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Major Turnoffs, Version 2, What traits in a guy piss you off?
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post Mar 9 2008, 02:50 PM
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Which of these traits would turn you off the most if a guy had them?

For me, it'd be having too large of an ego or him trying to be someone he's not. A guy should sometimes be modest and always be genuine.
 
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post Mar 9 2008, 02:58 PM
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Definitely bad hygiene. Mainly because if he stunk or smelled of goat ass, why would I want to be close to him, ever? That'd be the first thing to turn me off, anyway.

Boring guys really turn me off, so I'm not sure how I would feel about having a guy who's "too talkative." I would have to say that gossipy guys come next. I rarely gossip. I say things to others that I have already said to the person I'm talking about. I need a man in the relationship; not some faggy-gossipy guy-girl.
 
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post Mar 9 2008, 04:29 PM
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trying to be something hes not
arrogant, conceited
body odor
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being self centered.

body odor also includes over abusing the power of axe.
 
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post Mar 9 2008, 04:31 PM
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LYING. i hate pathological liars :(.
 
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post Mar 9 2008, 09:52 PM
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If my feelings got crushed by someone or something
Or I'm feeling really upset about something
- insert terrible something and reason for me to be upset -
Then I'm supposed to be able to run to my boyfriend, bury my face in his shoulder, and cry. Or, I'd hope so. If he just looks at me and goes "psh. suck it up and stop crying." I'm pretty sure I'd hate him for life.

Girls are emotional. (most. I'm not saying we all are). I need somebody who, even if he doesn't understand, will be slightly sympathetic.

This works in reverse, too. If I'm happy, and he's in a bad mood, he is not allowed to tell me to shut up or go somewhere else.

insensitivity. Bleh.
 
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post Mar 18 2008, 10:57 AM
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QUOTE(babecakes @ Mar 9 2008, 05:31 PM) *
LYING. i hate pathological liars :(.

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a too talkative one is terribly annoying and being impolite is a definite no.
 
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post Mar 23 2008, 03:29 AM
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Yeah. Honestly. Bad hygiene. I just can never get past that.
 
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post Mar 23 2008, 09:55 PM
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pusillanimity
cowardice
gutlessness
 
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post Mar 23 2008, 10:01 PM
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I'll have to say that smoking is a major turn-off.
 
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post Mar 24 2008, 12:36 AM
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A little bit of all of those. wink.gif
 
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post Mar 24 2008, 12:51 AM
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all of the above.


other turn offs:
being shallow
being close-minded/unwilling to try or learn new things
being crass and boorish
lack of intelligence
lack of ambition/passion
 
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post Mar 24 2008, 08:00 AM
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When you're busy watching trashy TV like reruns of "Rock of Love" and he suddenly bursts in on you and changes the channel to ESPN or, even worse, turns on the gamecube and starts playing Smash without even asking if you're ok with it and when you complain and try to kill him, he just laughs and keeps playing/watching his game/sport.

Is there a term for this? Tv-hoggishness? Domineering? Inconsiderate asshoggery?


... maybe its a personal issue.
 
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post Mar 24 2008, 09:27 AM
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Cockiness. No sense of humor. a-hole to girls around his friends.
There actually aren't that many for me. Just these three main ones.
 
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post Mar 25 2008, 07:49 PM
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guys who have no respect. & when guys try to talk to you they say stuff like "ey' girl" or "pssst"
 
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post Mar 25 2008, 10:28 PM
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I think having bad hygiene is definitely the worst.
 
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post Apr 3 2008, 10:28 AM
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QUOTE(CapCaDancer @ Mar 9 2008, 07:52 PM) *
If my feelings got crushed by someone or something
Or I'm feeling really upset about something
- insert terrible something and reason for me to be upset -
Then I'm supposed to be able to run to my boyfriend, bury my face in his shoulder, and cry. Or, I'd hope so. If he just looks at me and goes "psh. suck it up and stop crying." I'm pretty sure I'd hate him for life.

Girls are emotional. (most. I'm not saying we all are). I need somebody who, even if he doesn't understand, will be slightly sympathetic.

This works in reverse, too. If I'm happy, and he's in a bad mood, he is not allowed to tell me to shut up or go somewhere else.

insensitivity. Bleh.


Amen! You summed up what I wanted to say, pretty much. My boyfriend does this sometimes and it pisses the hell out of me. He calls it being blunt when he talks to me after I've gotten my feelings hurt. Psh.

- Smoking.
- Insensitivity.
- Anger/temper issues.
- Hanging up on the phone with me when he's mad.
- Horniness (Some girls like it, but too much of it is just... eh.)
- Not treating me with the respect I deserve as a woman.
- Lying
- Hiding things from you, mad turnoff.
 
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post Apr 5 2008, 12:53 PM
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COCKINESS

ugh.
just, ugh.
 
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post Apr 8 2008, 08:20 PM
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i hate guys who are too cocky, but i also hate guys that are too pussy to do anything.
stupidity also pisses me off.
bad/yellow teeth.
fake.
unorganized.
dependent on mommy and daddy.
 
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post Apr 8 2008, 09:13 PM
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being self centerd is a big thing for me.. i mean my ex. was sort of like that and we went through a lot of things and i relized some of it was bc of him and him only. but i mean its a big pet peeve now.. and it just gets on my nerves. i would of voted for bad breath but i cant vote twice. :p
 
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post Apr 12 2008, 10:00 AM
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I don't like guys that are uncircumcised. I know that's not a trait but I don't like it.
 
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post Apr 12 2008, 11:57 AM
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Guys who:
Lie to me
Hide things from me
Hygiene
insensitivity
No sense of humor
doesn't know how to keep a conversation
Doesn't know when to shut up
immature are the wrong times
Fake, I want someone who's genuine to themselves and me.
 
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post Apr 19 2008, 03:47 PM
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-BAD ODER! : "eww"
-Negative about life:"So cut my wrists and black my eyes!" scary much
-High ego:"Shut up...your not all that"
-Anti-social: since I'm not
-Horrible personality

 
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post Apr 19 2008, 03:58 PM
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All of the above on the poll...but I also can't deal with immature people, like this one guy always called me mama & I started feeling like it because I was always telling him about how he should be courteous to my roommates & other things that he should've known from good home training...plus he was just too cocky for me; but he's a track star from Miami so what was I thinking in the first place...
 
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post Apr 19 2008, 05:07 PM
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i hate sexism/male chauvinism. also, i hate guys who think they're the shit when they're really just shit. arrogance/cockiness is also a huge turn off. bad hygiene sucks too, but at least you can fix that...
 
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post Apr 20 2008, 08:31 AM
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All of those things turn me off, but if he smells and looks like shit, i wouldn't even attempt to talk to him... but i'm married now so i don't have that issue anymore :)
 

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