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Posted by: XxBrookxX May 17 2007, 06:16 PM

I know theirs already a topic on this but I wanted to take a poll.

**Im not saying im going to do it, im just wondering what some people think**

Posted by: Intercourse. May 18 2007, 01:13 AM

Yea, completely. This is in my personal opinion and in no way to be taken the wrong way

But most people at 14 are really immature. I hate to say it but its true. And they are in no way mature enough to take care of a kid. I've always stuck by if your not mature enough or ready to have a kid then you shouldn't have sex, at all. And if you choose to do so out of the curiosity this world puts under some kids. Then be safe and perhaps talk to your parents about it and get on some birth control.

Posted by: AngelicEyz00 May 18 2007, 01:24 AM

Eh, it's their choice. Who am I to judge. Wrong? No. Maybe a little too young.

Posted by: krn_kiddo254 May 18 2007, 01:28 AM

Well it depends. If she is married than no. Sex out of wedlock is yes.

Posted by: &/degradanca. May 18 2007, 04:55 AM

I voted yes.
My opinion? I cannot picture 8th graders having sex, period. Most all 14 year olds I know are just not mature enough to handle the consequences, even though they think they know what could happen. I'd hope that if one that young insisted upon having sex, they'd approach their parents and get put on the pill, at the very least...

Posted by: hazardous May 18 2007, 08:13 PM

i have lots of friends that have sex, along with alot of other things. it's really not that uncommon but i suppose i just hang out with bad kids.
it's their decision, but as holly said, most of them are too immature to handle a child.

Posted by: xdinosaurr May 19 2007, 12:32 AM

i don't think its wrong. my boyfriend and i had sex a few times but we were safe & responsible.

Posted by: marzipan May 20 2007, 03:27 PM

I think it's wrong. If you have sex when you're 14, if something bad happens, you'd be too young to handle the consequences. It is WAY too young an age to be having sex.

Posted by: AngelicEyz00 May 20 2007, 03:42 PM

I think 11 is too young

Posted by: funk.this May 20 2007, 08:02 PM

I think 11 is prepubescent, ergo awkward.

Posted by: o0h misz May 20 2007, 08:12 PM

i still dont think its wrong~

Posted by: xodonniedarko May 21 2007, 04:03 PM

Having sex at 14 years old will, in my opinion, ruin your life.

Posted by: Katana.Samurai May 21 2007, 06:23 PM

wayy to young...

Posted by: Stefanny May 21 2007, 06:35 PM

Agreed. Sex is a part of life, and you can choose to have it at any time, if you're of level of maturity and understanding. But if you have it too young, then yes, it will ruin your life, like the quoted said.

Posted by: eloizhere48 May 21 2007, 08:27 PM

I would have to say that is it wrong because of course, you are too young. I should have listened to my mother. I started having sex at 14 and now [17 years old] I have a 4 month old. But I'm happy and my family is happy as well.

Posted by: MyMichelle May 21 2007, 08:30 PM

Sex is only sex, and we're all just a bunch of animals. shrugs*

;) Depends on the 14 year old's morals and maturity. It's not up to us to determine whether he/she should be having sex or not. (The same goes for abortion and gay marriage!)

Posted by: Autobahn May 21 2007, 08:31 PM

Yes, it's a young age but I suppose there are mature 14 year olds out there. I guess I'm not either for or against it, neutral. By now they should be aware of the consequences, and well, if it goes wrong then who's to blame?

Posted by: freeflow May 21 2007, 08:35 PM

I think its way to young too, but if thats someone preference then go ahead.

Posted by: AngelicEyz00 May 21 2007, 08:54 PM

How exactly does it ruin your life?

Posted by: loveylovely May 21 2007, 08:56 PM

Yeah, just a little bit too young. I said yes.

Posted by: Mercy May 21 2007, 08:58 PM

Do what you want.

Posted by: crissyx3 May 22 2007, 04:52 AM

I think 14 is WAAAYYY too young.
I'm 14. I dont mind the thought of it, but I just think its wrong to have sex at this age.

Posted by: viola_winnie May 22 2007, 05:26 AM

Yes,absolutely.
If something unexpected happen(you figure out...),what would you do
prepare to be a mother?

Posted by: Rachelislove May 22 2007, 01:37 PM

Ya, I'd like to know this too. Because in my experience, sex has made life a lot more enjoyable .


There is no right or wrong in this question. It is all subjective and completely different for each person. Some 14 year olds are mature enough to handle a sexual relationship while some 24 year olds can't.

Posted by: Wo0yaPo0ya May 22 2007, 03:22 PM

No. If they're mature, feel they're ready, and neither is pressuring the other then it's fine. And of course, if they use protection.

Posted by: Smak7 May 22 2007, 03:31 PM

I didn't really have that hardcore of a sex drive at 14, I was eager to make out with someone, not screw them. If a 14 year old is having sex I'm taking a wild guess and saying it's not with another 14 year old, it's with someone older who is convincing them to have sex...do what you want, but make sure it's really what you want, you can't take your virginity back.

