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Do I LOOK like a slut?, my mom thinks so...
AimeeLynn
post Jan 6 2008, 07:30 PM
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My mom thinks I had sex with my current boyfriend. What the f**k. She thinks I'm some slut going around having sex I wish that she would understand that loving someone doesn't have to involve sex. But now my mom is asking me to check with a doctor if I had done it or not. Do I have a reason to be angry? I am so mad. I can't believe she thought I had done it. T_T I made a bet to her that if I am right I would get a new cell phone. My problem is the results. I never had sex but I had done other things. I saw no blood does that mean I am a virgin? _unsure.gif

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post Jan 6 2008, 07:42 PM
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You're Mom is just being a Mom.
 
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post Jan 6 2008, 07:51 PM
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QUOTE(BunkyWhiteGirl @ Jan 6 2008, 08:42 PM) *
You're Mom is just being a Mom.

bullshit, nobody's mom does that

u're mom is being insane
 
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post Jan 6 2008, 07:54 PM
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my mom (and dad) did the exact same thing - they're nuts, just fyi. it felt so good when the doctor was like.. "yeah she hasn't done anything." SHUT DOWN.

penis in vagina = not a virgin
some people consider third base "de-virginizing" too, but ^ was just imo.

i'd just talk to your doctor... it's not like a broken hymen means you're not a virgin. i'm pretty sure i broke mine on accident before doing anything since i was a wild child like that. and if you're worried about stretching or something... to put it delicately, most girls do, hahah.
 
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post Jan 6 2008, 07:54 PM
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Your mom reminds me of my friend's mom who's a control freak who can't get it out of her head that teenagers do far worse than having boyfriends/having sex. I don't know what to tell you, but she'll never come out of her phase until you just give her a reality check.
 
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post Jan 6 2008, 08:03 PM
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hey my mom has been doing the same thing for a while now.... she thinks im having sex. sure i didnt start beign sexually active until almost a year, but she has ABSOLUTELY no proof or idea that i even do anything. im always either home or work. so i havent given her any reason to think im goign around having sex with every guy i meet. i told her shes a horirble mother for thinking im having sex with everyguy out there.

it doesnt matter if you are or arent, a mother shouldnt be like that with her daughter. idk, i thinkk its wrong.

not saying parents should think their kids a perfect angels, but dont say theyre sluts etc. thats wrong.

this kinda stuff really bothers me. maybe thats why i dont have a relationship with my mom. im sure that if she knew how to be a mother, as in me knowing that i could talk to her about anything without her judging me or yelling at me, we could have somewhat of a relationship. but thats never gonna happen.
 
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post Jan 6 2008, 08:03 PM
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damn u guys parents are nutcases
 
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post Jan 6 2008, 08:06 PM
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i remember, right before i moved away from my parents, my mom wanted to put me on birth control, and i refused, because she was pretytmuch calling me a slut. i told her i wasnt gonna go on birth control that i wasnt having sex.

 
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post Jan 6 2008, 08:14 PM
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Hah, my mom threatens to go to my school and talk to my teachers about me not believing in her religion. (WTF, I know right?) She thinks I'm dating or having sex with every damn guy I talk to. I was hugging one of my friends during promotion and my dad drove him home because he had no ride home. After he got out of the car, my mom started yelling at me and accusing me of doing things other than hugging when she's not around. HE WAS FREAKING GAY! She said I was lying to her just to cover it up.

Yeah, sorry. I like to rant about my mom. We don't have a good relationship.
 
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post Jan 6 2008, 08:21 PM
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QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Jan 6 2008, 08:03 PM) *
damn u guys parents are nutcases

It's different for guys. If guys had done it... *pats back*
If a girl does it...slut. mellow.gif
 
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post Jan 6 2008, 08:26 PM
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my mom and dad both were ok with finding out when i first became sexually active as long as i used protection and was in a relationship, not doing random girls who i didn't know anything about.
 
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post Jan 6 2008, 08:56 PM
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QUOTE(stolen @ Jan 6 2008, 08:21 PM) *
It's different for guys. If guys had done it... *pats back*
If a girl does it...slut. mellow.gif


I have to agree a lot of people think like that mellow.gif
 
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post Jan 6 2008, 09:06 PM
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Darn those double standards. Wow, that really sucks. sad.gif I hate parents who are such...parents. It kinda makes me appreciate that my parents just keep the talk short and brief. Oy. You should habe nothing to worry about then if you didn't do anything. Then you can finally prove her wrong!
 
