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 Nov 30 2004, 02:04 PM
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Cutting is like an addiction like drugs are addiction. You can never stop when you want. I've been cutting/carving for 3 yrs. It feels so good but I can't go on like this. I want to wear short sleeves. Ugh..Also I could go to a mental ward. I'm not going to tell my therapist because she will kill me..What should I do?
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Nov 30 2004, 02:18 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
omg.... what the heck..it feels good? what the lol why does it feel good?????? omg-_-;;; i dont want to be rude or mean, but i think you need to go to that place where you cannot cut yourself no more... and there is this treatment where you learn not to do those cutting stuff again... you should go see it... i think it takes about a month to finish the program. few of my friends are just like you and they really wanted to stop cause they were so addicted to it, so their family send them to this program... i have no clue what the name really is but it really worked it well cause my friends dont cut their arms no more whew for that-_-;;
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Dec 4 2004, 07:12 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 69 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,705 |
i understand the feeling hey ive been through that but i dont see it as enjoyable its just a way to cry and scream without tears. just tell urself u dont want scars and its a real stupid thing to do then eventually it will go off ur mind
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Dec 4 2004, 08:26 AM
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my best friend had the same problem once she cut her arm 121 times. it's really scary and dangerous. I think it's a good idea to tell your therapest b/c if you want to break that addiction, you're going to need to get help. I hope you quit!
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Dec 4 2004, 05:18 PM
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 GHETTO FABULOUS Group: Member Posts: 435 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,223 |
QUOTE(Dist0rtion_Within @ Nov 30 2004, 11:04 AM) Cutting is like an addiction like drugs are addiction. You can never stop when you want. I've been cutting/carving for 3 yrs. It feels so good Wow.. Maybe you're like one of those people who wasn`t born with any pain receptors? o.O |
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Dec 4 2004, 05:24 PM
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I think cutting is really bad. My friend Dana cuts and has been for 3 years and I honestly want her to stop because your blood is suppose to stay inside you and why cut, does it make you feel better about yourself or what? I just think that people who cut should stop because it's really bad and I think that they should tell someone about it who can maybe help them stop.
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Dec 4 2004, 05:26 PM
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I don't cut.
But I know that when I get a papercut, it hurts like hell. You have too much stress. I think you should talk it out... cutting is not the answer. |
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Dec 4 2004, 05:27 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 118 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,520 |
QUOTE(AzNxJenny91 @ Dec 4 2004, 5:26 PM) I don't cut. But I know that when I get a papercut, it hurts like hell. You have too much stress. I think you should talk it out... cutting is not the answer. You got that right...lol. Yeah paper cuts do hurt like hell. And they dont go away for like a few days. It hurts lol. |
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Dec 4 2004, 06:40 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
resist? find somethin else. put ice on ur wrist. it hurts and its not like..actually damaging NE thin. I wrote lots of poety and I do dark arts to be my release instead of cutting *i use to cut*. maybe u can try somethin else?
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Dec 4 2004, 06:44 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
try drawing cuts on yourself instead of actually doing it.
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Dec 4 2004, 07:00 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
stop cutting, find a new thing to relieve stress and pain . For an example - boxing , working out, yoga, punching a pillow...etc...
And if ur worried about ur scars showing up ... one u stop cutting and ur arms are all healed up, use cocoa butter to try to lessen the appearance of ur scars... YOU CAN STOP, IT JUST TAKES WILL POWER. |
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Dec 4 2004, 07:26 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
theres been a lot of topics made on this already
pain is good |
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Dec 4 2004, 07:43 PM
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QUOTE(angel_roh @ Nov 30 2004, 2:18 PM) omg.... what the heck..it feels good? what the lol why does it feel good?????? omg-_-;;; i dont want to be rude or mean, but i think you need to go to that place where you cannot cut yourself no more... and there is this treatment where you learn not to do those cutting stuff again... you should go see it... i think it takes about a month to finish the program. few of my friends are just like you and they really wanted to stop cause they were so addicted to it, so their family send them to this program... i have no clue what the name really is but it really worked it well cause my friends dont cut their arms no more whew for that-_-;; you are the most immature and ignorant person I have ever met. people just like you?? wtf?? I think we need to find a place for ignorant idiots such as yourself. *cough* anyway i know the feeling, it is hard to stop. and it actually does feel good at times. I don't really know what else to say, though a therapist really helps. |
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Dec 4 2004, 07:48 PM
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use a rubberband and put on your wrist and snap that instead. trust me. it helps.
