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Interracial Dating
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post Oct 7 2004, 09:38 PM
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I think there was a topic about this but I just want to add more to it.

First, do you agree with people dating outside their race?
Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?
What race do you prefer?
Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background?

Me, I've never dated anyone who was Portuguese or Caucasian. I've dated only Black and Hispanic guys. I find nothing wrong with it.
I have this friend who is Indian and he says he will never date anyone who wasn't Indian. And his parents don't allow it either.
 
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post Oct 7 2004, 09:43 PM
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so far ive only dated one person other than korean... she was flip... and the rest might have been just like half half but yeah she was the only pure flip i dated.. i have no problem with it =P its my choice and if someone has a say against it *EFF THEM*
 
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post Oct 7 2004, 09:49 PM
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i would gladly date out of my race, but i have yet to find someone to like me
 
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post Oct 7 2004, 10:08 PM
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i dont see anything wrong with it. i've dated some asian guys but not much. usually i go for white guys.
 
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post Oct 7 2004, 10:48 PM
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i see nothing wrong with it at all. only one of my boyfriends was partially my race. (i'm mixed like hell.) and so yeah. my boyfriend right now is caucasion (italian/irish) and i'm mixed like i said (flip, hawaiian, spanish, chinese). a little different eh? happy.gif
 
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post Oct 7 2004, 10:54 PM
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sometimes i just find it weird, like a white guy going out with an azn.. or a black guy going out with a white chick.. i'm not sayin this offensively i just find it weird sometimes..
 
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post Oct 7 2004, 11:15 PM
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people need to get off this race thing.

we are all one race. we are humans, the human race, we are just different variations. there is no black race, or white race, or asian race, no we are all the same race with variations. the black culture, the white culture, the asian culture..so yeah..get rid of the race stuff _dry.gif

and yes i would date anyone of any culture if i liked them enough.
 
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post Oct 7 2004, 11:57 PM
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First, do you agree with people dating outside their race? Why not? I think it can be a really rewarding experience because it forces you to step outside what you're used to: your usual customs, traditions, etc. You gain a deeper insight into things by learning and experiencing someone elses culture and lifestyle.
Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race? Arrrg... I hate this one. People harass me all the time about how I date black men saying I was a disgrace or that I was [insert race here]-washed or trying too hard be someone I'm not. Some people would even go as far to say that I was ashamed of my race. Just read my guestbook at my website. It's horrible. pinch.gif
Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background? Of course, already have and will continue to do so. Love has no boundaries...
 
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post Oct 8 2004, 12:00 AM
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yeah i do...who cares its up to you
 
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post Oct 8 2004, 12:04 AM
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First, do you agree with people dating outside their race? Why not?
Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?

yes. dont be racist. _dry.gif .. i dont see whats wrong with going out with another person from another race

Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background?
im filo. ive only gone out with one filo in my whole life. personally, i dont really like filos. lol. not that there's anything wrong with them. most filo guys are just not my type. right now im going out with a guy who has an american dad, korean mom and was born in korea. but he took on the caucasian side more.
 
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post Oct 8 2004, 01:28 AM
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ok i WUD date sm1 out of my race...im chinese n i've onli ever liked azn guys but its not that i dislike white guys...theres jus more of an attraction for me towards azns....although there was this guy i liked who was native/chinese ...but he looked reli native...but that ain't the point....*usher*justin.t* hahaha ok now thats hot

um.. if sm1 was to date a diff race.. honestly it looks weird but i've seen alot of it n i dont think its betrayall.. as far as i know.. mixed ppl r usualy smart AND hot...i think it has smthn to do wit the DNA..like if u had a kid wit ur relative.. the closer the 2 ppl r related the stupider n uglier the kid is .. ermm.gif ..but thats jus what my mom said...


and YES i WUD date sm1 who wasn't azn....no problem wit it...all depends on the person.-ality
 
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post Oct 8 2004, 05:15 AM
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I don't think there's anything wrong with interracial dating.

Some conservative parents may not allow it though for reasons I am not aware of.

My mom though, doesn't seem to want me to marry a Chinese... wink.gif She wants a white son-in-law...

