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 May 28 2005, 10:43 PM
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 tk prt yr hd  Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,330  |
Do you believe in love at our age?Meaning for me around 14-15? And when I say love I mean REAL love. Like true love, not lust, infactuation or sex..I mean like love. Not "omg i think my new bf is cute hehehehehe!!111" Love isn't just a feeling or emotion...it's also going through trials and obstacles with someone and still holding on because you care so much about them. You care about them more than your own self and you can't get them off your mind...do you really think it can be real love? And do you think the feelings of the two people involved can last through everything and never ever fade away?
...What do you think? |
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
May 28 2005, 10:45 PM
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Nah I doubt it. But they say you can fall in love at any age. I mean true love is like Romeo and Juliet. They died from love.
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May 28 2005, 10:48 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
possibly. but i think most teenagers arent capable of it. sadly -_-
teenagers are getting the misconception about what love is truly about. but i think there has to be some people that understand. so for the most part, no. |
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May 28 2005, 10:55 PM
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 Change Gon Come Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
QUOTE(iNyCxShoRT @ May 28 2005, 10:45 PM) Nah I doubt it. But they say you can fall in love at any age. I mean true love is like Romeo and Juliet. They died from love.  Juliet was like 14 and Romeo was like twice her age.. something like that? Anyways, I believe love can be experienced around 14-15, because I've experienced it at 13. Interesting, isn't it? And I concur with the person above me. Love is a mature thing. So, in theory, only mature people can experience it. I mean mature as in not a 2 week infatuation. Then again, I might be wrong. *shrug* |
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May 28 2005, 11:04 PM
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tk prt yr hd Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,330 |
Yah, I think I'm truly in love, and it's not "Zomgz lololz shes so hawt yo"
I really care for her and "love" her. I also think the word lvoe is way overused in society today. No one even knows what it menas anymore *sigh* I'm going to have to say I do belive in love at our age though, if you are mature enough to know what it really is like DaToNeViEtBoI916 somewhat said. |
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May 28 2005, 11:19 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
hasn't there been topics like this already?
it all depends. you may be able to "love" at our age, and you may not. |
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May 28 2005, 11:22 PM
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Yeah. I'd have to say so. If there's someone who is always there, always supportive, and just amazing in every way, then yeah.
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May 28 2005, 11:58 PM
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 I DEMAND PIGGIES!! Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,822 |
No, i don't think its possible...i met my bf when i was 14, and now i'm 16 and we're still together, but trust me, we had a bumpy road together. We went through 2 breakups, trust issues [which i still have with him], and all that jazz. I love him and he loves me, but when we started going out, we didn't know much about each other and we both started this relationship thinking it wouldn't go past a few months. My point is, it took us both a while to actually love each other. Kids our age [when we first started going out] jump into things just to be able to say that they have a bf or gf, rather than for love.
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May 29 2005, 12:09 AM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
some people are capable, IMO, and some are not. just depends on the person i guess. my first love was at 14-15 but, who knows if that was even love...i hate his ass now
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May 29 2005, 02:16 AM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
From my personal experience, I don't think that the love that we feel is the same as the love older couples feel. I mean..yes we are capable of loving something, or someone, but we're not capable of the deep love that older couples share.
Most teens jump into the whole love thing not knowing what love really is. I know I jumped into it w/ my ex; we didn't know what it was and we thought it was simply us saying how much we "love" each other and how much we care for each other. Most teens just want a gf/bf to say that they have one. It's rather comical if you think about it. So to answer your question, yes we are capable of loving something or someone with our hearts, but not the kind of deep, true love that lasts forever and ever. We're too young and inexperience to have that kind of love. |
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May 29 2005, 10:36 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
some are capable not all. if two ppl are going out for a month and then starts saying 'i love yous' then i don't think they really mean it. i've been with my bf for NEARLY a year now, i love him and he loves me.
 true love is when you know it'll last, and you constantly think about them, and your feeling for them is like undescribable |
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May 29 2005, 01:49 PM
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tk prt yr hd Group: Member Posts: 184 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,330 |
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ May 29 2005, 11:36 AM) some are capable not all. if two ppl are going out for a month and then starts saying 'i love yous' then i don't think they really mean it. i've been with my bf for NEARLY a year now, i love him and he loves me. true love is when you know it'll last, and you constantly think about them, and your feeling for them is like undescribable Hehe, that's what I feel. We've been going out for like a year now and I really "love" her, really. |
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May 29 2005, 04:22 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
Of cousre it's possible to fall in love at that age.. but it really all depends, i guess.
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May 29 2005, 04:45 PM
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 jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
idk, it really depends.. like if she had cancer, and was going through kemo.. (or however you spell) would you still be by her side and take gentle care of her? i mean it really depends.. cause love endures no matter what. it is definitely not infatuation or lust. but idk it depends how long you've known her, etc i guess. it may be puppy love
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May 29 2005, 04:50 PM
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 portami via Group: Member Posts: 467 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,187 |
"Love isn't just a feeling or emotion...it's also going through trials and obstacles with someone and still holding on because you care so much about them. You care about them more than your own self and you can't get them off your mind..."