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post Jan 6 2008, 09:32 PM
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There is nothing you can do about that. When my parents found out I was sexually active my mom freaked out. She practically disowned me for months.
She came to terms with it and we went and got birth control.

I don't have faith that your mom will calm down. Deal with it until you can afford to move out.
 
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post Jan 6 2008, 09:37 PM
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With my parents, it hasn't come to that point yet and I hope they don't become like that. But I sympathize for you. Having parents like that, suspecting stuff that you didn't do, is crazy.
 
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post Jan 6 2008, 09:55 PM
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QUOTE(tininja @ Jan 6 2008, 08:14 PM) *
Hah, my mom threatens to go to my school and talk to my teachers about me not believing in her religion. (WTF, I know right?)

damn the same thin happened to me just a while back, it sucks. Now I'm religion-less(is that a word?), but still believe in god.

most parent's wouldn't react like that though, it's a little weird, she's just overprotective I guess.
 
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post Jan 6 2008, 11:06 PM
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Well my mom never asked me about my sex life and she was there when I started taking BC.
 
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post Jan 7 2008, 04:30 AM
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QUOTE(icecreamisyummy @ Jan 6 2008, 08:03 PM) *
hey my mom has been doing the same thing for a while now.... she thinks im having sex. sure i didnt start beign sexually active until almost a year, but she has ABSOLUTELY no proof or idea that i even do anything. im always either home or work. so i havent given her any reason to think im goign around having sex with every guy i meet. i told her shes a horirble mother for thinking im having sex with everyguy out there.

it doesnt matter if you are or arent, a mother shouldnt be like that with her daughter. idk, i thinkk its wrong.

not saying parents should think their kids a perfect angels, but dont say theyre sluts etc. thats wrong.

this kinda stuff really bothers me. maybe thats why i dont have a relationship with my mom. im sure that if she knew how to be a mother, as in me knowing that i could talk to her about anything without her judging me or yelling at me, we could have somewhat of a relationship. but thats never gonna happen.


But... do you have lots of sex with tons of people?
 
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post Jan 7 2008, 05:55 AM
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QUOTE(stolen @ Jan 7 2008, 10:21 AM) *
It's different for guys. If guys had done it... *pats back*
If a girl does it...slut. mellow.gif


A lot of people actually think like that, it's crazy.
 
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post Jan 7 2008, 06:29 AM
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QUOTE(stolen @ Jan 6 2008, 05:21 PM) *
It's different for guys. If guys had done it... *pats back*
If a girl does it...slut. mellow.gif


Thats not true. I'm a guy, and when my mom found out I had sex she had a cow. "WHAT DO YOU THINK YOURE DOING?!?! YOURE TOO YOUNG! If you act like a goddamn hooligan.... UGH. I raised you better than that."

My sister just got a "I know youre going to do it anyways, so here's some birth control."
 
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post Jan 7 2008, 08:36 AM
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Wow. I can't believe the responses to this topic!

My mom and myself have a really good relationship, but talking about sex is killer. She'd never think the worst of me though!
 
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post Jan 7 2008, 09:15 AM
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QUOTE(stolen @ Jan 7 2008, 11:21 AM) *
It's different for guys. If guys had done it... *pats back*
If a girl does it...slut. mellow.gif


Amen.

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Thats not true. I'm a guy, and when my mom found out I had sex she had a cow. "WHAT DO YOU THINK YOURE DOING?!?! YOURE TOO YOUNG! If you act like a goddamn hooligan.... UGH. I raised you better than that."

My sister just got a "I know youre going to do it anyways, so here's some birth control."


I like your mum.
 
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post Jan 7 2008, 09:57 AM
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Is there any other way of telling if the girl is a virgin or not besides the broken hymen? cuz i heard these days that some girls are actually born without it..
 
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post Jan 7 2008, 10:01 AM
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Nope, that's the only surefire physical way of telling.
 
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post Jan 7 2008, 11:07 AM
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Yeah...How do you know if you broke it? Is is possible with out having sex?
 

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