I got him back but i need to regain his trust ?, How do i do that ? |
 Mar 4 2007, 04:18 AM
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 Heykidd. <3  Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,701  |
As much as i don't wanna doubt him & everything; Things hasn't been the same as before.
I've been wanting this for so long, just to be with him again. I knew deep down he still liked me & just never admitted it. His friends talked to him more & more so he would just seriously tell the truth. So i guess the truth came out & yet he just doesn't trust me. If i were him, i wouldn't trust me either. What do i do to regain his trust back ? I know it'll take time, but any suggestions ? |
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Mar 4 2007, 09:55 AM
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Well, why doesn't he trust you?
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Mar 4 2007, 11:10 AM
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 Linds, I love you.. Yeah, well.. I love me too. Jp. Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 506,705 |
Well I dont know.
Maybe you should tell us why he isnt trusting you. Obviously you know because you said you wouldnt trust you either if you were him. So fill us in, hun. |
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Mar 4 2007, 01:19 PM
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Heykidd. <3 Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,701 |
Well, about 6 months ago, I broke up with him because i just couldn't deal with everything.
So; we tried being friends but it didn't work for me. I still loved him & everything. I tried so hard to get him back but he would just deny how he felt. Then finally, a couple days ago; his friends told him, "We already know you still like her, you don't have to hide it anymore." He's not that open about his feelings & I guess he once was with me ? & I ruined that. I guess he got hurt pretty badly. So he doesn't trust me as much as before. |
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Mar 4 2007, 01:25 PM
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 All The Girlies Say I'm Pretty Fly For A White Guy Group: Member Posts: 1,944 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,858 |
So he doesn't trust you because you guys broke up?
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Mar 4 2007, 01:37 PM
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Heykidd. <3 Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,701 |
Practically.
Because after that, i went out with other guys. ><; I know, i'm stupid & all. But i knew that i still liked him. After he would deny it, it just hurts me. . . & I guess i go out with other guys. Ughh. Help ? |
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Mar 4 2007, 02:59 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 283 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 499,850 |
you DON'T love him. Please, stop abusing the word! If you loved him like you just proclaimed, you wouldn't have done that. Same goes to the other cBans who declares their love for their other partner after cheatning on her/him.
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Mar 4 2007, 03:22 PM
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QUOTE(krnxswat @ Mar 4 2007, 2:59 PM)  you DON'T love him. Please, stop abusing the word! If you loved him like you just proclaimed, you wouldn't have done that. Same goes to the other cBans who declares their love for their other partner after cheatning on her/him. Omg, I completely agree... You people are pathetic... |
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Mar 5 2007, 02:40 AM
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QUOTE(krnxswat @ Mar 4 2007, 12:59 PM) you DON'T love him. Please, stop abusing the word! If you loved him like you just proclaimed, you wouldn't have done that. Same goes to the other cBans who declares their love for their other partner after cheatning on her/him. even though you cheated on someone, you could still love them, you just made a mistake. i never personally cheated on my bf, but i know someone who did. she deeply regrets it but she was very hurt and too confused but theres no doubt in my mind that she doesnt love him. its also not cheating when you guys already broke up and you saw other guys after him. so i dont understand why hed be mad or why he wouldnt trust you. |
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Mar 5 2007, 03:32 AM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
QUOTE(c4rL4 @ Mar 4 2007, 4:18 AM) If i were him, i wouldn't trust me either. What do i do to regain his trust back ? I know it'll take time, but any suggestions ? I hate it when people answer there own questions. Why did he not trust you in the first place? There, the equation is now in the lowest form. QUOTE(krnxswat @ Mar 4 2007, 2:59 PM) you DON'T love him. Please, stop abusing the word! If you loved him like you just proclaimed, you wouldn't have done that. Same goes to the other cBans who declares their love for their other partner after cheatning on her/him. A selfish act does not disqualify love. How is it that you know that she doesn't love him? Because she went behind his back? Because she did something she wanted to instead of thinking about him first? Basically what you're saying is that if you do something to lose the trust of an individual that you love, the love is therefore lost. Wrong. So, it is very possible that she loves him. As much as I hate relationship questions like this...I can't just sit back and accuse her of being an idiot. |
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Mar 6 2007, 04:23 PM
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Heykidd. <3 Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,701 |
I didn't cheat on him. 0_o
ergh. i just needed a break from everything. & so did he. we just became friends and i dated other people but i knew i still loved him ? well, that topics closed. i guess ? he just asked me out because his friends to give me another chance. -_- he wasn't forced but i guess he just did, for fun ? :/ Oh wells. |
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