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Dec 6 2004, 12:25 AM
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im so cool.it burns Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,373 |
I know what that feels like. It`s so hard to. You might as well tell your therapist though. Just keep trying to stop. or reduce how many times you do it or something like that.
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Dec 6 2004, 03:03 PM
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 my <3 is in Ohio Group: Member Posts: 899 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,599 |
QUOTE(Dist0rtion_Within @ Nov 30 2004, 1:04 PM) Cutting is like an addiction like drugs are addiction. You can never stop when you want. I've been cutting/carving for 3 yrs. It feels so good but I can't go on like this. I want to wear short sleeves. Ugh..Also I could go to a mental ward. I'm not going to tell my therapist because she will kill me..What should I do? hey i'm going through the same thing. i hate wearing sweatshirts and longsleeves all the time. especially when it gets warm. and yeah see my therapist wouldn't kill me. she would probably save me for my parents to kill me. and i haven't been cutting that long though. another problem i have is that my cuts seem to take a long time to heal which is another problem. i'd give you advice but i'm still kinda trying to find something to work for me. but some suggestions would be like cracking your nuckles, snapping a rubber band, ya know stuff like that. |
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Dec 6 2004, 03:14 PM
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ashley Group: Member Posts: 133 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,454 |
QUOTE(Dist0rtion_Within @ Nov 30 2004, 2:04 PM) Cutting is like an addiction like drugs are addiction. You can never stop when you want. I've been cutting/carving for 3 yrs. It feels so good but I can't go on like this. I want to wear short sleeves. Ugh..Also I could go to a mental ward. I'm not going to tell my therapist because she will kill me..What should I do? hey..i carve 2...ok....and i stopped..i said this 2 myself "y am i hurting myself.....think about the positvie.....tell one of ur friendz u kno u can trust not 2 tell...think about the good thingz in life" i also put a rubberband on my arm and snapped it..itz sorta fun and it stopz u frum cutting. or u can write poemz...or even write songz 2 urself...or pretend 2 write a letter 2 one of ur frienz example: dear [insert anyonez name here}, blah blah blah blah.......................... it helped me and my frienz who i got 2 quit cutting...... urz truely....ashley |
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Dec 6 2004, 03:49 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
ughhh so how does it feel good?? :S doesn't it hurt... why do you do such a thing to yourself i'm sure you have pretty arms... just don't do it anymore and punch a punching bag instead and let the scsrs heals over time thenyou can wear short sleeves again..
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Dec 7 2004, 08:53 PM
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i understand how u feel. sometimes cutting can remind u of how not to act and stuff, but still it doesnt mean its a good thing. there are other ways to relieve yourself of stress and if you know you cant quit then its best if you do tell ur therapist regardless of what she thinks so u can get rid of this habit.
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Dec 7 2004, 09:27 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,131 |
Well i dont cut but i have some firends that do. Not tryin' to be meen or nething but cutting is not the greatest thing to do to put it in nice ways....but if you REALLY tried to stop but cant...them i can suggest that you wear wristbands....then you can hide ur scares and wear short sleeves....but i'm still telling you that itz really bad....
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Dec 7 2004, 09:41 PM
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go tell ur therapist. now. if she kills you u can sue her. lol
ok, tell us again how does it feel good o__O? |
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Dec 7 2004, 10:25 PM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
i used to know this girl who had cuts on her wrists & when me and another girl asked about them, she got all defensive ...
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Dec 17 2004, 04:41 PM
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i know it's hard to stop... i'm still working out my problems with it... at one point in time i would use a ruler or protracter so it wouldn't actually bleed... now i'm back where i started but i am getting help from a friend. just keep faith and don't stop trying to quit...
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Dec 17 2004, 05:27 PM
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 free hugs Group: Member Posts: 188 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,202 |
sumtimes i want to. sometimes wen i feel bad n i have a cut or bruise i feel tuff. i dont know i cant explain it.
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Dec 17 2004, 05:59 PM
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 she doesn't even know Group: Member Posts: 501 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,065 |
QUOTE(angel_roh @ Nov 30 2004, 2:18 PM) omg.... what the heck..it feels good? what the lol why does it feel good?????? omg-_-;;; i dont want to be rude or mean, but i think you need to go to that place where you cannot cut yourself no more... and there is this treatment where you learn not to do those cutting stuff again... you should go see it... i think it takes about a month to finish the program. few of my friends are just like you and they really wanted to stop cause they were so addicted to it, so their family send them to this program... i have no clue what the name really is but it really worked it well cause my friends dont cut their arms no more whew for that-_-;; really.... it does feel good. I've been cutting for a while now and I can't stop . my friend saw my cuts and now she's doing it.... like wtf!?
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