till marriage.. cuz to me.. its gonna be more special..
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Jun 10 2004, 02:05 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 228 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,737 |
i'm waiting :]
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Jun 10 2004, 04:27 PM
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 Pimp Status Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,200 |
Its all up to you... I personally think its worth it... I know im saving myself for marriage.... Im even staying away from oral sex because i want to be that pure... I was always told to think of my verginity as my gift to my future wife... Other then love, what gift represents more to a girl than you as a whole??? I cant think of anything better to give my future wife because she'll have me and she'll have me like no one else did... Thats just how i look at things...
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Jun 11 2004, 03:13 PM
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 LunchboxXx Group: Member Posts: 1,789 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,810 |
QUOTE(kyootE_krn_bebe @ Jun 10 2004, 4:12 AM) but how am i going to continue being pure until i'm married? you're human. you never had purity. |
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Jun 11 2004, 03:41 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,588 |
I guess it's better after marriage, cus then you really know you love that person and won't regret it.
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Jun 11 2004, 03:54 PM
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 advanced newbie... S2 Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752 |
well i am wating till im married (my ass!) im not even going to marry. so i'll stay virgin for liike... LIFE.
 well, i guess everyone has their own opinions, but perosnally, i think it's better to have sex after ur married cause its like... intimate... and yea...  i ono!! anywaystalking about lil 13 year olds macking with like random guys all the time. ew.  i mean, theres little 12 year olds going around and macking/having some "fun" with old seniors in my city. worst part? they're hoes at such a young age. and also, they go to my damn school. good thing im out of middle shcool now!! im going to make their lives living hell when they get to highschool, i swear. jkjk
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Jun 11 2004, 03:57 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
it's a wonderful thing when shared with someone that is special .. it would be nice to wait til marriage so you're still pure .. but if you feel the time is right and you're comfortable then there's no reason why you can't .. but just be very careful .. don't rush it .. it's something that comes naturally .. you should make sure you know that person very well in all different levels so things won't be different afterwards .. at least in a bad way .. you don't want to have that experience with someone who'll drop you the next day and you'll regret it .. you want it to be nice and memorable .. with someone you love and care about dearly ..
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Jun 12 2004, 08:00 AM
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lovesick+ Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,104 |
QUOTE(ryfitaDF @ Jun 11 2004, 3:13 PM) you're human. you never had purity. wow...good point..hahaa
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Jun 12 2004, 12:21 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,412 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,012 |
u think that "making out" and "sex" is the same thing? hmm...
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Jun 12 2004, 05:22 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 143 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,918 |
i had pre-marital sex...i have to say i kinda do regret it....i mean when you have sex it is just like giving your bf/gf a cookie...and that cookie represents your virginity! and when you have sex after marrige it is like giving them a whole jar of cookies (or so i have heard) because sex is the number one sign of love and if you have sex after marrige it shows you wanted to wait so you could give your love 100% to your spouse...and i think that is a LITTLE more romantic...but it is up to the person
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Jun 12 2004, 05:26 PM
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 Miss Alice Group: Member Posts: 1,257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,454 |
you shouldnt have sex until you are ready to take care of a child....whenever that may be....
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Jun 12 2004, 06:05 PM
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i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
i know a lot of teenagers who wants to have sex before marriage cus they know that even tho they marry... sometimes marriage doesnt last forever...so they think they can do watever they want, so they sex...thats wat most teenagers think today.. about 54% of my friends are like that... like me, i want to have sex wen i get married cus thats wen i know hes the one to stay with me forever.
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Jun 12 2004, 06:23 PM
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 I wanna be roman Group: Member Posts: 1,844 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 989 |
I'm waiting. Sex is a gift, so why would you want to throw that away?
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