Posted by: michelina~kudelka May 22 2007, 10:03 PM

Well, my personal opinion, even though you may THINK you're mature enough to handle the consequences of something like that at such a young age, you are probably not. I don't think that at that age you could even begin to understand what is involved with something like that and what it can do to your feelings...I'm also going under the assumption that a 14-year-old wouldn't have a one night stand while answering this

Posted by: mal_err_ee May 25 2007, 01:33 PM

how many fourteen year olds do you know that are married?

Posted by: RyanWasHere May 25 2007, 01:36 PM

I second that question

and wedlock makes marriage sound like a prison sentence..oh wait it is

Posted by: mal_err_ee May 25 2007, 01:41 PM

WELL PUT!

when i was fourteen - kids HAD sex, but it was because they were trashy little girls who were a bit too curious, and are still the ones that are the pit of every slut joke.
the idea of hand jobs and getting fingered was the more exciting of subjects in middle school among some of my more experienced friends

Posted by: RyanWasHere May 25 2007, 01:56 PM

thank you, & ya the same things circulated around my middle school...I can't help but laugh when I think back...,"wtf is a clit??!?!"

Posted by: kayali7 May 26 2007, 02:05 AM

lol... bad in my opnion, but not wrong.

Posted by: z3nn1 May 28 2007, 07:53 AM

In my opinion yes, but it isn't wrong but need to be at the right maturity level to take on the consequences.

Posted by: Jeng May 28 2007, 10:55 AM

Yes. YESSSSS. You little desperate [insert word here]

Posted by: xburnoutx00 May 28 2007, 11:31 AM

I think it's too young, unless you understand the consequences and are ready to deal with them. Which is pretty much repeating what everyone else is saying.

I mean, if I found out my sister was having sex, I'd probably beat her. [in a sister way ;D]

Posted by: XxSugarKisses_TeddyHugsxX May 28 2007, 07:29 PM

Ugh today my mom gave me the "sex talk" god it was horrable. She heard me telling my friend that my ex wanted to f**k me. She kept saying was all they want is your body bla bla bla wait until your married bla bla bla dont wear low cut shirts (I always do)it gives them the wrong idea.

Posted by: fathomlessdame May 28 2007, 11:36 PM

yeah, i believe 14 is wayy to young cuz what if you got pregnant? i dont know about you but everyone i know, myself included, would not ever be able to take care of a child at such a young age.

besides... i've seen several of my friends go through the, 'i had sex and forgot to use protection. what if i'm pregnant????' trust me, this is not something anyone wants to go through. and my friends were 15/16/17 when they were going through it..one was scared shitless twice!

its not a good burden for a 14 yr old to bear

Posted by: victoria_huynh May 28 2007, 11:48 PM

yes it is wrong to have sex exspecially if ur 14..im 14 i hav pressure goin through me...but thy r not gonna get wat thy want...think of it miserable life ur bf or w/e leaves u n stuff...people tlkin..n its in the bible....-.- buh im juss sayin .....

Posted by: AussieGirl May 30 2007, 07:45 AM

It's ok

Posted by: Jinny May 30 2007, 03:49 PM

There isn't really a right or wrong answer to this question, it's what you think.

I, personally, think it's wrong for a 14 year old.

Posted by: BrokenxWingsx May 31 2007, 03:20 PM

It depends on maturity level. In some cases, even 18 could be too young if you don't have a good head on your shoulders.

Mostly, 14-year-olds can be quite immature, and don't understand the consequences, but if one is aware of them, it's fine.

Posted by: Julia Guila Jun 2 2007, 07:08 AM

yeah. WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY too young, in my opinion. You have you're whole life ahead of you, and you want to risk throwing it all away....at 14!???

Posted by: Kaytay Jun 2 2007, 04:18 PM

yes. I'm 14 and i am in no way ready to take care of a kid. I wanna have fun and enjoy life before i get knocked up

Posted by: BLAZINASIAN Jun 2 2007, 06:06 PM

OMG IT'S SO HORRABLE.
HORRABLE.

Posted by: Gypsy Eyes Jun 2 2007, 06:16 PM

So that just made me

As long as it's safe and you've are comfortable enough with the other person about the consequences it's fine. If you have to ask our opinion, then chances are you aren't ready.

And to anyone who stated so in this topic, having sex at fourteen does not make you a slut.

Posted by: itsnever4ever Jun 3 2007, 02:39 AM

i know a girl who had sex in 8th grade and then she broke up with her bf in 9th grade, and they never talk to eachother, the guy hates her and he talk bad about her behind her back like everyday, oh and they're in 10th grade now

i just don't think people at the age of 14 are mature enough to make that kind of commitment

Posted by: Rachel Jun 3 2007, 01:37 PM

Oh how I miss high school.

