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hmm...well my friend just told me the sweetest thing her boyfriend asked her out....what he did was get her to go fishing with him and he said a lot of their friends would be there...but he told them to show up later...but didn't tell her that...and he hooked a bottle with a note on his fishing rod and reeled it in and was like WOW can you get it for me! and she opened it and it said "will you be mine?" IT WAS SO CUTE haha.

the best way to ask her is when she least expects it but make sure you guys are alone.. you cud jus say "would you go out with me?" or "would you be my girlfriend?" or something like that.. it doesn't matter THAT much. where should you ask her or where you should you go out? but ill respond to where you should go out.. if it's ur first time.. maybe the movies just you two or iceskating if there's a rink around or something simple like that.

The best way for me has to been to let it flow. If the chemistry is there, suggest that you and her get together and do something. Even if the idea is as simple as dinner and a movie, suggest it. If shes feeling you, it should be obvious.

If you meant asking her out in regards to a relationship, well, then, thats complication because we (the forum) don't know anything about your situation so how can we help?

1. Ask her when your in a casual situation/place. Like at a park with a big bunch of friends.
2. Ask in a casual way. If your over the top.. dont go there. Unless you know how she'll respond.
3. Go somewhere fun, where you have a chance to talk, BUT remember to go somewhere that is fun with something to do, because if you run out of things to talk about (or nerves) you can still enjoy whatever your doing. therefore the lack of talking will not be as noticeable.
4. Being a girl, do something like put put or bowling, so you can laugh at each others mistakes... or gutterballs. lol
hope that helps... being a girl and all.

Confidence is the key. If you ask a girl out confidently you get a lot better results than if you ask her out nervously. They like a guy that knows what he is doing.

Hi everyone,
if i find out if she donesn't like like me should i still ask her?She doent kno i like her as a gf so before i ask her out should i get to kno her more nd spend more time with her?

no... just go for it - if you feel comfortable. Be spontaneous... otherwise you'll only build up nerves or hesitation over time... too much thinking involved !

Newbie? Well I make fun of them.

Should i ask on the phone

NO. Be a man, damnit and look someone in the eye while you speak your mind. Never cower in fear.

Just ask her out straightforward. =)

Asking out on the phone or over the internet, is really stupid..but it's your choice.

be yourself, if she loves you even the simpliest things will work but that doesnt mean always do the simpliest things

1. ask for a word with her ALONE.
2. "i was wondering... do you have a boyfriend?" -no
3. "will you be my girlfriend?"
there you go! thats how my friend asked out... um my other friend
friend number one is a boy. yup.

umm try this
"i really like alot your the only thing i think about and i wana be with you" haha easy and simple haaha



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DONT EVER ask a girl out through the phone. worst mistake you can ever pull cause unless the girl is desperate, we will say no. We want to be able to remember the day we got with out man and smile, not frown because the guy we with was to scared to say it in person.

And try to get to know her first. If she trusts you then you on the right track, dont spend too much time on it though, cuz we tend to get scared of loosing our close friends if we go any further then just friends/best friends

never ask out on im

How to ask a girl? umm how about how to ask a guy? for my case.

I've done that, hahaha. I asked a guy out before, but I made sure he likes me first. That was a long time ago, my friends actually pried me to do it. They were daring me to ask the guy out, so I eventually did.

What I did was; I came up to him and said, "hey wanna have some time alone?" then after that we went to this one place and just talked for a while, and then yeah. After one week, I dumped him in the nicest way, and we still remained friends. I know it's weird, but we still are. At first I thought he was gonna get mad, but then he wasn't and said that he was fine with it. Well I told him the whole dare thing, and he actually understood. This guy and I are good friends now, like more than ever. I still talk to him, and we still see each other.

I say you go out there and make out the whole time you could get to know her more. Then be really good friends, show her you care, then she'll eventually like you [in that sense]. Then ask her to be your girl, in the most romantic way you could. If not, then that'll be fine, for as long as she likes you for just the way you are, she'll still [should] say yes.


But for now, since you say that you don't know her yet, then the best choice for you is don't ask her out. I mean, come on, who ask a person to be his/her special someone if s/he still doesn't know her yet. You can't possibly say you want her to be your girlfriend if you don't even know her totally. Don't tell me it's physical attraction, because that won't last I tell yah.

First step's first, I give this advise to you; try to know her inside out. Learn about her, whether or not she matches your liking, or is it the opposite way. Study her hobbies, to know if you guys get along. Just basically find out the common things, because for us [as girls], we really want some things to be in common with the person we would go out with. I mean you and her should have some, if not few, things in common [or like]. In that way, you both could spend more time together, without having to figure out the needs of the other. It's easier to get along that way. Not to mention without even getting into a serious fight/argument.

I can't think of anything else, I'm running out of ideas. hahaha...but seriously, that should work.


- [Lalainester] -

hahaa i've asked out on IM before. ^_^ i kno how many of you girls are jus achin for a guy like me. XD its ok tho, she did say yes.

thats really weak tho, phone or IM or whatever. don't do that.

oh, good point. friends first.

This post has been edited by pinyoboy: May 10 2005, 12:30 PM

Just go for it and ask her out but i am a coward though.

he's right. NEVER ask through the phone. i tried it, and it even ruined our friendship.

Yeah, what they said - don't ask over the phone or through the internet unless it's the only possible way. I suggest trying to become her friend a bit first, get too know each other. It's always good to have a strong friendship to work off of. Then, just casually ask her if she'd like to go to the movies/mall/whatever sometime- alone Trust me, if she likes you in that way- she'll say yes.

Never ever ask a girl out on phone, txt or IM. I will or i did say yes to every boy who ask me out on IM. Things can go wrong so easily on phone or IM or txt. Be a man and ask a girl out face to face. It's not that hard in all honesty, is it? What could be the worst? If you ask her out face to face, very unfortunately she turns you down, you can still make it up and be friends with her. If you txt her, n she ignore it or someone else recieved it, it would be so embarassed!

umm to ask a grl out i make shure that she lykes me first...lyke ask so who do u lyke lately. then always call them beautiful if they say hi to u be lyke"hey beautiful" then if they lyke start flirtin more than jus ask them.

Yo why ask them out. Make them fall in love with you with your skillz and let them ask you out. Thats how i do it.