I was used Options

[hershey-kissesz]

In August, I met a decent guy. Brought him home to meet my family and my friends. We moved pretty fast, and we weren't even exclusive. By fast, I mean going to 1st,2nd,3rd, but he didnt want to go all the way. At first the reason was that he didn't want to hurt me. Weeks later, the reason was that he didn't see himself having fun doing it. Then finally he said he didn't want to lose his virginity to someone he didnt know.

We saw each other weeks after and he kissed me, out of complete randomness. I was confused more than anything, and more confused when he brought me to a deserted area and we ended up doing everything, except all the way.

An hour later he texted saying how he didnt know why he let me do that to him ( and i dont know what hes talking about, because he was the one that started it all, and it was almost by force ) and said he didnt even like me and hoped to never see me again. I said I didn't understand, and he said some bullshit about how he was testing me to see if I did it, and if I did, it meant Id do it to just anyone. Then said, "good bye forever"

I responded saying how he wasn't just "anyone" to me, and he had no right to test or judge anyone. And some other stuff. He never responded back.

I need some feedback with this.

[*a painefull euphoria*]

tell him hes a mother f**ker.

and maybe hes using reverse psycology on you.making you feel bad for stuff he did.
hes a bloody moron

[DORKalicious]

WHAT A JERK. he needs to get over himself. it's not like you were the only one doing it you know, i hope you don't feel bad about this at all- dont let his retardedness get to you.

[*yrrnotelekktric*]

^ yeah. that`s completely wrong of him.
if you can, meet up with him in person and
tell him everything you feel. and if he still acts shady
then just let him be.

[Serendipity]

Psh. Forget him, and move on with your life.
Don't bother wasting your time on people like this.

[_sarcastic_]

move on, he's not worth feeling bad about.
he's a complete jerkface...if you so happen to meet him, slap him in the face.

[iDecay]

Kick him where it hurts and throw him into a dumpster! >=[

[*a painefull euphoria*]

move on, he's not worth feeling bad about.
he's a complete jerkface...if you so happen to meet him, slap him in the face.

yeah if u ever see him in public again with a girl just be like.
he likes to take advantage of girls and them blame them for it like a rapist and see what there reaction is

[hershey-kissesz]

thanks guys (: .. i really appreciate the feedback. he really is a complete a-hole, and I was warned from the very start by a friend, but I wanted to see for myself and gave him the benefit of the doubt. I chose not to judge him so quickly from the start, and this is what I get in return.

lol I was planning to have a couple of friends jump him tomorrow, but two wrongs cant make a right, right? Eh, idk. What do you think.

Or I could personally confront him, but I'm afraid what he'll do since he said "he hopes to never see me again"

[malimars]

WOW HE is a PRICK!!...most guys that do stuff like that is cuz he is embarresed of doing it and dont wanna face u for a bit OR was like u said " using u" which he obviously was and will most likely try a do again after this sh*t blows over!..I hope ur not just gonna take that tho you should get him back in a way thats gonna hurt him like he did to u

[oXMuhNirvanaXo]

Step on his foot..

:-)

[Tell Your Gf Im ...]

Why do I find it funny that all the members here are on the girls side? Why bash on the guy? I'm sure he has it faults, but it's not entirely his fault. Does he deserve to be blamed 100 percent? I don't think so. You're as stupid for letting him do that to you. Learn from this mistake. You little slut.

[DORKalicious]

^ your username speaks for itself, and don't call her a slut.