Posted by: tininja Jun 3 2007, 01:42 PM

^ Kekeke. High School.

I can care less at what age a person has sex. I wouldn't do it myself, but eh. As long as they're protected, I guess.

Posted by: Malibuu Jun 3 2007, 02:11 PM

Not if you're ready to step up and handle the consequences of possibly having a child. Most aren't ready- so my answer would be NO they are NOT ready.

Posted by: momo way Jun 4 2007, 02:31 PM

Dont have sex until your married. It'll save you alot of guilt. my mother would know.

Posted by: i_heart_dorks77 Jun 4 2007, 02:35 PM

No.

My boyfriend and I of almost a year now, started having sex when he was almost 13 :S

i know that sounds horrible, but he's REALLY mature. And i'm not so much. I'm almost 17.

Posted by: Wildrush Jun 4 2007, 03:12 PM

So it was my 15th birthday yesterday and i know ALOT of 14 year olds that have had sex, it isnt too bad because they had all been with each other for over a year, i think if it is rushed into it is wrong but if you have real feelings for the person then i dont see a problem, just remember though you dont always have to go all the way, you could always use types of foreplay to erm... satisfy yourselves :P toss him off, finger her, blow jobs, licked out??? hope i helped

Posted by: steve330 Jun 4 2007, 03:38 PM

Hahaha.

As for the original post. Their business, their risks.

Posted by: GhettoChic Jun 5 2007, 01:11 AM

if ur ready then do it if your not dont..thats how i feel!

Posted by: Angelina Taylor Jun 5 2007, 08:18 AM

It's just stupid. I mean, the kids aren't even fully developed physically, not to mention mentally. I feel sorry for them. Everyone should have a childhood/teen years. Why would you want to ruin it by trying to be all grown up?

Posted by: IVIike Jun 5 2007, 08:52 AM

yes ... way to young

Posted by: spongebob lover Jun 5 2007, 02:23 PM

i think it is but my friend 14 and she starting having sex and got pregnant and was going to keep but lost the baby in like the 5th or 6th month

Posted by: SHOcouple Jun 6 2007, 02:50 AM

This is a very important issue. One that you should talk to your parents about. Our opinion is that 14 is to young to handle the responsibility of a sexual relationship.

We believe that sex is a good thing that should be enjoyed and that everyone should be comfortable with. No matter what your sexuality you should be comfortable with it. You should be able to discuss sexual issues with your parents and not be ashamed of it.

This is not an issue of morality or right or wrong. It is an issue of responsibility. There is a reason fathers are so protective of their daughters especially at the vulnerable age of 14 through 18. Most don't want them to have a sexual relationship until a bit later than that.

Your bodies are starting to develop you are turning into a woman and your hormones are starting to flow. You get sexually aroused and curious about boys and for some even girls. Which is perfectly fine as well. You naturally want to experiment and experience new things. Most womens bodies will not be fully developed until they reach your mid 20s.

It is best to know your own body and how it reacts to sexual stimulus before you enter into a sexual relationship. Masturbation and discovering the different parts of your body and how they react to different stimulus is natural progression. Thats one reason privacy is such an important issue for young teens.

Bottom line. If you are still in school Middle / High school or even college. If you are still living under your parents roof. If your parents are still paying any of your bills (Thats Tuition / room and board / credit card ANY OF YOUR BILLS). If you are not able to handle any amount of alcohol in a responsible manner. If you do not have a job that you can support yourself and at least one other person on completely. If you do not have your own house and are on any type of government aid. You are too young for a sexual relationship.

You have to be ready to accept the responsibility of a sexual relationship and the consequences of it if your judgment is compromised. Such as with Alcohol.

What surprises me most about this thread is that everyone is talking about Pregnancy. While this is a Huge responsibility and a very important issue, and the ultimate reason for the human sexual desire. It is preventable by some measures (Birth Control is not 100% nor are condoms and any other contraceptive device).

Not one single person has brought up the subject of STDs. A Sexually Transmitted Disease can END YOUR LIFE. A pregnancy just complicates it. If you happen to get an STD you just don't get rid of it, many stay with you for the rest of your life, or worse KILL YOU.

You never know who has one. The person you are having sex may have an STD and not even know it. Herpes, HIV, and others stay with you for your entire life. You will be required to disclose your STD status to a prospective sexual partner. Now think how hard it will be to meet someone and devlope a lifelong rewarding loving relationship with a person if you have Herpes or HIV / Aids?

STDs can be transmitted through Oral sex and mutual masturbation (Fingering and manual stimulation by your sexual partner). You have to take many more precautions with new partners to avoid contracting an STD than you do getting pregnant.

It is not inappropriate to ask a prospective sexual partner to get tested. In fact it is a very responsible thing to do. If you desire to enter into a sexual relationship it would be responsible to go with that person and get tested together. Then go together to receive your individual results and share them with each other. If you are not ready to do that you are not ready for a sexual relationship.

