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Do you think I should tell him?
cloudcandy
post Jun 17 2010, 03:49 PM
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okay so tomorrow is the last day of school for me, but it's a half day so I'm only there for 2 periods. So there's this teacher that I've had a crush on for the whole year...he's really young...he looks like he's 24, 25...he's Greek, tall, dark hair, muscular and wears glasses and he has a girlfriend. I was thinking about telling him that i thought he was cute.I've never had any classes with him except for one time, he supplied for my English teacher but that was first semester in the fall.i don't know why this crazy idea popped up in my head...i don't want to date him or anything...i just wanted to let him know...i won't see him again though because I'm 18 and I'm graduating this year so do u think i should do it?
 
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post Jun 17 2010, 04:00 PM
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That is so immature of you if you did that.

He's older
He has a job (anything with love affairs towards another student could affect his job)
He has a girlfriend

No.
 
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post Jun 17 2010, 04:35 PM
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QUOTE(Uso @ Jun 17 2010, 01:00 PM) *
That is so immature of you if you did that.

He's older
He has a job (anything with love affairs towards another student could affect his job)
He has a girlfriend

No.


agreed.

Anyways, original poster, do you know how much DANGER can be put into his career? People around you hearing what you will say to him will report it to someone else and think it's some time of secret relationship which will jeopardize his life and it'll also be embarrassing for yours. Just forget about telling him and forget about even liking him. You don't know who he is as a person and it seems you only like him cause of his appearance. Teachers are meant to be teachers, not high school crushes. You'll find someone else who's YOUR age, your type of guy, and someone who will BENEFIT for you.


I know this from experience cause I just had an English 1 Honors teacher that also looked young. Many of my classmates thought he was cute, but every time we joked around about so and so having a crush on my teacher, he'd like freak out, and plus he's married.
 
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post Jun 17 2010, 04:41 PM
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f*ck him. On his desk.
 
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post Jun 17 2010, 06:29 PM
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QUOTE(Cum @ Jun 17 2010, 05:35 PM) *
Anyways, original poster, do you know how much DANGER can be put into his career? People around you hearing what you will say to him will report it to someone else and think it's some time of secret relationship which will jeopardize his life and it'll also be embarrassing for yours. Just forget about telling him and forget about even liking him. You don't know who he is as a person and it seems you only like him cause of his appearance. Teachers are meant to be teachers, not high school crushes. You'll find someone else who's YOUR age, your type of guy, and someone who will BENEFIT for you.
I know this from experience cause I just had an English 1 Honors teacher that also looked young. Many of my classmates thought he was cute, but every time we joked around about so and so having a crush on my teacher, he'd like freak out, and plus he's married.

I agree with Steph and Beenly. Why tell him if you know nothing is going to come out of it? An innocent schoolgirl crush is okay as long as you don't act upon it, but he doesn't need to know about your feelings for him when he's taken and has a steady job that he wouldn't want to lose. If you care about him at all, you'll leave him alone and find someone in college whom you can date without consequence.
 
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post Jun 17 2010, 08:08 PM
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just leave an anon letter, much easier and you get your feelings out
 
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post Jun 17 2010, 09:52 PM
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QUOTE(aflyingcumshot @ Jun 17 2010, 08:08 PM) *
just leave an anon letter, much easier and you get your feelings out

Yeah you could do this. If your a f****t
 
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post Jun 17 2010, 10:34 PM
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no, thats just weird. he must know how he appears to wemon. so its just going to make you feel awkweird as all h3ll!
 
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post Jun 17 2010, 10:42 PM
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QUOTE(cloudcandy @ Jun 17 2010, 03:49 PM) *
I was thinking about telling him that i thought he was cute...i don't want to date him or anything...i just wanted to let him know...i won't see him again though because I'm 18 and I'm graduating this year so do u think i should do it?
I'm sure his girlfriend reassures him that he's cute. If you're not trying pursue anything than why make him uncomfortable?
 
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post Jun 17 2010, 11:59 PM
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QUOTE(spambot @ Jun 17 2010, 05:41 PM) *
f*ck him. On his desk.


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post Jun 18 2010, 03:01 AM
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post Jun 18 2010, 06:12 PM
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QUOTE(spambot @ Jun 17 2010, 07:52 PM) *
Yeah you could do this. If your a f****t

looks like someone is jealous cause they don't have any admirers
 
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post Jun 18 2010, 07:12 PM
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^I am so lonely :( :( :( /suicide


For srs though out of all the insanely inappropriate conversations I have had with my teachers I never once admitted/expressed how physically appealing they were just out of respect for them. It does put them in a awkward situation.
 
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post Jun 18 2010, 08:51 PM
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Plus it'll make you look bad

kids are mean nowadays
 

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