I have dated my own race, I have dated white guys and Koreans. I don't really think there's a difference. So long as they're hot. tongue.gif
 
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post Oct 8 2004, 01:12 PM
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umm i see that all the time dont know why make a topic bout it but yeah it really doestn matter to me as long as you like the person its cool but so far i have been only going for asian girls lol! oh wells

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post Oct 8 2004, 03:51 PM
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blink.gif .... lol

yeh honestly it depends on the person.. all the hispanics here arent that attractive cuz all of them try to act gangster (gagnsta??) and then the black people that go to my school are completely racist..

its kinda complicated for where i live but in general i would date somebody other than my race.. even tho my parents want me to marry a white guy.. they understand that there are possibilities i might fall in love with someone thats not white..

wink.gif confused .. yeh i am.. lol
 
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post Oct 8 2004, 03:53 PM
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QUOTE(LiNHy POO @ Oct 7 2004, 11:08 PM)
i dont see anything wrong with it. i've dated some asian guys but not much. usually i go for white guys.

haha, me too. i prefer white guys. i see nothing wrong with interracial dating. in fact, i've dated a white guy before- and i prefer them over asian guys. eh, my mom would like me to date and marry a chinese guy, but it's really my decision. the race doesn't matter- its really their personality and if they're hot, haha
 
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post Oct 8 2004, 10:53 PM
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QUOTE(Oreo_bro @ Oct 8 2004, 12:15 AM)
people need to get off this race thing.

we are all one race. we are humans, the human race, we are just different variations. there is no black race, or white race, or asian race, no we are all the same race with variations. the black culture, the white culture, the asian culture..so yeah..get rid of the race stuff _dry.gif

and yes i would date anyone of any culture if i liked them enough.

I know that and I agree with you but not all humans think alike so thats why I made the topic.
 
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post Oct 8 2004, 11:05 PM
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uh i dont realy care. but all ive gone out with is mexican and black and white. ive never dated an asian bc...maybe bc i dont kno ne here.. _dry.gif

i agree with the whole not dating ur race is okay thing. they arent doing anything wrong and people who dont agree with it..i mean come on. we're all humans. we all have feelings, all the same stuff, and we all live under on nation. so come on. think about it
 
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post Oct 8 2004, 11:35 PM
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Im asian.. and Ive dated all white and hispanic guys. I think that people that are strictly dating their own race, are really insecure about themself :/I heard/read somewhere that being comfortable with youself= dating people that are different..
 
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post Oct 8 2004, 11:49 PM
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First, do you agree with people dating outside their race?

-sure i see nothin wrong w/ it

Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?

-no but i know in some cultures it is.

Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background?

-yea but ive dated mostly latinas.

i dont really think it matters.
 
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post Oct 9 2004, 05:57 PM
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i dont care for who i date. it shouldnt matter, adn what if your soul mate was a different race? would you date him then?
 
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post Oct 9 2004, 07:42 PM
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i think you should be able to date whoever you wanna date. race sex age... whatever.
 
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post Oct 9 2004, 08:39 PM
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First, do you agree with people dating outside their race?
Yeah, I don't know why it really matters what skin color the person that you date is..

Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?
No I don't think so.I think it's good that we are (for the most part) moving past the whole race thing...

Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background?
Yeah, I would. I'm white and I've never dated a white person so yeah
 
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post Oct 9 2004, 09:37 PM
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First, do you agree with people dating outside their race?
I don't have anything against it..
Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?
No
Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background?
Nope...I like sticking with my race...it's alright for other people just not me.
 
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post Oct 9 2004, 09:38 PM
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i think its completely fine. i dont prefer any race at all. i know hot white guys, hot black guys, hot asian, i even know a few hot mexicans. and i love those columbians <3


oh yah and this


First, do you agree with people dating outside their race?
yah

Do you feel if they do, they are sort of betraying their own race?
nope

Would you ever date someone who wasn't of your background?
sure, race doesnt define your personallity, and if it makes you happy to be with them why not
 
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post Oct 9 2004, 09:41 PM
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sometimes i dont...i know its a stoopid background thing but hey... im trying to stop...
 

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