anal sex 101, slightly revised to be more appropriate |
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 Oct 7 2005, 01:17 PM
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 creepy heather  Group: Official Member Posts: 4,208 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,580  |
condom(s) - never EVER ever EVER EVER EVER have unprotected anal sexual intercourse. it is just stupid. there are micro-organisms that live in the intestines. if these get into the urinary tract, they live there, build up, and cause a urinary tract infection (UTI). AND LET ME TELL YOU.. UTI's ARE NOT FREAKIN FUN. lubricant - my favorite would be one's own SALIVA, but as we all may know.. dry mouth is quite a prominent occurance when youre banging someone.. so my second place is ASTROGLIDE or other anal lubricants. things like water are NOT an option. water absorbs quite quickly and will leave you with a dry area sooner than you even begin. without a nice slippery area, anal penetration is guaranteed to be unsatisfactory. this is what often leads to people stating that they "dislike" anal intercourse. unfortunately, the anal passage is unable to produce a vast amount of fluid, as does the vaginal passage with vaginal fluids for what is referred to as a "wet" vulva. "dry sex," when the vagina freezes from producing vaginal secretions, is always UNPLEASURABLE. so think of it that way. and a rule of thumb: there is never enough lube. so never be afraid of going overboard, always be afraid of underboard. PATIENCE & TRUST - patience is a ding dong virtue. UNTIL a couple has become experienced in anal intercourse with each other, the individual being pentrated should ALWAYS have control of the situation. and when i say "experienced couple" i mean the same two single individuals. just because you and your ex always had great anal doesnt make you an expert on how your current lover is going to like it. it is time to start all over and let them teach you what feels good to them. always start off slow and smooth. always ask your partner if they are okay. always take your time. and for crying out loud NEVER GIVE INTO THE NONE EXISTANT PAIN THRESHOLD WHEN YOU ARE DRUNK.. you will regret it in the morning when your a-hole is pissed and sore and possibly even swollen. if you are the giver, NEVER EVER jam your cock into your partners ass. HOW WOULD YOU LIKE IT IF SOMEONE VIOLATED YOU AND TORE YOUR BUTTHOLE UP THAT WAY? just dont freakin do it. it hurts, and believe me, it isnt going to make your partner get giddy and say HEY DO THAT AGAIN !!!! youll probably get your booty wooped. after a few sessions, you and your partner will become trusting and relaxed with each other where anal intercourse can be a more natural and loving experience. listen to each other and learn to love the beauty and art that is anal penetration. happy ass ramming ! |
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Oct 7 2005, 02:05 PM
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Hahahaha. My boyfriend would probably enjoy reading this. I'm unwilling to try it... =\
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Oct 7 2005, 02:08 PM
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yerp! Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
I've been hit from the back. 
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Oct 7 2005, 02:11 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
Yeah being a guy, I don't think I'll try that. I mean who knows what goes on in there...
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| *mzkandi* |
Oct 7 2005, 02:16 PM
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*claps* Really good information. I remember my human sexual behavior teacher was saying how alot 70s porn would have raw anal sex. Like, in the butthole to vagina, in the butthole to the mouth.....ummm.....ewww. I dont think alot people realize how much harmful bacteria is in there.
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| *RiC3xBoy* |
Oct 7 2005, 06:23 PM
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Hmm, I never realized that there is no limit for how much lube you should use. Good Stuff.
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Oct 7 2005, 11:07 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
^ Think so.
That tearing up the buttholio made me smile. Thanks for the anal info. |
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Oct 7 2005, 11:13 PM
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 i lost weight with Mulder! Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,070 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 79,019 |
wow. well that clears a lot of things up.
heather, it sounds like this comes from personal experience. care to enlighten us? 
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Oct 8 2005, 10:21 AM
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creepy heather Group: Official Member Posts: 4,208 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,580 |
thats sort of besides the point
 just lookin' out for you freaks 
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| *reflection* |
Oct 9 2005, 08:36 AM
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thanks for the info
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Oct 9 2005, 05:43 PM
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So... does it really hurt less with all that lube?
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| *mzkandi* |
Oct 9 2005, 05:44 PM
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^ I've heard it does but I dont speak from experience because I havent done the whole butt sex thing.
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Oct 9 2005, 06:01 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
^^I feel that lube makes everything feel better
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Oct 9 2005, 06:13 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,614 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,903 |
Yep yep .. thanks for the info.
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Oct 9 2005, 06:31 PM
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creepy heather Group: Official Member Posts: 4,208 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,580 |
QUOTE(AngelicEyz00 @ Oct 9 2005, 5:43 PM) So... does it really hurt less with all that lube?  lube..helps..if its your first time you get a sort of numb feeling, though-to where you don't feel the pain as much. |
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Oct 14 2005, 05:18 PM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
Very very reluctant to try it...
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Oct 14 2005, 05:25 PM
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 Don't wake ghostie. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,546 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,405 |
That sounds completely uncomfortable... I guess some people like it though.
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Oct 14 2005, 07:20 PM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
eww...
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Oct 15 2005, 11:33 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
^Eww, closeminded prudes.
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Oct 16 2005, 03:04 AM
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 ^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
From a guy's perspective, its not really worth the effort. The reason why it may feel better than regular intercourse is because a girl's ass is obviously tighter, especially if she has an active sex life.
I like being able to move around a bit. Not bite my lip because I'm pushing in as hard I can and praying that the condom doesn't break. If I'm hittin' you from the back, I'll pass on the anal sex. Hell, lay on your back and join me in the missionary. |
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Oct 17 2005, 08:38 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
^Yay, I like you Brandon. Missionary is lovely =]
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Oct 18 2005, 08:26 AM
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^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
I like you, too. Lets meet up in DC one weekend and hang out soemtime.
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| *disco infiltrator* |
Oct 18 2005, 12:56 PM
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I don't think I'll ever try that..not cause I'm close-minded, just..ow...
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Oct 18 2005, 01:04 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Designer Posts: 374 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 196,246 |
Thanks for the info... I've tried it and I personally do not enjoy it, but hey, maybe it's because I need to be more patient? Who knows..?
...to all of the people who say they will never try it... I would bet that over half of you will try it at some point or another... I was on of those girls that was like no way, I will not ever do that, however, I did! Boys can be very persuasive... 
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| *tweeak* |
Oct 18 2005, 03:27 PM
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^Don't underestimate my stubbornness. If I decide not to try it, then it's very like that I never will.
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