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Posted by: surfer xo girl Jul 30 2005, 03:55 PM
i am just so confused right now! ive ahd bf's in the past and i am attracted to them, but when me and my friends have sleepovers and stuff we always mess around u know just for fun, but i really enjoy it. is this normal?? we usually just make out and cuddle u know just cause were being crazy but one of my friends i just am so attracted to her and we finger each other and like to get naked and rub up on each other. IS THIS NORMAL? or am i a LESBIAN?!?! i need help... 
Posted by: pyrochick19770 Jul 30 2005, 03:58 PM
...ummm, you're bi then?
Posted by: iNyCxShoRT Jul 30 2005, 04:01 PM
erm, i don't think it's normal unless you're bi or something o_o or maybe because you have urges because there's no guys around?
Posted by: x3__iGiVEup Jul 30 2005, 04:18 PM
maybe you're "experimenting".
i dunno wth i just said but yeah.
i dont think of it as like.. "normal" but maybe it's just a phase? i didnt
you're probably bi. nothing bad about that :]
Posted by: Spiritual Winged Aura Jul 30 2005, 05:13 PM
you're probably a bi. or messing around and treated her like your bbf.
dont be ashamed but your parent might .. " !@#$%^@#$% "
Posted by: lost [child] Jul 30 2005, 05:43 PM
its been proven that teenagers, wether straight, gay or bi, like to experiment.
but maybe youre past that and youre bi.
dunno.
i used to kinda be in your position. butttt.
yeah.
Posted by: danielle_x3 Jul 30 2005, 06:03 PM
you're either bi or bi-curious.
Posted by: xldubaliciousx Jul 30 2005, 08:18 PM
I'm just gonna say that maybe you're bi. Or maybe it is just a phase. Only time will tell.
Posted by: REBELnDISGUISE Jul 30 2005, 08:32 PM
I agree with her.
Posted by: tungtwista Jul 30 2005, 08:34 PM
your most definitely bi or curious and shit. but reading what you just said, was haawwwt. hahahaha =P
Posted by: Skyline Drive Jul 30 2005, 10:44 PM
I don't think you are bi-curious, people who are bi-curious don't go that far.
You are most definately BI or Lesbian.
Posted by: HoodieObsessed Jul 30 2005, 11:03 PM
wow, you're getting a little friendly with your friends there... 
You coulld be bi, or you couldn't. Do YOU tihnk you're bi? It's all about you. If you don't want to be bi you don't have to, the choice is completely yours. If you want to be bi, go ahead, fool aroudn with some women (although it already sounds like you're bassically doing that already) if you don't want to be bi, don't. Go out with guys and forget about girls.
Once again, it's your choice, and your choice only, don't let anyone influence you one way or another. 
Posted by: malimars Jul 30 2005, 11:12 PM
ur either bi or young and still experienceing new things!
Posted by: RiC3xBoy Jul 31 2005, 12:16 AM
You might also be in a phase....other than that, just read what everyone else wrote.
Posted by: osidepinay33 Jul 31 2005, 12:18 AM
yeah i agree.. and lyk some other said.. maybe you're just "expirmenting" cuz maybe your not sure.. and maybe your still trying to find what you really are
Posted by: i heart john Jul 31 2005, 12:28 AM
You're going through a phase. Being a lesbian isn't all about sex, contrary to popular belief.
Posted by: MyVermilionPlague Jul 31 2005, 12:31 AM
It is kind of too early to say.
Basically every teenager goes through a curiosity stage... even with their own sex, so it's basically pretty normal. It's too early to say...
Posted by: Shortiiex Jul 31 2005, 11:37 AM
it can be bi or you are just having innocent fun. Just for your own pleasure....but can you imagine yourself dating her?
Posted by: Hiphop d[-_-]b Jul 31 2005, 12:55 PM
so you and your girlfriends make out, cuddle & finger eachother ? ..
like danielle_x3 said. your either bi or bi curious.
or expiramenting [sp?]
Posted by: lost [child] Jul 31 2005, 01:47 PM
You coulld be bi, or you couldn't. Do YOU tihnk you're bi? It's all about you. If you don't want to be bi you don't have to, the choice is completely yours. If you want to be bi, go ahead, fool aroudn with some women (although it already sounds like you're bassically doing that already) if you don't want to be bi, don't. Go out with guys and forget about girls.