Many teenagers have gotten drunk impairing their judgment, were convinced by someone, a boyfriend or even a stranger in the heat of the moment to have sex with them and ended yup with a Life threatening STD or pregnant.

Talk with your parents. Make sure they talk with you. Do not be embarrassed by the Sex talk. Make sure that you ask plenty of questions. Do not be afraid to ask questions. I would rather my daughter ask me or my wife about sexual issues that learn them from friends, on the Internet, or by watching porn.

Always remember Sex is good. You should be comfortable about your sexuality. If you are Bi-sexual or or gay you should feel comfortable and discuss those issues with your parents.

One thing we do well in our country (The USA) is repress sexual thought and feelings and make them something that is meant to be shared with no one. This is a problem. If you can not talk openly about sexual issues that you are curious about with your parents because they are embarrassed or offended, then they need help.

One of the reasons these questions about sex come up and young teenagers get themselves into trouble with sexual relationships is the serious lack of parental involvement in all aspects of their lives. Parents should be good Roll models, Guides, Mentors and best friends to their children.

I hope this helps. Remember Sex is a responsibility that should be enjoyd between two people who respect and trust each other. It is fun and should be shared openly with your partner only when you are old enough and ready to handle the responsibility of the end result.

SHOcouple

If you have any questions or feel like you need some advise or just want to discuss an issue feel free to PM us.

Posted by: LUVMELUVUNOT17 Jun 6 2007, 05:05 PM

yes

Posted by: LORRYtruck Jun 26 2007, 11:29 AM

^Agreed. People did it in the olden days at much younger ages

It may be too young for nowadays modern soceity, but never wrong. Why else would some people get their periods in 5th grade?

Posted by: MangoLover Jun 26 2007, 06:49 PM

It depends.. really. But, at the age of 14, sex should be the last priority.

Posted by: yobaka3 Jun 26 2007, 07:01 PM

I don't understand why you would even want to think about that right now.

Why not just focus on school and have sex when it's more like an afterthought then a need?

Posted by: crueldade Jun 26 2007, 07:18 PM

Hm...I would nope not. :X

Posted by: Becks539 Jun 27 2007, 01:28 PM

I'm 15. I love my boyfriend. We started discussing sex and i was kind of getting used to the idea and started being okay with it. Just recently he admitted to caring too much about sexual activities and probably not enough about me. We've changed that. I'm so glad we didn't have sex because once you have sex, there's no going back. Having sex in a young relationship increases the possibilty of people getting used and the relationship getting boring. If me and my boyfriend never would've stopped and discussed this issue, we probably would already be broken up.

So I'd so Yes. Don't do it, there's no rush. If he loves you, he'll understand and respect your decision.

Posted by: matashi Jun 27 2007, 03:33 PM

I vote yes. I think 14 is wayyy to young to be having sex.

Posted by: SinfullySweet Jun 27 2007, 04:18 PM

I think it depends. If that 14 year old is capable of handling the risks that come with sex, than go ahead, its your desicion.

Also, I think maturety have ALOT to do with it.

Posted by: Joss-eh-lime Jun 27 2007, 04:23 PM

14 year olds shouldn't because 14 year olds aren't emotionally or [sometimes]physically ready to do that!

16 and 12?! gahh. [/horrified]

Posted by: yobaka3 Jun 27 2007, 09:15 PM

Thats not what she meant. :/

Posted by: meenahxo Jun 28 2007, 06:18 AM

Yes. That is so wrong... in our country. ü

Posted by: Aerjae Jun 28 2007, 10:44 AM

Yes. It's very wrong. It's very stupid. I don't care how mature you are. Be more mature and get married first.

Posted by: Trinie Jun 28 2007, 10:51 AM

i voted yes. but at the same time i wanted to vote no.

but i voted yes because i think it is a really young age to have sex.

Posted by: vertskatergirl Jun 28 2007, 11:00 AM

um. i dont think it would be wrong at all. its their body and their choice. they may regret it when they get older but then it would be their fault for not thinking it over carefully.

Posted by: yobaka3 Jun 28 2007, 05:18 PM

But it's not their bodies just yet, lol. Not under the law it's not. It's not really your body till your 18. And why put your body through something like that anyway? It's not even fully developed.

Posted by: Tamacracker Jun 28 2007, 05:33 PM

It's shit like this (that children think about such as sex and drugs) that makes me sick to my stomach and only fuels my ambition to leave the United States. I would have to assume that if God indeed existed, God would sooner or later strike this country with a plague worst than AIDS.

But in all seriousness now, if I couldn't leave the country for whatever the reason may be... I'm not daring to have children. NEVER EVER! I've noticed all these younger generations are becoming worst and worst. I thought my generation was bad, till I found out my friend's lil brother (10 years old at the time) had sex with some lil skank. And my friend was all proud of his little brother like it was the norm, I felt like I was in a twilight zone.

