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Posted by: deteam Jan 21 2010, 07:41 PM
Ite.. Met this chick, but found out some iffy biz about her past lol . . so how many partners is 2 many....that it would make her not g.f. worthy lol
Keep in mind shes 19
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Posted by: itanium Jan 21 2010, 07:44 PM
2
Posted by: iDecay Jan 21 2010, 07:50 PM
QUOTE(itanium @ Jan 21 2010, 04:44 PM)
2
2 IS 2 MANY.
Posted by: itanium Jan 21 2010, 07:58 PM
ok, you're right, I was just f*cking with him
the answer is 42
Posted by: Beenly Jan 21 2010, 08:20 PM
ask her how many stds she have
Posted by: Uso Jan 21 2010, 10:43 PM
well first of all, how many has she had?
might help us tell you whether shes had too much or not
Posted by: karmakiller Jan 22 2010, 12:19 AM
Do you really think she's telling you the truth?
Posted by: deteam Jan 22 2010, 02:14 PM
QUOTE(karmakiller @ Jan 22 2010, 12:19 AM)
Do you really think she's telling you the truth?
lmao exactly wat i was thinking . . .
and the number is 8 lol
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Posted by: Beenly Jan 22 2010, 03:11 PM
damnnnn. don't go for her.
Posted by: Tramatize Jan 22 2010, 03:28 PM
QUOTE(itanium @ Jan 21 2010, 07:58 PM)
ok, you're right, I was just f*cking with him
the answer is 42
When isn't it?
Posted by: Maccabee Jan 22 2010, 03:32 PM
Are you saying she has had 8 penis's in her vagina, or she has had 8 boyfriends? Keep in mind, if you put your penis in her vagina, you will have 8 penis cousins.
Posted by: MrStrife Jan 22 2010, 04:49 PM
i know a girl that had 9. too many?
would you feel gross if you were number 7?
Posted by: deteam Jan 22 2010, 04:56 PM
QUOTE(MrStrife @ Jan 22 2010, 04:49 PM)
i know a girl that had 9. too many?
would you feel gross if you were number 7?
lol 8 cocks in there before me is a little disturbing fact there
and she started when she was 14 . . . . and said only 4 were legit boyfriends lol . . . other 4 were dudes she met at the mall/ one night stands/ friends with benefits
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Posted by: MrStrife Jan 22 2010, 05:09 PM
Imagine the fool that lost his virginity to her.
Posted by: brooklyneast05 Jan 22 2010, 05:20 PM
who cares. people like to have sex. you only say this becasue she's female. nobody would care if she was a guy. how many people have you been with? is it too many for her?
the number of sexual partners and her ability to be a good girlfriend are two completely unrelated things.
Posted by: deteam Jan 22 2010, 05:25 PM
QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Jan 22 2010, 05:20 PM)
who cares. people like to have sex. you only say this becasue she's female. nobody would care if she was a guy. how many people have you been with? is it too many for her?
the number of sexual partners and her ability to be a good girlfriend are two completely unrelated things.
if she sleeps around, i wouldn't consider that girlfriend material ...
and i actually was with my ex for 7 years . . and only been with her, so that "well if it was guy" dont apply here...
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Posted by: brooklyneast05 Jan 22 2010, 05:34 PM
QUOTE(deteam @ Jan 22 2010, 04:25 PM)
if she sleeps around, i wouldn't consider that girlfriend material ...
and i actually was with my ex for 7 years . . and only been with her, so that "well if it was guy" dont apply here...
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sleeping around only matters if you are either A) doing it while you're with someone else or B) getting stds. otherwise why is someone who has had sex not worthy of being a girlfriend?
and it applies because i'm saying in general. as guys, nobody cares how many girls we sleep with.
Posted by: Beenly Jan 22 2010, 05:43 PM
QUOTE(deteam @ Jan 22 2010, 02:25 PM)
if she sleeps around, i wouldn't consider that girlfriend material ...
and i actually was with my ex for 7 years . . and only been with her, so that "well if it was guy" dont apply here...
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would you rather contract billions of stds and possible contact of yeast infection with a girl or would you rather buttraep a dude and contract homoness and aids
Posted by: deteam Jan 22 2010, 06:18 PM
QUOTE(Beenly @ Jan 22 2010, 05:43 PM)
would you rather contract billions of stds and possible contact of yeast infection with a girl or would you rather buttraep a dude and contract homoness and aids
neither lol
and @
brooklyneast05: its not having sex that makes u not g.f. material ... but how many that does it.... if ur sleepin with
every single guy ur dating and ur 19 somethings a little iffy...
