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Friends with Benifits, Your veiws
purestkiss101
post Mar 12 2005, 10:20 PM
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been in one once before kinda. --right after a break up-- dont do it..things can get alot worse than before
 
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post Mar 12 2005, 10:25 PM
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I think FWB is alright. You can't fall in love. You can't get hurt. You can do whatever you want with any of your friends you want, but is it alright with them?

I don't do FWB though. I see people that do it. Yea...That's right.
 
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post Mar 12 2005, 10:27 PM
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friend with benefits? we call it friends with privleges here tongue.gif dont know how to spell it but anywho FWP is okay as long neither one is dating anyone. and if one does start dating the other one it should stop. unless the other one gets jealous...thats where it kinda get messed up.


but im a fan of it =)
 
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post Mar 13 2005, 04:33 AM
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i really dont like the idea
 
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post Mar 13 2005, 03:05 PM
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It's not a good idea because one or the other always gets hurt...normally anyway.
 
justalanna
post Mar 13 2005, 05:20 PM
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Friends with Benifits only exists because people are afraid of commitment. This fear causes pain because most people who are involved in one of these relationships get hurt. I wouldn't recommend it. Try an actual relationship, with meaningful conversations as well as physicalness. =)
 
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post Mar 13 2005, 09:53 PM
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i thinkt heir good as long as u dun fall head ova heels... friends wit benifits meens no attachments
 
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post Mar 13 2005, 10:10 PM
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most girls can't deal with it....well i guess it can be the guy too...but usually someone just ends up getting hurt.
 
jordanriane
post Mar 14 2005, 12:49 AM
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QUOTE(justalanna @ Mar 13 2005, 5:20 PM)
Friends with Benifits only exists because people are afraid of commitment. This fear causes pain because most people who are involved in one of these relationships get hurt. I wouldn't recommend it. Try an actual relationship, with meaningful conversations as well as physicalness. =)
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I did not have FWB relationships because I was afraid of commitment; I've been in a few commited relationships (and a few, because obviously, they were for quite some time). Sometimes people take the route of FWB because they're not looking for anything at the moment, just some casual sex with the same person, no strings attached.
 
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post Mar 14 2005, 04:09 AM
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QUOTE(jordanriane @ Mar 13 2005, 9:49 PM)
I did not have FWB relationships because I was afraid of commitment; I've been in a few commited relationships (and a few, because obviously, they were for quite some time). Sometimes people take the route of FWB because they're not looking for anything at the moment, just some casual sex with the same person, no strings attached.
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yea nicely put. Sometimes u just want to get away from all the drama problems and seriousness and kick back and have some casual sex along the road =] .
 
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post Mar 14 2005, 10:52 PM
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I think its GREAT!!!!! I have ALOT of friends with benefits! lol. I dont see nothing wrong with that!
 
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post Mar 15 2005, 12:38 AM
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post Mar 16 2005, 12:06 PM
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I think it is both good and bad.

The good: You have fun with the person without having to be obligated to talk to them all the time. Bottom line is that kissing is fun, and it's more spontaneous if it just happens

The bad: Usually someone is bound to think of the other person as more than a friend. Feelings can get hurt really badly if the person doesn't return the feeling.

I don't mind it, personally, but I see where everyone else is coming from when they say it is bad.
 
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post Mar 16 2005, 12:09 PM
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umm...im kind of confused..but i think i know what you mean...but if im right about what it is, then, i think its stupid. why dont people just..go out??


i agree completely
 
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post Mar 16 2005, 01:28 PM
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Sex - Yes

Friends w/benefits - No
 
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post Mar 16 2005, 01:50 PM
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friends with benifits...sigh.
there fun for a while, then get boring
 
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post Mar 16 2005, 02:35 PM
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i think that as long as there's no strings attached its ok. but i think that for me n e way i would be really disgusted with myself for wat i was doing. i would be ashamed of myself n it would not b something i would wanna talk about with my friends. n also it's bound to effect someone.

but dont u think ur a better person than that? u guys settle for so much less. u can have so much more. if u have FWB then honestly u SHOULD be ashamed because you r SO much better than that. u think thats all ur body is worth...n that's not good. its something u should cherish. that's wat i mostly think of it...u deserve so much better. that's all i gotta say..
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 12:57 AM
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I don't really like it, but if you're the type who isn't into commitment, then go for it. Whatever floats your boat.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 08:41 PM
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I think it's a horrible idea because someone always ends up getting hurt.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 08:59 PM
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i dont like the thought of pseudo- relationships because no matter what, it'll always end up causing one's feelings/heart to be broken and hurt.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 09:19 PM
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Well friends with benefits really depends on how many benefits and why you want to just be friends with benefits. Let's say, you just miss kissing someone so you and your friend occasionally make out or something. Then I guess that could be okay as long as you don't get emotionally attached, which is hard not to do. But if you want to be friends with benefits with someone because you possibly just got out of a relationship and it was hurtful so you condemn them, then I would have to say, no. If you're doing it as a way to get out of being hurt then you will be sadly mistaken because many people can still get hurt. If you're doing it just because you want to, you miss how it feels, then sure, why not? Even though there still might be a chance of getting hurt. ....Kind of confusing haha.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 09:45 PM
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i have a friend with benefit right now...i like it
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 09:49 PM
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Never had FWB, but it'd be kind of cool.
 
whatiismae
post Mar 17 2005, 10:51 PM
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that is a horrible idea. both parties are being used physically and it can only end in disaster.
 
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post Mar 17 2005, 11:27 PM
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uhhh no no no no no...someone is going to get hurrrrrrrrt.
 

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