Posted by: Tamacracker Jun 28 2007, 05:37 PM

lol in my opinion, i would like to say that, please do not have children... as already i can tell how badly you lack self respect, dignity, honor, morals, and any sort of parenting skills.

with that mentality, you'd only raise a human disease.

Posted by: Tamacracker Jun 28 2007, 05:39 PM

I respect any country who views children even thinkin of having sex as a bad thing. Just with your post alone, I can tell your country is very rich in morality.

Posted by: yobaka3 Jun 28 2007, 05:39 PM

Leave the united states...where they marry their children off illigaly at agaes like 5? Or, before they are born? So that once they hit their periods they can have children? Sometimes with 50 year old men?

Mmn yes, I can so see how America would seem like the most terrible place in this situation.

...

No really, stfu, I'm tired of Americans getting pissed at there country when it's less the country and more the children. Look at the poll man, not everybody agrees.

Posted by: Tamacracker Jun 28 2007, 05:48 PM

Trust me I'd rather live in Iceland than the U.S.
I'd rather live in Dominican Republic where half the island of D.R. doesn't even have electricity. But guess what? At least my children won't look forward to having sex at the age of when I was playing with G.I. Joes, nor poppin pills, nor smokin drugs, nor cursing as if they were adults.

Let me ask you, name me a country... any country in the world other than the U.S. where children have parties (children 10-14 years old) and dip their hands in a big punch bowl filled with pills and they eat them like they were skittles.

When you can name me that country... maybe I'll feel better and not feel so ashamed of Americans and their parenting.


I don't know how you feel about your origins nor how you feel about America, but I can care less... let me know how life goes when you have kids. I'll be lookin forward to a laugh.

Posted by: yobaka3 Jun 29 2007, 09:38 AM

My point was that America isn't the worst, but it's not the best. Please don't misunderstand.

And I resent that you would like to laugh at my unborn children. For someone who seems to care so much about youth you have an interesting way of showing it.

Posted by: Tamacracker Jun 29 2007, 02:50 PM

Now a days kids are being influenced through radio and tv. Watch a cartoon on cartoon network, and I bet you you'll see a cartoon of these little kids wearing some skanky adult like clothes and acting flirtatious and perverted. That is one of the sources of where our kids get their minds washed and programmed.

And listen to some music, the stuff that's on the radio, specifically hip pop (rap), what do they talk about? Sex, drugs, guns, and money. Even Eminem couldn't have said it any better (and I dislike Eminem) that children are being influenced through music. If you haven't taken psychology, I advise you to, you'll get an understanding.

So I'd rather live in a financially poor country, but is rich in morality, honor, and respect. I can go without TV... heck I can go without a PC and internet. As long as I have fresh water, vegetation, and fish I'll be satisfied. And speaking of that dream, I might be moving to Kauai, 30 miles away from civilization... or the city life I should say :D

And about the whole laughing part, I didn't mean to disrespect you. Basically speaking, I dislike people who pretend to know it all (not that I'm sayin you're like this) about parenting and have everything under control and have nothing to worry about.

When right outside of their front door of their house, there's kids in the backyard touching each other's privates, there's kids down the street smoking a cig or even worst smoking a drug. There's kids who are planning to stab their parents or kids or their teacher. And there's kids right now who are watching a porn video on the internet.

Posted by: Flair Jun 29 2007, 02:58 PM

I'm sick of people blaming it all on music. There are kids who have sex because they want to. I was that kid.
I'm also sick of people saying 'If they're mentally mature' (I was one of them). It's wrong, at fourteen? What do you know about sex? You're still a kid, you're still fragile, very fragile. It doesn't matter how phyiscally / mentally mature you are, you're still a baby.

Then again, in the world we live in, what is wrong?

Posted by: yobaka3 Jun 29 2007, 11:52 PM

You mean like when bugs bunny dresses up like a lady to trick Elmer Fudd? I'm not one of those people that blames anything else but bad parenting for bad parenting. Just turn off the TV, just not buy them a tv if you want to blame it on that. If they see it on another kid's tv then I guess that kid just prepared them fro the real world, where stuff happens and it's there choice as to what to do with that information.

I'm not a fan of saying kids are stupid sponges without a notion of right and wrong. If a kid is old enough to comprehend what's going on in a television show, he/she should be able to decipher whether they agree with it or not. Moral comes at an early age.



When I was a kid, I listened to alot of Barry White, thanks to my parents. But I've never wanted to rub up a lady.



You don't have to live in a poor country to do all that. Strong willed people give up all that all the time. But if you really fear for your children that much, I suppose giving up the chance of a better education works too.



Deff not a know it all, just a bitch with alot of personal opinions who isn't scared to voice them.



Alright, the touching privates thing? That's a kid thing. It has absolutely no affect on what culture you go to, young children will always be curious and act out what they see mommies, daddies, cousins and uncles do. Some of these poor kids live in a one room house with mommy and daddy, who have 8 kids. They have at least heard a little action.

