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is this love?, how do you know if this is really love?
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post Jul 10 2005, 11:19 PM
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i been wit my bf for almost one year.we know everything about each other. he's lile my bestfriend.

i was wondering if i really love him? my emotions keep changing. like lets say.. somtimes i love him. other times i like him. and somtimes i wanna break up with him? for no reason.

what do you think this really means? but then i cant imagine him with another girl.

have you guys ever felt like this?
 
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post Jul 10 2005, 11:57 PM
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well i think you know that you LOVE him. like as a friend, as a best friend...but you dont know if it's LOVE or not right? yea.... i dont know, its hard to explain you just know. yea you sometimes might feel you want to break up with him. cause you're just so frustrated.

but a LOT of couples go through that stage, of just wanting to break up. and if couples can overcome that feeling of "hate" i guess you could say....it makes the relationship stronger...

and in your profile it says you're only 14/15 so it could be puppy love, it could be true love... just dont go too serious. just be happy with the relationship =)
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 12:00 AM
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If it's love, you know. You don't even need to ask. And how the hell would we know if you love him; they're your emotions.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 12:02 AM
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^ i agree only u know ur feelings and stuff
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 12:07 AM
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QUOTE(Azarel @ Jul 10 2005, 10:00 PM)
If it's love, you know. You don't even need to ask. And how the hell would we know if you love him; they're your emotions.
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i have to agree there. you can't ask us because there is really no way for us to answer that question for you.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 12:16 AM
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If it's love, you know. You don't even need to ask. And how the hell would we know if you love him; they're your emotions.

agreed. we cant tell you if you love him, its something you should know by yourself.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 01:36 AM
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ok LOVE is just this 4 lettered word that humans made up to express the simptoms caused by certain hormones. alright?

weather its "love" or not,..does it really matter? there IS NO perfect definition of love. its nice and it makes u feel mushy inside but is 1 word really that important? i dont see people worrying about the word "poop" as much, which is also 4 letters.

to me..i think it only matters that he makes u happy...and u want to be with him...love is just too simple a word..but holds too deep a meaning.
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 09:16 PM
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first of all i do think that we cant help you with ur emotions like other people are saying

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ok LOVE is just this 4 lettered word that humans made up to express the simptoms caused by certain hormones. alright?

weather its "love" or not,..does it really matter? there IS NO perfect definition of love. its nice and it makes u feel mushy inside but is 1 word really that important? i dont see people worrying about the word "poop" as much, which is also 4 letters.

to me..i think it only matters that he makes u happy...and u want to be with him...love is just too simple a word..but holds too deep a meaning.


i agree
 
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post Jul 11 2005, 09:21 PM
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QUOTE(Azarel @ Jul 11 2005, 12:00 AM)
If it's love, you know. You don't even need to ask. And how the hell would we know if you love him; they're your emotions.
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lols yea, i agree.
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 01:31 AM
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QUOTE(LittleLulu @ Jul 10 2005, 10:36 PM)
ok LOVE is just this 4 lettered word that humans made up to express the simptoms caused by certain hormones. alright?

weather its "love" or not,..does it really matter? there IS NO perfect definition of love. its nice and it makes u feel mushy inside but is 1 word really that important? i dont see people worrying about the word "poop" as much, which is also 4 letters.

to me..i think it only matters that he makes u happy...and u want to be with him...love is just too simple a word..but holds too deep a meaning.
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nicely said. that's EXACTLY what I've thought for my intire life...but I have problems actually making it sound nice rolleyes.gif lol, anway, I totally agree
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 02:10 AM
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if you have to even take a minute to question yourself if you really love him or not, then you're probably not in love.
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 02:13 AM
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i hate girls...but i love em you know they're so confusing they're like i think we're meant to be together NO WE"RE NOT a guy can be with any girl he can afford so its up to you rly its how YOU feel he'll stay with you as long as you don't act different or nobody else comes along
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 01:23 PM
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QUOTE(anubis @ Jul 12 2005, 2:10 AM)
if you have to even take a minute to question yourself if you really love him or not, then you're probably not in love.
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I agree with her. You don't need to question yourself. When you're in love, you're in love. Ain't nothing to do.
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 03:30 PM
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QUOTE(Azarel @ Jul 11 2005, 12:00 AM)
If it's love, you know. You don't even need to ask. And how the hell would we know if you love him; they're your emotions.
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Yup. Come on. You dont need to question that.
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 04:33 PM
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QUOTE(LEDO_D0RKETTE @ Jul 12 2005, 12:23 PM)


I agree with her. You don't need to question yourself. When you're in love, you're in love. Ain't nothing to do.
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dude.

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post Jul 12 2005, 06:16 PM
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QUOTE(Azarel @ Jul 11 2005, 12:00 AM)
If it's love, you know. You don't even need to ask. And how the hell would we know if you love him; they're your emotions.
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^agreed. no one else can tell you if its love. YOU feel it YOU should know it
 
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post Jul 12 2005, 06:23 PM
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QUOTE(enyceXaddiction @ Jul 12 2005, 5:16 PM)
^agreed. no one else can tell you if its love. YOU feel it YOU should know it
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I think she's describing it to us, and asking us our opinion. Not asking us to read her mind.

But, Love isn't a question, love is that passion that you will just KNOW.
 
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