Once again, it's your choice, and your choice only, don't let anyone influence you one way or another.
You cant just -stop being bi-
Posted by: Kristinaa Jul 31 2005, 02:03 PM
Like what everyone else said, you're either Bi or just experimenting.
Posted by: Lo Mein Jul 31 2005, 05:02 PM
You were straight till I read the fingering part...so most likely bi
Posted by: PrideOfAzia Jul 31 2005, 05:04 PM
I think ur bi...=]
Posted by: mzkandi Jul 31 2005, 05:12 PM
I agree with Felicia. Alot females confuse being physically and sexually attracted to another female with them being lesbian. But it goes beyond that. You have to have actually feelings for this person. If they are feelings of being in love then you want to spend the rest of your life with this person. I dont know if your going through a phase or not but follow what in your heart and not your hormones.
Posted by: pinayprincess Jul 31 2005, 07:56 PM
woah.... im guessing your bi then
Posted by: lassipiktunn Aug 1 2005, 11:15 AM
no really is this normal?
cuz i got really close friends but the most we do is hug or kiss the cheeksi think u are bi already
Posted by: xxaznxgurlxx Aug 1 2005, 09:55 PM
Your may be just experimenting the feeling of it. A lot of what other people say. Maybe you just want to fool around and you actually really don't know what it is. Follow your heart ... not the choices that you make .. with another teens or womans. If you have serious feelings for that particular person, and you feel like you want to spend the rest of your life with that person, then I guess you've fallen in love with them. Follow your choices.
Posted by: ishowernaked Aug 2 2005, 02:34 PM
haha thats funnny :)
ur probably bi/curious like everyone else said --- yeah i just brought this topic back from the bottom of the list just cause it was cool
Posted by: swiftly_x_now Aug 2 2005, 05:48 PM
I'm guessing bi, or slowley moving into lesbian-hood. Because a friend of mine was totally attracted to men before she became a full out lesbian. Or you can just be experimenting.
Posted by: ursedonah Aug 3 2005, 07:13 PM
you're probably bi... I would have said curious up until I read the part about fingering...
Posted by: Paradox of Life Aug 3 2005, 08:38 PM
You know if you're a lesbian or not. But I'm assuming you're a bisexual, good open-minded you. 
Posted by: dahding Aug 3 2005, 08:40 PM
ur most likely bi, or bi slowly turning into lesbian. cause u've done some serious stuff. congrats for being open minded about this.
Posted by: anubis Aug 3 2005, 08:44 PM
i read the making out part and was like "hmm... maybe a little acceptable."
but then i read that you get naked and finger each other?
uhh..
... i'm pretty sure that's as lesbian as you can get.
Posted by: Aethyr Aug 3 2005, 09:59 PM
If she still has feelings and is still sexually attracted to males then she's not a lesbian. I think you're already experimenting, with the making out, cuddling. But fingering and laying naked with her, and you enjoy it and don't feel uncomfortable. Bisexual. However time will only tell, girls (guys) experiment just because they can say they've "done" everything in life, others do it because curiousness gets the better of them. Then most do it because they are geniuely confused. If you continue to be with females and males to see which way to tip more too, then you'll realize, though a lot can't just be with one sex after already being with the same sex.
Posted by: ROARxD Aug 4 2005, 11:45 AM
hmm.. you could be bi. you could liek both genders.
Posted by: ag3nt_sm17h Aug 4 2005, 11:54 AM
Whoah the last two lines caught me off guard...
i would say I have no reason to comment because I have no Idea, I just wantedc to wish you good luck on either decision
Posted by: aznxdreamer Nov 16 2005, 10:25 PM
i THINK your an alien.
Posted by: lilxl0ser Nov 16 2005, 11:17 PM
^agreed
but on a personal note..for quyen's virgin mind and soul...TMI!!!!!!!!
Posted by: gr00vyswordsman Nov 17 2005, 10:40 PM
that was so hawwwwt what you just said lol
Posted by: DrEaMgUy2K1 Nov 18 2005, 12:04 PM
People made some good points ><;
Your either Bi, or Bi-curious, and maybe your just going through a phase where u like to mess around, going through a phase is normal.. just not fingering ur girlfriends. And just because u enjoy sleepovers and cuddling with ur friends doesnt mean ur lesbian, why do we do things on our own? cuz we enjoy it.