In most poor countries most people smoke or are addicted to something,a nd that all the way includes children. I could rant about the children who work in coal mines who smoke crack leaves that cost as much as a pack of gum at the nearest store before they go to work to give them courage, but instead I'll just say I think your idealizing alot of poor countries.

And that kid that's watching porn? Where are HIS parents? Where are the parent locks? Bad parenting sir. The world has always, ALWAYS been a scary place. That's what parents of all animals are for, protection.

Posted by: Tamacracker Jun 30 2007, 12:14 AM

I'm sorry, I'm done with this small little debate. I either have sight beyond sight, or I see the bigger picture in psychological evolution in the mind of a child. Either one, you can pick or just both.

If nothing influences a child, culture wouldn't exist, a society wouldn't exist... I can't believe you guys are willing to make yourselves look... ignorant to try and debate this. Take a course in psychology and sociology. Then come back for a more depth debate.

Anyways, good luck with your kids. I know I'll be satisfied with my parenting :D

Posted by: yobaka3 Jun 30 2007, 12:17 AM

That isn't what I said at all. But sure, I'll keep being ignorant and you keep being the man with the insight. Whatever helps you sleep at night, big guy.

Posted by: Tamacracker Jun 30 2007, 12:38 AM

lol I'm just sayin, you're making excuses to justify wrong things. For example, children who are curious touch privates of other children? Uhm... not me nor any of my little cousins have done such a thing. I'm speaking of children who have a decision to make, not a little 3 year old who's bathing with his little brother or sister.

But anyways, I'm not tryin to act like I know it all... I was just brought up differently, very old fashioned with an Italian and Dominican culture. So forgive me for being a typical dick :D

Posted by: miichellechux Jun 30 2007, 01:12 AM

nopeeeeeee ; because at the age of 14.. you're allow to have sex =]

Posted by: sayitaintso Jul 1 2007, 03:11 AM

yeah. i think that at such an early age, sex will just be viewed as only for pleasure or getting what you want... when it is a much deeper kind of thing shared between two people. plus there are those pregnancy-STD problems.

Posted by: SEXiiASiiANMAMii Jul 1 2007, 12:10 PM

noh ive bin havin seex sinz i was 12
i neva got preggerz

Posted by: superfluous Jul 1 2007, 01:06 PM

No, it is their own choice. NOT ours

Posted by: Tamacracker Jul 1 2007, 02:12 PM

Honestly... You disgust me. Just sayin.

Posted by: Flair Jul 1 2007, 02:49 PM

^ Do you even believe him / her? There are posts you should ignore. Really ... having sex since you're 12 isn't something to be proud of.

Posted by: Tamacracker Jul 1 2007, 02:52 PM

LOL A friend of mine, his little brother who at the time was only 10 years old. HE bragged about sleeping with his little girlfriend! But she was 12. And my friend sat there and cheered him on and congratulated him for having sex before highschool.

Posted by: ambernoelnichols Jul 5 2007, 09:41 AM

I definitely don't think that a 14 year old is prepared for sex!

Posted by: ZukoJin Jul 5 2007, 06:58 PM

So true. Sex outside of marriage is wrong no matter how old or "mature" you are. If the person who wants to have sex with you really loves you they'll wait. If not, then they never really loved you.

Posted by: crueldade Jul 5 2007, 09:33 PM

I have a question. Can someone define "wrong?" Because what's "wrong" to someone may not be "wrong" to somebody else.

For example, having sex at the age of 14 is not "wrong" to me. To me, sex doesn't really matter. It's not a huge deal...When it happens, it happens, whether or not it's at age 14.

Posted by: irishnot13 Jul 8 2007, 02:04 PM

i definetly think it's wrong.
and i'm turning 14 in a couple months.
i mean, yeah. it's just wrong.
there's this one tenth turning eleventh grader that's already pregnant.
(lol, my friends and i think my one friend's brother got her pregant because he was over at some 10th graders house during the weekend and we just heard the news a couple days later.......hmm )
yeah.

Posted by: Pumpx3itup Jul 8 2007, 04:29 PM

Hahaha yeah it does expecialy when its unwanted and all over the school the next day :/

Posted by: xKatt Jul 8 2007, 05:15 PM

Okay, if a 14 year old has sex, it's not making love. It's a young teen trying to act like a "grown-up" which gives sex a whole different purpose.

And also, there's a chance that you'll get pregnant. I'm 100% sure that a 14 year old girl can not take care of a baby. And I'm also 100% sure that the guy you had sex with will run away and never talk to you again because he's not mature enough to accept the responsibilities of taking care of a child.

People need to enjoy this thing called childhood and stop trying to grow up so fast.

Posted by: yobaka3 Jul 8 2007, 09:12 PM

^ Truth so hard it'll knock you on your ass and make you cry.

