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 Nov 4 2007, 01:13 AM
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QUOTE(aestheticYOU @ Nov 4 2007, 12:57 AM)  I'm not ashamed, nor am I proud. It's nice to know it was with someone I cared about, instead of a random guy off the street. We'd known each other for awhile, but I will say that the relationship was a little forced; we both knew trying was a mistake, but it all turned out well. I associate my virtue with love; I couldn't of made the choice I did if I didn't care. Adults scare teenagers with sex to prevent pre-marriage pregnancy. Little do they know that it just makes us curious to try; few people are really in love when they have their first sexual encounter. By the way, I think if you can't say the word 'sex' openly, you shouldn't be having it; just a thought. my friend got knocked up at 16/17 but she secretly wanted a kid because she was sleeping with any guy and NEVER using a condom. she wanted a crutch in life. pissed me off. i'm turning 20 and i'm still not all the way normal with talking about it to my dad. i think he knows so, idk |
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Nov 4 2007, 01:17 AM
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My parents don't know, I think. I hope they don't. It's not something I'm prepared to talk about, especially since I was always asked to wait.
That's what really weighs on my conscience. |
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Nov 4 2007, 01:31 AM
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QUOTE(aestheticYOU @ Nov 4 2007, 01:17 AM) My parents don't know, I think. I hope they don't. It's not something I'm prepared to talk about, especially since I was always asked to wait. That's what really weighs on my conscience. well im sure most parents werent virgins till they were married anyways |
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Nov 4 2007, 11:58 AM
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^ Mine were. They waited. I'm honouring that and doing the same.
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Nov 4 2007, 02:04 PM
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QUOTE(jeanna @ Nov 4 2007, 12:03 AM) yeah, ok but that doesn't mean it's going to be good sex. a lot of marriages end because the sex sucks and the reason they cheat. That's what my mom told me. 
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Nov 4 2007, 02:16 PM
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Not really a good thing to tell teens.
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Nov 4 2007, 02:19 PM
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QUOTE(S-Majere @ Nov 4 2007, 02:16 PM) Not really a good thing to tell teens. Nah she didn't mean it like "GO HAVE LOTS OF SEX BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED" but more like "Once youre older and think youve found the person you want to be with, it's okay to have sex because it's an important part of a relationship and if you don't, and you find out too late that your husband totally sucks, you're not going to be happy and will most likely end up cheating on him." haha yeah so I'm waiting til I'm older, just not til marriage. |
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Nov 4 2007, 02:48 PM
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Eh well...technically I'm not, but I still consider myself a virgin because the way it was lost was kind of...not quite right and I don't even remember it.
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Nov 4 2007, 02:53 PM
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QUOTE(breakingdawn @ Nov 4 2007, 03:19 PM) Nah she didn't mean it like "GO HAVE LOTS OF SEX BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED" but more like "Once youre older and think youve found the person you want to be with, it's okay to have sex because it's an important part of a relationship and if you don't, and you find out too late that your husband totally sucks, you're not going to be happy and will most likely end up cheating on him." haha yeah so I'm waiting til I'm older, just not til marriage. exactly lol. how do people go a year+ without having sex? idk who can hold out for that long. a month long relationship and you sleep with them, sure that's not good. |
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Nov 4 2007, 03:30 PM
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QUOTE(jeanna @ Nov 4 2007, 02:53 PM) exactly lol. how do people go a year+ without having sex? idk who can hold out for that long. a month long relationship and you sleep with them, sure that's not good. That would be me. I've been seeing my other half now for over 18 months and we've never had sex. I intend to marry this guy, and he I. I know he's with me for all the right reasons and even if he did suck - so what? We have the rest of our lives to have a giggle and try different things together. In essence, we'd help each other learn the art of lovemaking. I would never ditch someone who loves me so much, when alls it takes is practise to make perfect. There seems to be a lot of talk about dumping a guy if he 'sucks', but isn't sex a, ahem, 'team effort'? |
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Nov 5 2007, 02:01 AM
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im 15 and still a virgin.
