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 Nov 29 2006, 02:09 AM
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so my friend got a boyfriend now. i guess its obvious she'll change a little, but she used to be one of my closest friends and now shes a bitch. should i tell her off, or just ignore her bad attitude?
i'm a guy btw and we used to "like" each other but we ended up just being really good friends. i'm guessing she got this new guy to replace me and now she doesnt care about me anymore because she thinks she can focus all her attention on this new guy and expect me to still be nice to her. but yeah, i'm ignoring her now and i'm really tempted just to tell her what a bitch she's been. but i dunno. advice? |
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Nov 29 2006, 02:24 AM
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1TRIPZ FUCC UP Group: Member Posts: 311 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 482,242 |
Foo, stick with it. Its the best advice everrrrrrrrrrr
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Nov 29 2006, 09:50 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
her bf might have just told her to back off of you cuz u two use to like each other and like always the girl is the guy's bitch so thats probably why shes actin the way she is. let her be tht way and when they break up, laugh in her face for bein so stupid
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Nov 29 2006, 05:53 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,388 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,129 |
Yeah. Maybe her new boyfriend is the jealous type. So he doesn't want her hanging out with other guys. Just ignore her for now. It's her problem, not yours. If it does get out of hand, you should seriously tell her.
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| *a painefull euphoria* |
Nov 29 2006, 06:02 PM
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jsut tell how you feel
and if she dosnt listen dont bother keeping that friendship |
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Nov 29 2006, 09:22 PM
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 former dancerellie714 Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 471,750 |
tough one.
the thing is....relationships may last a little while...but friendships last soo much longer...so eventually...they'll break up...and she'll realize what a jerk she's been and feel horrible. (one of my best friends ditched me & my other two best friends for TWO YEARS to go out with some guy and now she regrets it so so much....she's lucky we let her back...but...when you really truly care about some one..you forgive them) maybe mention something about how you've noticed you never talk/hangout anymore and such....just see how it goes.. |
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Nov 29 2006, 11:20 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
let her be.
it's her loss |
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Nov 29 2006, 11:25 PM
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 Interdimensional Cat Group: Member Posts: 61 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 479,663 |
Tell her that if she's going to treat you like shit, you're not going to put up with it.
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Nov 29 2006, 11:38 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,456 |
yeah i've already told her i noticed she doesnt talk to me as much blahblahblah and all that
and yeah, i'm not gonna put up with her shit anymore. |
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Dec 3 2006, 03:54 PM
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 Oh Wow ... Group: Official Designer Posts: 688 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 468,522 |
QUOTE(lexaa621 @ Nov 28 2006, 11:09 PM)  so my friend got a boyfriend now. i guess its obvious she'll change a little, but she used to be one of my closest friends and now shes a bitch. should i tell her off, or just ignore her bad attitude? i'm a guy btw and we used to "like" each other but we ended up just being really good friends. i'm guessing she got this new guy to replace me and now she doesnt care about me anymore because she thinks she can focus all her attention on this new guy and expect me to still be nice to her. but yeah, i'm ignoring her now and i'm really tempted just to tell her what a bitch she's been. but i dunno. advice? ha my story last year cept uh reverse genders. But uh i went through the whole dilemna, tried to stay nice to him. everytime i would talk to him he'd just diss me & then he'd say stuff like why do you ignore me blah blah blah. I wrote him a note, he didn't even care. So honestly I wouldn't fight for that friendship. their loss not yours. i wasted so much time & enegery trying to fight for a friendship. & maybe if she realizes that your not gunna fight for it; she'll realize how much she missed you & realize how stupid she's being. mmkay. guess that's it. take it from someone who went throught that for a whole year |
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Dec 4 2006, 09:07 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,456 |
hm so i ignore her now and she gave up on talking to me. so i guess i'm glad i somewhat got revenge but it kinda sucks losing a friend. i dunno. whatever.
more advice is welcomeee |
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