When you first have sex and you "pop your cherry" is there alot of bleeding? Or is there just a little bit that you can barley notice.
If there is alot of blood, wouldn't it be kind of a weird and awkward sex?

Haha! Sorry, kind of a weird question.

it depends on the girl. some girls bleed others dont.

your "cherry" can be popped even if havent had sex. (ex: through playing sports horseback riding etc)

but if you bleed your first time its completely normal.

if you dont thats also normal

I didn't bleed the 1st time. But I bleed if I haven't had it for a while.

First thing's first:

If it didn't bleed, that man aint piping ya dig.

I have to admit, I had sex with over 10+ virgins, and I was their "first". Sigh..you have no idea how much they scream because it hurts and tell me to stop and get off of them. I take my penis out of their vagina, and there's quite a bit of blood on the condom...

well i hope so if they were virgins.

and they were prolly over exaggerating with the pain... they def. werent trusting you.

my first time didnt hurt. i didnt scream or anything hell i was on top the whole time.

some girls think they should scream and they got the idea that its gonna hurt or its suppose to hurt when really its not that bad. just dont think about any pain trust the guy and relax your muscles... but anyway thats way off topic.

ummm the bleeding is usually not THAT bad! not like youre bleeding to death or something

But wouldn't it be awkward if you bleed? Like in the middle of sex and there's blood coming out or getting it on the bed =/

You're gonna have to deal with this the first 2-3 or maybe 4 times you have sex. After that, everything's fair game.

its not like youre gonna be squirting blood out or anything lol.

You know how you spot between periods? It's a bit like that. Not a lot of blood.

And the pain seriously shouldn't be that bad. Once you're through, it's cake.

Tung, either you're really good or really bad to make them scream that much.

WRONG.

oh they could be FAKING IT

NEVER! Tung is a sex machine!

Javonn, is there something you'd like to share?

What a sex machine.

I think with the amount of bodily fluids you're both going to be producing, a bit of blood will most probably go unnoticed.

^^
Haha, no kidding.

Yeah, it really depends on the girl on whether one will bleed or not. I didn't, and it didn't hurt either.

Mind you, I've been dancing for a long, long time so that probably dealt with that a long time ago. =p

Uhm... does that count as lubrication?

Grosssss. You won't bleed buckets. It's not like it's going to trigger you to have your period. It really depends on the person. If you've never had anything in there it's probably going to be a bit uncomfortable.

My friends have taken to discussing their sex lives lately, and apparently one of them has started bleeding all the time, even though she didn't used to. So I'm not too sure about that.

She have to go to a clinic. I think maybe one of her vulva functions is either broken or messed up.

LMAO. You're so technical.

LOL I KNOW. ever since i started taking Human Sexuality course, my sexual words I use are more sophisticated now. LOL

Congrats on the terms, Tung, just don't use them when you're talking dirty to a girl... they don't sound sexy...

I'm not sure if I posted in this topic yet. *checks It depends on whether or not they tore their...hylem? I believe--or not. Because when I first did it, I didn't bleed. But thats cause I was really athletic and tore it while riding a bike.

You mean hymen?

Once again Tung has come to the rescue!

i once knew a girl who knew a girl who shoved a pen up there to try and break her hymen.

i'm right to be a little disgusted, right?

^ I got the chills just thinking about that.

Yeah, hymen! Thanks, Tung.

That's just really stupid. I don't see what that would accomplish...or why she couldn't think of any better way to do it.

ok so there's the womb and then the vagina tunnel right. how long is the vagina tunnel anyway? do penis' usually make it to the womb?is it possible that the penis can go the wrong "way"? as in like instead of getting into their vagina tunnel/womb it would get in like the track where the pee comes out? and potentially causing serious damage?


how did you tell you tore when you rode the bike anyway?

I believe the vaginal passage when its at the point of the womb is blocked from anything large, like a penis to get through.

And, if you got your penis into the hole where pee comes out, I'm going to have to guess that you've killed the girl.

Your "pee hole" is far too small to let anything up there.



Your vaginal tunnel ends in the cervix (which leads to your womb). A penis can push up against this (and frequently does during intercourse) but can go no further. Your vaginal tunnel also stretches and gets longer when you are aroused.

Your hymen is also broken while using a tampon...It dosen't hurt that much tbh. o_o'

Not all the time...it's not often that people break their hymen with a tampon.

so it's impossible for the dick to get anywhere else right? as in impossible to go to any different track besides the vagina tunnel that leads to the womb right?

... it CAN go up your butthole...

and instead of "vagina tunnel" ... "birth canal" might be a less awkward term for it. Or simply "vagina" should do.

Birth canal makes me think about babies. Yummy.

No, Laughalot. Unless the guy makes an appalling judgement call and sticks his penis up your anus (as funny as this sounds I'm sticking with the technical terms here) which, quite frankly, is nigh impossible anyway - he's more than likely to miss - then no. Think of it as a really obvious one way street.

Although I have heard that most men "miss" the first time.

personally, i think it depends on the person. the first time i did it, it didnt bleed and i thought it would since i heard a lot of people saying it would. so, im guessing it depends on the person.

That's not true... girl only pops her cherry once. You're a virgin bro. You're right ste.... ooops

After readin this thread, I'm glad to know that most of yall are virgins who pretend to have gotten laid. Phew... and I thought yall were sex crazed, yall are just e-warriors.




I would advise her to get checked up. She might have a tear. It's like when a person has a tear in their butthole, even after it heals, if they shit out a large log, it'll re-tear.

Lol, of course I know you can only pop the cherry once. I'm saying you have to deal with the awkwardness for first few times, and there will still be a bit of bleeding the first couple of times. It's still going to hurt the first few times. It all depends on the girl also.

I'm not exactly sure, but I knew I broke it before I did it because I never bled. Perhaps it was all that gymnastics.

I heard tampons could break the skin but does it really go that far in you?

I heard you're still considered a virgin if your hymen doesn't break...I'm not sure what to think of that.

Nah... once you're penetrated with a penis and both or either or "orgasmed" pretty much that's considered losing virginity. But the debate is basically based on; "does orgasm even matter?"

So I'd say, penetration with penis, that's loss of virginity.

^ Hahahha there was this kid at my school who kept saying he was still a virgin till he got some girl knocked up..! He is soooooooo hilarious omg.

You can't base it on orgasm, because some people have sex many times before having an orgasm, and you can give yourself one.

Or really erotic, depending on the person's tastes.