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 Feb 3 2010, 04:37 PM
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 DDR \\ I'm Dee :)  Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020  |
So what do y'all do when there is a person who you see almost everyday and she or he keeps approaching you no matter how uninterested in him or her you try to appear?
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Feb 3 2010, 05:10 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,665 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 676,364 |
Tell them you're not interested and ignore them.
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Feb 3 2010, 05:18 PM
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 Sex, Blood, & RocknRoll Group: People Staff Posts: 5,305 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 596,480 |
Be extremely passive aggressive until they leave
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Feb 3 2010, 07:39 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,938 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 667,832 |
Ignore them or just be blunt with them.
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Feb 3 2010, 08:29 PM
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 Mel Blanc was allergic to carrots. Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,371 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 676,291 |
Be assertive. Or, change your appearance.
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Feb 3 2010, 08:51 PM
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 Tick tock, Bill Group: Administrator Posts: 8,764 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,948 |
Mention something about leprosy. Or you can try the "I'm a loner, Dottie, a rebel" approach.
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Feb 3 2010, 10:02 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Dec 2009 Member No: 755,005 |
I would suggest to tell them straight forward that you're not interested in them. Better to be honest than to keep them thinking they still have a shot.
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Feb 3 2010, 11:17 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Designer Posts: 5,880 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,382 |
Completely ignore them and stare plainly into their eyes when they talk to you, with a bit of an underbite, and live with the guilt when they get the hint and leave you alone. It's worked for me many times.
Worst part for me is when I feel bad and are nice to them again, and then they start talking to me again, and then I repeat the process until they call me a jerk/douche and then I say, what did I do? I never said I don't like you, and then they say jerk/douche and never talk to me again. |
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Feb 4 2010, 12:28 AM
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DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
This person just doesn't get the hint. I'll look away when she talks and move when she sits next to me, but then she will move too. It's creepy as hell... I don't want to be a bitch and tell her flat out that I don't want to talk to her. I should pawn her off onto someone else haha
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Feb 4 2010, 01:58 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Human Posts: 525 Joined: Nov 2008 Member No: 695,913 |
QUOTE(karmakiller @ Feb 4 2010, 12:28 AM)  This person just doesn't get the hint. I'll look away when she talks and move when she sits next to me, but then she will move too. It's creepy as hell... I don't want to be a bitch and tell her flat out that I don't want to talk to her. I should pawn her off onto someone else haha ya but better then to lead them on as a friend, and think they have a chance, should just come straight out and tell them you don't a friendship will mount from this Stay Up -1- Subliminal |
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Feb 6 2010, 11:33 AM
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