Just live life as you want and youll find out either ur straight and naughty or ur bisexual or maybe even lesbian, who knows, we cant tell you what you are. i just suggest u are sure before u go telling ur parents :O
Posted by: xFaith Nov 18 2005, 12:18 PM
Woah. cant imagine me doing that with my friends o.O
Do you sometimes think about a real relationship with her, "real" love? instead of just sexual stuff? if yes, i think your bi.
Posted by: Jeng Nov 18 2005, 12:45 PM
thats just nasty to read, no offence,but its just nasty, your probably bi. but its just nasty reading your post ;xEKJWAFKLDJSFKLJSD@#$@#$@#%$^%&%.like that.
edit//and fingering each other is not normal for friends.
Posted by: Retrogressive Nov 18 2005, 01:06 PM
OH my god! ROFL LESBIANHOOD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Nice.
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and oh yeah:
http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=110586
I think we've already agreed that your bi. Get on, get over. I'm tired of teen melodrama about sexuality.
Posted by: MeLoNiSyUmMy Nov 18 2005, 01:37 PM
bi?
Posted by: XxBrookxX May 16 2007, 04:35 PM
Bi because you like both guys and girls.
Posted by: steve330 May 16 2007, 05:37 PM
I would have to go with this one too
Posted by: doomXL May 16 2007, 05:46 PM
look if you ARE bi....its fine...im gay its no big deal..its only human so if your worried about it...
Posted by: yrrnotelekktric May 16 2007, 08:00 PM
maybe you`re bisexual? 
i just love how this thread has over 1000 views and so little replies. [/sarcasm]
Posted by: .misoshiru May 16 2007, 08:32 PM
i just love how this thread has over 1000 views and so little replies. [/sarcasm]
Maybe that's because the thread was made 2 years ago?
Posted by: th5418 May 16 2007, 08:38 PM
pics please
Posted by: skillxz May 16 2007, 11:24 PM
heh..I'm not a chick but honestly, if I was a "curiuos" guy or experimenting, I don't think I would go jerk my best friend off...
I mean, honestly.
But yea, I agree you'd have to be bi or just experimenting..
Posted by: JoanOfArc May 16 2007, 11:28 PM
Sounds like you're just experimenting. You could be bisexual.
Posted by: XxBrookxX May 17 2007, 03:06 PM
Bi
Posted by: RAWRstephishere May 17 2007, 08:02 PM
youre bi.
You like guys and girls.
Posted by: Mercy May 17 2007, 08:20 PM
^You dont go from straight to bi right away.
You go from straight to bicurious then to lesbian if you choose to or go back to strictly male or remain bisexual.
Posted by: RAWRstephishere May 24 2007, 10:46 PM
You go from straight to bicurious then to lesbian if you choose to or go back to strictly male or remain bisexual.
If youre having lesbian sex with your friends, I think that kinda means you like girls
Posted by: lilxl0ser May 24 2007, 11:31 PM
maybe you're just being curious at the moment. if you have feelings for girls then that's when i would say you're bi.
Posted by: Stefanny May 24 2007, 11:53 PM
only you can decide, oh young butterfly.
Posted by: Rachelislove May 25 2007, 12:17 AM
Why did you bring back a topic from like two years ago? Seeing as this is so old, I highly doubt the poster is a)still an active member and b)confused about their sexuality.
Posted by: Mercy May 25 2007, 01:30 AM
Not always true in all cases.
Some people can be Bi-permisscuous or open to being sexual with the same sex.
But Im sure shes all ready figured out what he sexuality is already.
Posted by: lilxl0ser May 25 2007, 01:44 AM
Why did you bring back a topic from like two years ago? Seeing as this is so old, I highly doubt the poster is a)still an active member and b)confused about their sexuality.
ha ha ha i didn't even notice until i went back. ah ha...;]
Posted by: manaway May 25 2007, 07:09 PM
You know if your ever in new york and you have the need to have sex i am willing to have a 3 sum
but your probably bi witch there is nothing wrong with that
Posted by: th5418 May 25 2007, 07:24 PM
I'd take any bisexual girls in the San Jose area ;)
Posted by: Columbiancoke Jun 10 2010, 09:36 AM
ur probably just bisexual