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 Feb 2 2005, 09:12 PM
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My friend who I care soo freaking much about i recently found out she cuts. . and i cant stop crying and i dont know how to try and get her to stop some one help me please!
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Feb 2 2005, 09:13 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
There's not a whole lot you can do.
Even if you talk to her about it, she most likely won't stop. Maybe you should inform her parents, or I guess you could talk to her... I'm sorry about your situation. |
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Feb 2 2005, 09:14 PM
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 spanky Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 59,745 |
gawsh this is just such a depressing situation
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Feb 2 2005, 09:18 PM
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Tell someone...I can't really help. I've never cut and I don't really know anyone who does cut. Sorry. =\
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Feb 2 2005, 09:20 PM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
Oh Snaps, that is a hard situation. Hm... just keep talking to her about it. Ask her WHY she is cutting, then go solve that problem, try and make her happier. Sorry about your situation.
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Feb 2 2005, 09:21 PM
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spanky Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 59,745 |
thanks . . im trying im doing everything i can
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| *Kathleen* |
Feb 2 2005, 09:21 PM
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QUOTE gawsh this is just such a depressing situation Well that was helpful. QUOTE There's not a whole lot you can do. Even if you talk to her about it, she most likely won't stop. ^ I disagree. I think if you really just talk to her about it, you'll eventually get through to her. Just keep trying to talk to her about it and provide logical reasons why she shouldn't. |
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Feb 2 2005, 09:23 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
tell her parents...there isnt much you can do....the only one's who can help are her parents.
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Feb 2 2005, 09:26 PM
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spanky Group: Member Posts: 212 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 59,745 |
her parents found out about it so shes freaking out and doing it more
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Feb 2 2005, 09:28 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 17 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 94,709 |
so much for being anon. i just realised i was posting under my 'main name'
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Feb 2 2005, 09:39 PM
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RaWr! Group: Member Posts: 603 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 90,404 |
Threatend her you will cut yurself if she doesnt stop. Thats how i stopped my cousin. :(
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Feb 2 2005, 10:01 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
just try talking to her. tell her that no matter what, you are there for her. tell someone you trust, not on the internet, someone like a counselor or something. your friend might hate you, but its worth her life no?
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| *stephinika* |
Feb 3 2005, 12:04 AM
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^^
true. but yeah just talk to her and tell her how much its not worth it. the parents thing doesn't sound like the best idea though...that could backfire. |
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Feb 3 2005, 06:46 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 17 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 94,709 |
Ill do my best
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Feb 3 2005, 07:05 PM
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Ask her what's the problem..
if its about a person tell her to stop cutting herself, instead... cut that person |
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Feb 3 2005, 07:25 PM
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im confused
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Feb 3 2005, 07:25 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
QUOTE(Despise @ Feb 2 2005, 9:13 PM) There's not a whole lot you can do.  brie is right. she will probably not listen to you or anyone else. but tell her parents and tell her to see someone to help her with her problems.  but maybe if y'all are really close friends, she will listen to her if you talk to her enough. just try to convince her that cutting is not going to make anything better. it will probably just make things worse.
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Feb 3 2005, 08:16 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 17 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 94,709 |
I wish life was perfect
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Feb 4 2005, 12:24 AM
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try to talk her out of it. if she doesn't listen, tell her parents, teacher, consoler, or an adult.
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Feb 4 2005, 10:59 AM
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 dude i got gas Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,119 |
Tell smeone
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Feb 4 2005, 01:30 PM
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I used to cut. My friends didn't really have any impact on me when they told me to stop. Until one day, my friend cut herself for me. Than I realized how much they loved me and I tried to stop. But I would start hiding my cuts again.. It really took myself and a lot of strength to stop myself. But seriously.. show your friend how much people love her. Love is one of the most powerful things, and part of the reason I kept cutting is that my parents never cared nor gave a shit bout it.
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Feb 4 2005, 03:07 PM
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tell her how you REALLY feel...you love her and if she loves you she will stop or this isn't true friendship
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Feb 4 2005, 07:50 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(gponce10104 @ Feb 3 2005, 5:25 PM) im confused then get out of here |
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Feb 4 2005, 09:24 PM
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 07 isz coming Group: Member Posts: 333 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,490 |
just keep being there for her, like othrs said there's not much u can do..... good luck w/ tht
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Feb 5 2005, 02:55 AM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
maybe u should talk to her...does she tell u why shes doing that??tell her that u care so please stop...tell her that u care a lot...talk to her about a lot of stuff...make her smile...be there for her when she needs u..if she still cuts herself, tell her parents...
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