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Posted by: brooklyneast05 Jan 22 2010, 06:29 PM
shrugs, only if you think there is something wrong with having sex in the first place. to me it's like saying someone isn't gonna be a good gf because they've kissed all the guys they dated. but that's me, i don't think sex is that serious or special that girls should restrain themselves out of fear of "too many" times.
Posted by: serotonin Jan 22 2010, 06:38 PM
i think as long as it's responsible, protected, safe, and she's faithful in a relationship / clean, i don't see why not. if she's a tramp i wouldn't, if she's fat i wouldn't, if she's stupid i wouldn't. history is history and even if a girl has slept with 10 people so long as none of that matters or affects the present, then it doesn't matter. get past it, take off with her and see what she's all about.
Posted by: karmakiller Jan 22 2010, 06:54 PM
If you want to be in a relationship with her and you can't look past how many people she has or hasn't slept with or are already judging her and drawing conclusions then that's not fair to her. If you want to be in a relationship with her you'll probably be faced with bigger issues than how many men she's had sex with. I can understand if that's something you want to consider, but you shouldn't base whether or not you want to pursue something with her solely on that... but y'know getting tested before you guys do anything would probably be a good move lol Maybe you're just feeling insecure?
Posted by: AimeeLynn Jan 23 2010, 03:07 AM
QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Jan 22 2010, 06:29 PM)
shrugs, only if you think there is something wrong with having sex in the first place. to me it's like saying someone isn't gonna be a good gf because they've kissed all the guys they dated. but that's me, i don't think sex is that serious or special that girls should restrain themselves out of fear of "too many" times.
Agreed.
The only problem would have to be stds. She should get tested. Other than that, again don't judge her about her past.
I knew a guy that had over 42 people and 21...then again I would never touch him.
Anything with that big of a number is ridiculous.
Posted by: Sandraaa Jan 23 2010, 06:41 AM
I totally agree with brooklyneast05. I don't see connection at all. I get the whole 'I don't want to be with a girl that sleeps with everyone' but she started at 14 and has had only 8 partners ... erm, it's not a lot to me. Then again, I live in Europe and euh, sex is sex. And I don't see why sex only has to be with your boyfriend. You don't have to be tied down to have fun ... I really don't get it.
Posted by: Uso Jan 23 2010, 11:09 AM
QUOTE(Sandraaa @ Jan 23 2010, 06:41 AM)
I totally agree with brooklyneast05. I don't see connection at all. I get the whole 'I don't want to be with a girl that sleeps with everyone' but she started at 14 and has had only 8 partners ... erm, it's not a lot to me. Then again, I live in Europe and euh, sex is sex. And I don't see why sex only has to be with your boyfriend. You don't have to be tied down to have fun ... I really don't get it.
Omg I did not know you lived in Europe :O (cool!)
Anyways it sounded like you meant 8 for that year
8 since 14? that's nothing, I don't think she should be judged on by that, if she was sleeping around more than usual than maybe that would be a different story, but were only human and we get urges whether were with a serious relationship or not and some people treat is differently, sorry if this is going off subject
Posted by: deteam Jan 23 2010, 11:59 AM
QUOTE(serotonin @ Jan 22 2010, 06:38 PM)
i think as long as it's responsible, protected, safe, and she's faithful in a relationship / clean, i don't see why not. if she's a tramp i wouldn't, if she's fat i wouldn't, if she's stupid i wouldn't. history is history and even if a girl has slept with 10 people so long as none of that matters or affects the present, then it doesn't matter. get past it, take off with her and see what she's all about.
did you just make a helpful post in one of my threads
awwww i love you 2
lol anyway, ya i guess you guys are right, maybe its because ive been with one chick 4 so long that is making this look liek a bigger issue then it is.... but you also have to consider that she did admit 4 were f*ck arounds...and she said her longest relationship was 5 months i think.... so wat do you guys think? if shes sleepin with 8 dudes and the longest relationship only turned out to be 5 months >?
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Posted by: paozuu Jan 25 2010, 10:42 PM
QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Jan 22 2010, 06:20 PM)
who cares. people like to have sex. you only say this becasue she's female. nobody would care if she was a guy. how many people have you been with? is it too many for her?
the number of sexual partners and her ability to be a good girlfriend are two completely unrelated things.
I agree.
Posted by: deteam Jan 26 2010, 12:22 AM
QUOTE(paozuu @ Jan 25 2010, 10:42 PM)
I agree.
you would
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Posted by: AgentNerd Mar 1 2011, 08:22 AM
This is the calulation I like to figure out when getting with a girl.