me and my best friend plan to lose it to eachother. xD |
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Nov 5 2007, 02:22 PM
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I was 15
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Nov 5 2007, 02:41 PM
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QUOTE(peaceloveskinny @ Nov 5 2007, 02:01 AM) im 15 and still a virgin. me and my best friend plan to lose it to eachother. xD I hope that's a contingency plan! |
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Nov 5 2007, 03:11 PM
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QUOTE(S-Majere @ Nov 4 2007, 04:30 PM) That would be me. I've been seeing my other half now for over 18 months and we've never had sex. I intend to marry this guy, and he I. I know he's with me for all the right reasons and even if he did suck - so what? We have the rest of our lives to have a giggle and try different things together. In essence, we'd help each other learn the art of lovemaking. I would never ditch someone who loves me so much, when alls it takes is practise to make perfect. There seems to be a lot of talk about dumping a guy if he 'sucks', but isn't sex a, ahem, 'team effort'? thing is, not many people are as smart as you 
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Nov 8 2007, 11:45 PM
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When I was 7 years old, lets just say my friend and I were really bored.
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Nov 9 2007, 01:59 AM
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QUOTE(S-Majere @ Oct 21 2007, 01:02 AM) I love the idea that virginity is a 'gift' that is given on a wedding night, and I do so want to give that gift to my husband. yea some gift, giving unexpierience smex to your husband, who he in turn might not be a virgin and might have had ahhhmazing smex some previous girlfreinds. 
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Nov 9 2007, 06:00 AM
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QUOTE(Laughsalot @ Nov 9 2007, 01:59 AM) yea some gift, giving unexpierience smex to your husband, who he in turn might not be a virgin and might have had ahhhmazing smex some previous girlfreinds. Yeah, right. I don't want your experiences. I'm still confused as to the perception that all virgins will be crap in bed forever and after. It's a learning curve; there is absolutely no rush to become sexually active just for the sheer hell of saying you're better than someone else is or will be. We are all going to become sexually active adults at some point in our lives; a head start makes no difference and I'm sure it will be good fun catching up with the rest of you. As to my husband, I hope he will be my boyfriend. We're both virgins and we're both agreed - we'll lose it to each other on our wedding night. How is that going to be any worse than a sexually precocious couple that have lost it to different partners? It's not, it's far better in my eyes. |
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Nov 10 2007, 06:36 PM
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I havent yet but im going to lose it pretty soon (hopefully on my 15th birthday with my boyfriend, before its illegl lol) :)
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Nov 10 2007, 09:13 PM
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I'm waiting until I'm married or until a really wonderful guy comes around and we've been seeing a each other for a while. Just don't think I'd be up for it (or ready) while I'm still in high school.
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Nov 27 2007, 06:56 PM
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Hmm, this is something really strange for me. I'm still a virgin, and I plan to keep my virginity for quite a while now. It throws me off how a lot of you have lost it at such a young age (in my opinion-- I'm not here as a critic for when you should lose it)
I'm really curious about when to have it. Haha,I mean, I KNOW I was a mistake (: |
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Nov 30 2007, 08:47 PM
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I am proud to say I still am a virgin.
:) and what I love about it is that no matter how many people at my school think I'm a whore, I can just laugh in their face because I'm not... I haven't done shit with anyoneee! So I'm good. :D |
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Nov 30 2007, 10:48 PM
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^i'v been called a whore too. hate it but i just ignore them.
i'm 17 n i'm still a virgin. |
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Dec 1 2007, 12:13 PM
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QUOTE(S-Majere @ Oct 21 2007, 04:03 PM) But it is more than that and virignity refers to a purity in spirit and mind, as well as body. It's often referred to as innocence you can lose your innocence without having sex  ha ha... anyways... im a proud 17 yr old virgin. I dont plan to have sex til im married... |
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Dec 1 2007, 12:24 PM
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damn. I haven't even had my first kiss... or my first boyfriend
 I'm so lonely.Unless you count online boyfriends... Tehe.. I was a very interesting 10 year old.
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Dec 1 2007, 11:50 PM
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Not yet. Waiting for the right time
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