Posted by: aznxdreamer Jul 8 2007, 11:21 PM

would one even know how to do it?

personally i think its kinda immature for a 14 year old to think that they understand the consequences and think that nothing will happen to them. i also think its kinda gross, its almost like child rape cause when you're 14, you havent even fully developed yet, physically and mentally. and you might think you're SOO IN LOVE with your boyfriend but 90% of the time, you will break up. dont think "oh, but me and my boyfriend have been going out for more than a year! so that means that i truly love him!" no, it means crap and rarely have i heard of middle schoolers staying together for more than 2 years because once you get into highschool, there are a lot more hot people.

Posted by: medicalxinjektion Jul 11 2007, 08:15 AM

Of course 14 is not too young. It is too old.[/sarcasm]

if you think it is too young don't do it. If you think it is the right age f**k all you want

Posted by: Sandraaa Jul 11 2007, 10:04 AM

Man. Your kids will be extremely lucky. If your 11 year old thinks he / she is matured enough to have sex and comes to you for help, is that how you'll answer him / her?

Posted by: Mini Jul 11 2007, 02:57 PM

Ew? 14?

I see 14 year old's running around these days and they're like midgets. What the f**k?

Okay, honestly, it's not wrong in any way, but I don't agree with it. And besides, when you have sex at a young age, you probably don't know what the hell you're doing and it won't be at all good.

Posted by: yobaka3 Jul 11 2007, 03:18 PM

^ Is probably 14.

Posted by: doomXL Jul 11 2007, 07:54 PM

well...i now your gonna freak but it depends what kind of sex...gay sex...maybe...if you use a condom i guess...straight...not so much ..so yah...it totally depends on the person....this is just my opinion and why i voted no..

Posted by: Rachel Jul 11 2007, 11:19 PM

Well if you aren't a slut and have a lot of sex with a lot of different people, you probably won't be that loose. PS, considering my number of partners and the amount of sex I've had, I am nowhere near borrrrred!

Posted by: S-Majere Jul 12 2007, 11:38 AM

How on earth can you think a 14-year old is mature enough to deal with the psychological and emotional after effects of being used?

And at that age, it *is* being used. Not only are they below the age of consent (which is there for a REASON), but they will have destroyed a very precious gift, are probably ill-advised regarding concepts of contraception and safe-sex and will have little idea of what 'making love' should be in contrast to just 'doing it'.

Best idea? Get a chastity belt for Christsakes.

Posted by: medicalxinjektion Jul 13 2007, 03:59 AM

Hmmm...I don't know. Never thought of that.
Probably will not have kids anyways. Those little f**kers get on my nerves.

Posted by: lowriderma Jul 13 2007, 09:52 AM

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Posted by: steve330 Jul 13 2007, 10:30 AM

Or a dildo / vagina in a can

Posted by: devaani Jul 13 2007, 11:42 AM

NO NO NO NO NO NO NO.

People now &days are growing up like WAAAAAAAAY faster so now it'd be sorta normal for a 14 year old to have sex.

Posted by: xKatt Jul 18 2007, 06:10 PM

^ So according to your logic, what's normal is what's right?

Posted by: S-Majere Jul 18 2007, 06:13 PM

Right. And not to be all psychological on you here - but when did you lose yours?

Posted by: Castaway Jul 18 2007, 11:05 PM

yes, it's too young. even though ages 14 and 15 are different, you change and mature a lot in a year.

Posted by: popoberry Jul 21 2007, 03:40 PM

i don`t think it`s wrong at all . it`s whatever they wanna do with their lives .

Posted by: c0cONuTTeR Jul 22 2007, 07:48 PM

Well you guys are all saying they couldn't handle a kid. I don't think they intend on having children at 14, but that is true, most 14 year olds are immature. Too immature to understand the consequences of sex.
Although, I'm not one to judge, some 14 year olds are mature, just not a vast majority of them.

If they're ready for sex, and to understand the great responsibility that comes with it, then yes, it's fine for a 14 year old to be having sex.

Posted by: N3RDYY Jul 22 2007, 08:00 PM

Completely agree. People have sex whenever they want. Its not something that is "right" or "wrong" its just something you do by nature.

Most people might think its "wrong" to do it at such a young age but like elba said whos to judge.

In my opinion sex is NEVER wrong, it sould just be discussed by both parties.

Posted by: Sandraaa Jul 23 2007, 08:44 AM

^ Oh my. A 10 year old having sex would be ... ?

Let me answer that for you, WRONG!

Posted by: N3RDYY Jul 23 2007, 09:15 AM

Im pretty sure thats not up to you to decide.
If the little midget 10 year olds decide to have SEX, then umm thats on them.

SEX IS SOMETHING NORMAL and is not WRONG.

plus the question was ITS IT WRONG FOR A 14 YEAR OLD TO HAVE SEX.. not a 10 year old, therefore my reply was refering to the question at hand.

Posted by: Sandraaa Jul 23 2007, 09:22 AM

I was replying to this statement;

Sex COULD be wrong. How do you expect two 'ten or fourteen' year olds otherwise known as babies to discuss?