Take the girls age Subtract 12 and devide by 2 = Amount to equal or below.
19 - 12 / 2 = 3.5
I'm 28 - 12 / 2 = 8 <--- This Number is incorrect cause Im a male whore.. But you have to know me to know that. (^.~)
Posted by: boot Mar 1 2011, 04:33 PM
QUOTE(AgentNerd @ Mar 1 2011, 07:22 AM)
This is the calulation I like to figure out when getting with a girl.
Take the girls age Subtract 12 and devide by 2 = Amount to equal or below.
19 - 12 / 2 = 3.5
I'm 28 - 12 / 2 = 8 <--- This Number is incorrect cause Im a male whore.. But you have to know me to know that. (^.~)
at age 112, a woman should have had sex with 50 people
Posted by: AgentNerd Mar 1 2011, 04:54 PM
If a woman is at 112 y/o she deserves to have sex with 50 people.
Posted by: spambot Mar 1 2011, 07:18 PM
Does cyber sex count?
Posted by: boot Mar 1 2011, 07:27 PM
QUOTE(spambot @ Mar 1 2011, 06:18 PM)
Does cyber sex count?
only if it involves internet controlled sex toys
Posted by: espressive Mar 1 2011, 10:15 PM
QUOTE(AgentNerd @ Mar 1 2011, 07:22 AM)
This is the calulation I like to figure out when getting with a girl.
Take the girls age Subtract 12 and devide by 2 = Amount to equal or below.
19 - 12 / 2 = 3.5
In other words, she can only have had sex with 3 guys and a midget.
Does this all make sense now?
Posted by: AgentNerd Mar 2 2011, 07:14 AM
QUOTE(espressive @ Mar 1 2011, 10:15 PM)
In other words, she can only have had sex with 3 guys and a midget.
Does this all make sense now?
What you never had sex with a midget before. I'm just saying.
With most people they would round up or round down. In this case you can just throw a midget in the mix and call it even. (^.~)
QUOTE(spambot @ Mar 1 2011, 07:18 PM)
Does cyber sex count?
I really don't know how to answer this. I guess it would be simply described as this. If it doesn't breath and have feelings then it doesn't count. But it would be good practice I would guess.
Posted by: harlemchick Apr 22 2011, 01:43 PM
Hmm to answer this question I'm 19 myself and female and I've had 9 sexual partners but does that still not make me gf worthy? Now your talking about females but we say nothing when it comes to men like Hue Hefiner with plenty of sexual partners. This is where I draw the line on the double edge sword that says women must be chase and not act like me. <.<
Posted by: boot Apr 22 2011, 03:54 PM
QUOTE(harlemchick @ Apr 22 2011, 01:43 PM)
Hmm to answer this question I'm 19 myself and female and I've had 9 sexual partners but does that still not make me gf worthy? Now your talking about females but we say nothing when it comes to men like Hue Hefiner with plenty of sexual partners. This is where I draw the line on the double edge sword that says women must be chase and not act like me. <.<
people do make jokes about Hugh Hefner constantly
Posted by: liquordick Apr 23 2011, 12:04 AM
QUOTE(boot @ Mar 1 2011, 05:27 PM)
only if it involves internet controlled sex toys
really? that was the best you could think of? i expected better, abbey basically goatseed her ***hole for you and you missed
Posted by: boot Apr 23 2011, 12:08 AM
QUOTE(liquordick @ Apr 23 2011, 12:04 AM)
really? that was the best you could think of? i expected better, abbey basically goatseed her ***hole for you and you missed
ok I'm sorry you're right I'll fix that now
Posted by: boot Apr 23 2011, 12:09 AM
QUOTE(spambot @ Mar 1 2011, 07:18 PM)
Does cyber sex count?
I don't know, does it?
Posted by: Uso Apr 24 2011, 04:40 PM
Yes, duh.
I think as long as she doesn't have STD's and shit it shouldn't really matter.
Posted by: hypnotique Jan 12 2013, 06:58 PM
maybe hes just not that into you
she needs space
its frowned upon to marry your pet dog
its not you its them
never go on blind dates
its not the size of the ship, its the motion of the ocean
there you go, i have covered all relationship threads
Posted by: LittleMissSunshine Mar 25 2013, 01:56 PM
^ lol
well does it really bug you about how many partners she had? there are some factors you might have to ask her to have 8 partners? some girls have had many partners because they were raped and what grew up in a rough childhood.. just saying, if serious about having a girlfriend, then it shouldn't matter what she did in the past, unless her past keeps coming up.