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I'm 18, attracted to older guys.., i mean, 30+
goth-nina
post Feb 26 2009, 06:06 PM
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Geez, i don't know, haha. Just through experience, I hate guys in my age. I could honestly tell you why I love older guys, but i still haven't found a good reason yet. Maturity? That can't be the only reason...i-is that weird? Or dangerous?

When i was in high school, i was automatically dragged with people around with guys. & i did have a few guy friends, but they were so immature. Then i figured, not all guys this age are like this. But it convinced me well enough for 18 years.
 
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post Feb 26 2009, 06:14 PM
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how do you know if you hate guys "in your age" if you don't even leave your house?
 
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post Feb 26 2009, 06:35 PM
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At least you're legal. Have you tried being with someone around your age?
 
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post Feb 26 2009, 10:26 PM
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I have a friend like you and while she's a great girl, she got burned by boys our age. So she's dating older guys but she's starting to realize they aren't any better than immature guys.

I don't get the appeal of a little teenage girl going after 30 year old guys. It's two completely different worlds. An 18 year old girl shouldn't worry about maturity when she herself isn't exactly the most mature type.

I'm attracted to some older men and I've flirted with a 30 year old doctor but I'd never seriously date them. I'm worried about my next Chem exam while he would be worried about getting audit. Could not relate shrug.gif


 
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post Feb 27 2009, 12:14 AM
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QUOTE(kryogenix @ Feb 26 2009, 01:14 PM) *
how do you know if you hate guys "in your age" if you don't even leave your house?
 
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post Feb 27 2009, 12:43 AM
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QUOTE(kryogenix @ Feb 26 2009, 07:14 PM) *
how do you know if you hate guys "in your age" if you don't even leave your house?


lol yeah she has 0 credibility
 
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post Feb 27 2009, 01:46 PM
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QUOTE(kryogenix @ Feb 26 2009, 06:14 PM) *
how do you know if you hate guys "in your age" if you don't even leave your house?


This ^
 
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post Feb 27 2009, 07:12 PM
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QUOTE(goth-nina @ Feb 26 2009, 06:06 PM) *
Geez, i don't know, haha. Just through experience, I hate guys in my age. I could honestly tell you why I love older guys, but i still haven't found a good reason yet. Maturity? That can't be the only reason...i-is that weird? Or dangerous?

When i was in high school, i was automatically dragged with people around with guys. & i did have a few guy friends, but they were so immature. Then i figured, not all guys this age are like this. But it convinced me well enough for 18 years.

go and give it a try..

this way.. you kill 2 birds with one arrow..

1.you go out n try n look at guys age...

2.you smile n flirt..

soon u aint afraid da go outside and u can go college n not afraid people.. thumbsup.gif
 
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post Mar 2 2009, 08:29 PM
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happy.gif I agree with the maturity issue, I've always been attracted to guys older than me. But I I've dated them months older and even 4yrs older. The older they are the more they apretiate us and value the relationship. Specially if they've had serious ones before.
 
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post Mar 2 2009, 08:35 PM
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I just have a hard time believing that to many normal thirty year olds look for 18 year olds to date. So when it happens I instantly think "Whats wrong with this guy to wear he can't get a girl his own age?" So I don't know if dangerous is the right word, but yeah be careful.
 
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post Mar 2 2009, 08:38 PM
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I just have a hard time believing that to many normal thirty year olds look for 18 year olds to date. So when it happens I instantly think "Whats wrong with this guy to wear he can't get a girl his own age?" So I don't know if dangerous is the right word, but yeah be careful.


this is exactly how i feel. i can't help but wonder why a 30+ year old grown man would even mess with 18 year olds. to me personally it's just ironic that someone would want a "mature" man and think that a grown man who dates children is the definition of mature.
 
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post Mar 2 2009, 08:58 PM
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QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Mar 2 2009, 08:38 PM) *
this is exactly how i feel. i can't help but wonder why a 30+ year old grown man would even mess with 18 year olds. to me personally it's just ironic that someone would want a "mature" man and think that a grown man who dates children is the definition of mature.


Im gonna have to jump on the bandwagon. Like seriously, what can a 18 y/o offer a 30 y/o man besides whines and complaints that mom is finally kicking them out? A 30 y/o man has had about 12-13 years of experience as being an independent adult, who has possibly been married, had a few kids, a nice house, car, career, and maybe even on his way to being a powerful congressman or some successful stuff [imagination is great lol thumbsup.gif]. A 18 y/o only has 4 years of college and debts to look foward to, along with a lot of maturing to do. So again, why is a 30 y/o interested in a 18 y/o? Thats like a 20 y/o dating a 8 y/o. blink.gif
 
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post Mar 2 2009, 09:03 PM
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i thought you had super anxiety around people and have been house-bound for 8 months...
 
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post Oct 4 2009, 11:26 AM
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im the same way!
its just that i have more in common with older.
me and my boyfriend who is 12 years older than me
are really happy togeather. some times thats how
its meant to be <3

just be happy!
 
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post Oct 4 2009, 05:32 PM
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I don't know....like sometimes they just want some quickie action. Just be careful, sometimes its more emotional
 
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post Nov 22 2009, 09:59 PM
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depends on what u mean by older, like 18-25 ok, 26-30 depends, 31+ is just plain wierd
 
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post Nov 22 2009, 10:00 PM
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I'm 42, attracted to younger women.


But you're too old for me. I need like 12.
 
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post Nov 22 2009, 10:04 PM
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QUOTE(itanium @ Nov 22 2009, 08:00 PM) *
I'm 42, attracted to younger women.
But you're too old for me. I need like 12.


illegal much
 
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post Nov 22 2009, 10:06 PM
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QUOTE(itanium @ Nov 22 2009, 09:00 PM) *
I'm 42, attracted to younger women.
But you're too old for me. I need like 12.

Too old. I tap out at 10.
 
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post Nov 22 2009, 11:48 PM
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QUOTE(IWontRapeYou @ Nov 22 2009, 09:06 PM) *
Too old. I tap out at 10.

Normally, I would say the same thing, but I do make exceptions.
 
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post May 22 2010, 12:01 AM
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uhmm a 18 year olds and a 30 + together ? that's kinda gross !! do you go for older guys for their money ? lol
 

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