Well, that sounds like me... |
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May 29 2005, 06:29 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
I think it's possible. Love really does involve lots of maturity and there aren't many teenagers who have that kind of maturity but I do believe that there are some.
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May 29 2005, 09:52 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,286 |
very debatable subject..
now that im older i think differently about it. you can have the right to love at any age.. but not everyone has the ability. love is incredibly powerful. powerful enough to destroy you or your partner. you do have to go through tough obstacles, tough enough to make u wanna give up but love give u the ability to carry on with the other cuz u care and u cuz u want to.. i agree with you.. its not only an emotion or feeling.. its beyond that kind of perspective trust me. when i was 14 i thought i fell in love with someone but only cuz he put ideas and words and feelings into my head to make me think i were in love, i was naive therefore easy to manipulate (yes my ex was horrible hehe) he's even pressure me into marrying him when we're older.. crazy freak lol but yeah i was terribly young, naive n i didnt even know who i was as a person. n love, even artificial love, can f*ck with ur head, can play games with you.. u have to know u love them.. n to know that u have to know who u are n how the world works. its terribly hard to explain =/ im not saying 14-15 yr olds are all immature lol not at all.. these days i find many young teenagers as mature n smart as i am.. i dunno im goin on too much bout ths subject and its mind twisting now ahah.. tc |
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May 30 2005, 02:01 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
Kids like us, doesn't really recongize what 'love' is. Love to them is just like having sex and saying that you have a boyfriend/girlfriend. To my friends, having boy/girlfriends is such a big deal, they just get more popular by how many relationships they have. To me, I think real love is just when 2 person love each other, who are willing to help each other and give each other opinions which makes our life so much easier. Not just giving each other pleasures which the both partners thinks are satisfying. Which really count is helping each other out and giving each other comforts. =) Immature kids thinks of the wrong side of the definition of Love. Maybe we shall go to some elementary school and give a lecture about what Love means ??
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May 30 2005, 02:41 PM
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reading all of that makes you never want to love it sounds so scary :P
can anyone give ant positibe input? |
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May 30 2005, 02:55 PM
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 Tasty. Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 |
totally. love can happen at ne age, wether u're 14 or 114... love is love. as long as its real, not infatuation. love is like u said: caring soo much for that person that you'd do ne thing for them, and you wanna be with them forever. as long as you really mean it, then yea, love is real. i'm 17, and i really think i could be in love, even though my friends all say i'm "too young" and "there's so many other guys to check out, why just him?". and the answer is simple: i love him.
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May 30 2005, 05:33 PM
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 ramble on... sing my song.. Group: Member Posts: 175 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 145,976 |
I believe in puppy love. When I was 15 I fell in love and wanted it to last forever. It didnt of course but I remember what I felt.
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May 30 2005, 05:36 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
typically, no...probably not; but there are always exceptions. some teens that grow up together like their whole lives who know anything and everything about each other can probably fall in love...but usually, at the age of 14 and 15, you haven't expierenced enough heartbreak or relationships in order to know what love is.
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May 30 2005, 06:26 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 144,726 |
Yes I believe in love at sixteen. I love my boyfriend so much. We have been through so much together. Put up with so much stuff, but we're still together because we care about it other so much. I think you can have love at any age, just when your younger, you just might not recognize it.
~Strwbry
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May 30 2005, 06:32 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 144,726 |
QUOTE(babycarrot @ May 29 2005, 9:52 PM) when i was 14 i thought i fell in love with someone but only cuz he put ideas and words and feelings into my head to make me think i were in love, i was naive therefore easy to manipulate (yes my ex was horrible hehe) he's even pressure me into marrying him when we're older.. crazy freak lol but yeah i was terribly young, naive n i didnt even know who i was as a person. n love, even artificial love, can f*ck with ur head, can play games with you.. u have to know u love them.. n to know that u have to know who u are n how the world works. its terribly hard to explain =/ wow the exact same thing to me. It was my freshman year and even thou i was older he was WAY more mature and into diffrent things and he manipulated me so much, i didnt think i could live with out him. He would manipulate me and decieve me to do what he wanted, then make it think it was my fault. It was horrible. It got so bad my parents had to step up and do something, and i fought against that but now im so thankful they did. Now im with a guy that i truly love and that truly loves me. Im so happy and couldnt ask for more. We want to get married after highschool. Its so awsome. and i think if i wouldnt have gone through that other relationship i might not appreciate what i have now as much.
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May 30 2005, 07:10 PM
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Who's to define love for you? Hm?
It's not so hard to love as it is to let yourself fall in love. You'll learn how to define love as you grow older. |
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