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Friends with Benifits, Your veiws
troubled_angel
post Mar 8 2005, 07:05 PM
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Hey, i was just curious what everyone's veiws on Friends with benifits was. Where i am its more popular than actual going out, but then some of my friends still get hurt pretty bad when they start liking the dude. Whatcha'll think of FWB?
 
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post Mar 8 2005, 07:19 PM
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umm...im kind of confused..but i think i know what you mean...but if im right about what it is, then, i think its stupid. why dont people just..go out??
 
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post Mar 8 2005, 07:21 PM
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its a bad idea to have a friend with benefits. somebody's feelings are boudn to get hurt.
 
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post Mar 8 2005, 07:23 PM
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it's disaster waiting to happen. Hearts waiting to be destroyed. Feelings ready to git hurt. Mistakes waiting to take place. very cheap way to hook up
 
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post Mar 8 2005, 07:39 PM
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embrace the search button, please!!!!

http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php...154&hl=benefits
 
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post Mar 8 2005, 07:53 PM
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QUOTE(StarlitxFrosT @ Mar 8 2005, 7:23 PM)
it's disaster waiting to happen. Hearts waiting to be destroyed.  Feelings ready to git hurt.  Mistakes waiting to take place. very cheap way to hook up
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post Mar 8 2005, 07:55 PM
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It's okay. I take what I can get... and I can get FWB easier than GF.
 
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post Mar 8 2005, 07:55 PM
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it's disaster waiting to happen. Hearts waiting to be destroyed. Feelings ready to git hurt. Mistakes waiting to take place. very cheap way to hook up


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post Mar 8 2005, 07:59 PM
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Dont do it , feelings will eventually start to emerge.
 
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post Mar 8 2005, 08:12 PM
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nope i dont do it its just wierd mellow.gif
 
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post Mar 8 2005, 08:18 PM
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Friends with benefits are for those who aren't looking for a relationship, but want something (normally, sex is associated with FWB's). Personally, if you're a person who can grow easily attached, then this method of a no-strings-attached friendship is definitely not for you.

I had a fwb in the past, and personally, it was okay for me, since I'm not easily attached to a person.. My friend was on a different path, because a few months later he had wanted to start a real relationship, something I didn't want, so I ended it with him.
 
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post Mar 8 2005, 08:32 PM
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hmm im kinda in that situation now...n it sucks.
 
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post Mar 8 2005, 08:34 PM
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QUOTE(you suck @ Mar 8 2005, 8:32 PM)
hmm im kinda in that situation now...n it sucks.
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What sucks about it? If you need any help/advice, I'd be willing to offer.
PM me if you want to! :)
 
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post Mar 8 2005, 11:02 PM
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ive had 3, sigh , sometimes its good, but feelings always get mixed in it, or sometimes u feel empty and u want something more so yeah....not really a good idea
 
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post Mar 8 2005, 11:16 PM
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Friends with benifits can be fun, but it always leads to be a mess. I have had one or two. It depends on the kind of friends with benifits you are. You do have different like stages of it.
 
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post Mar 8 2005, 11:30 PM
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From personal experience with my ex-boyfriend(we became friends with benefits after we broke up) and its so NOT a good idea. I totally freaked out and became distant and all. A BIG MESS!

But if its your thing, then go for it. No judgement.
 
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post Mar 8 2005, 11:32 PM
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aren't there topics on this? ermm.gif

anyways, it depends on the person really...they can be okay but sometimes one person ends up having feelings for the other and that just ends up being a mess...
 
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post Mar 8 2005, 11:36 PM
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I was against it... but um... ermm.gif ... i guess I no longer am...? -_-
 
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post Mar 8 2005, 11:58 PM
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I don't really like it, because someone is bound to get hurt.
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 10:13 PM
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QUOTE
hmm im kinda in that situation now...n it sucks.


yea me 2.... ermm.gif
 
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post Mar 10 2005, 10:17 PM
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Friends with benefits is bad because someone always get's attached.
 
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post Mar 12 2005, 05:57 PM
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i think it's hot and i wouldnt mind it. but w/certain friends... i wouldnt want to get emotional about them..
 
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post Mar 12 2005, 06:25 PM
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QUOTE(StarlitxFrosT @ Mar 8 2005, 7:23 PM)
it's disaster waiting to happen. Hearts waiting to be destroyed.  Feelings ready to git hurt.  Mistakes waiting to take place. very cheap way to hook up
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i completely agree with everything you said!
 
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post Mar 12 2005, 06:58 PM
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...the responsiblility of a relationship....scares most people into not wanting a relationship....but yet we get jelious when the girl...flirts with another guy or visa versa...but yet we were not their boyfriend or girlfriend....

confusing... mellow.gif
 
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post Mar 12 2005, 07:57 PM
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Friends with benefits gets old, I want something more than just the physical.
 

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