I started having sex at a very young age, and yes, I once thought like you. It's not their choice, man. Oh my.


Are you serious? So it wouldn't bother you if your 10 year old decides to have sex ... I mean, it's their choice, right?


Sex between two ADULTS is normal. Sex between kids is wrong.

I don't want to come off as a know-it-all person. That's not my intention but fourteen year olds having sex? It scares the devil out of me.

Posted by: N3RDYY Jul 23 2007, 09:31 AM

like i said. its not my buisness. (i dont have kids yet for a reason) if parent chooses not to educate thier kids properly then its not MY job to do it.In my eyes sex isnt wrong. its nature and im totally with you on all the stuff about them being young and what not but in my opinion the actual sexual ACT isnt wrong.

Posted by: Angelina Taylor Jul 23 2007, 10:10 AM

I'm with you 100%.

People who say 14-year-old kids having sex is normal... You're going to make horrible parents. Good luck!

Posted by: x_curse_of_the_curves_x Jul 23 2007, 10:39 AM

it depends on the person. some 14 year olds are mature, it just depends on the person. Though I definatly don't think 10 year olds should have sex. or even 13 year olds. But fourteen maybe, I think if you understand the consequenses, use protection, and understand what you are giving up then go ahead. But I don't think you should have sex for any reason except that you feel ready, not because everyone else is doing it.

Posted by: Angelina Taylor Jul 23 2007, 11:34 AM

And you say that because you ARE 14 and you've had sex, and you feel the need to reassure yourself it wasn't a mistake? If that's true, it's disgusting. You're still a kid.

Posted by: Peanups Jul 23 2007, 07:55 PM

14, middle school?

ughh i say you're rushing your life and trying to grow up too quick.

questions to consider:
1) why do you want sex?
2) are you ready for sex? (seriously consider this, many people feel they make the wrong decision and really regret it)
3) what are you expecting to get from sex?

no need to answer the questions on here
that's something personal

i personally say, til marriage, that's how you know the guy really loves you if he'll wait.

Posted by: fanny562 Jul 23 2007, 10:50 PM

IN MY OPION I THINK ITS YES BECAUSE AS SOME GIRLS SHOULD KNOW[IF THEY DON']OUR BODY AT AGE 14 ISN'T REALY FINISHED DEVOLPING[OR IN SHORT HASEN'T FINISH GROWING TO ADULTS] SO IF A 14 YEAR OLD WOULD TO HAVE SEX HER BABY WOULD BE LYK A 5O/50 CHANCE THE BABY WELL BE DEFORM/MENTAL

WELL IM JUST SAYING SO DON'T BE TAKING IT TO THE HEAD OK

Posted by: LadyXTor Jul 24 2007, 12:07 AM

From what I understood in your post (which was hard by the way), I agree. At fourteen year old, you're just beginning to hit puberty, yet you feel you're old enough to have sex? I don't know.

Posted by: brooklyneast05 Jul 24 2007, 12:10 AM

14 year olds are not old enough to have sex
and i don't see how anyone over 14 could possibly think it's ok

Posted by: reeenana Jul 24 2007, 12:19 AM

^^ AGREED

14 is way too young

Posted by: Peanups Jul 24 2007, 11:53 AM

Thank God some one agrees.

Yes, the whole puberty thing,
and just everything

it's way to young

Posted by: Shanae1988 Jul 24 2007, 09:49 PM

I know that I shouldn't judge, but I find it a little disturbing that any 14 year old is having sex. I just wonder what type of society we will have in generations to come with 14 year olds engaging in accepted, pre marital sex. I mean, how will they raise their children? I don't find it to be beneficial to society, but then again, what the hell do I know about what benefits society?

Posted by: xFaith Aug 9 2007, 07:43 AM

I personally think that a 14 year old is way to young for that. And the girls that do have sex on their 14, are mostly.. the slutty type (no offence)

But if you know your ready, just do it

Posted by: x_curse_of_the_curves_x Aug 9 2007, 12:29 PM

uhh no im a virgin.

Posted by: salkamat Aug 9 2007, 01:04 PM

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Posted by: sourire Aug 9 2007, 07:53 PM

Who am I to say it's wrong?
I wouldn't feel right having sex when I'm this young, but that's just me. It may be right for someone else.
For the most part, I think it's a serious mistake for someone my age to have sex. Girls especially can be emotionally damaged at such a confusing stage of life.

Posted by: yobaka3 Aug 9 2007, 08:08 PM

Sex isn't for children, nuff said.

Posted by: luku Aug 9 2007, 08:24 PM

I said Yes, it is wrong because most girls at that age are not prepared to handle the emotions or the psychological stress that come with losing your virginity. This amoung other reasons, is why 14 year old should not have sex.

Posted by: GirlKissesGirl Aug 9 2007, 09:57 PM

Man, I don't approve. I don't think girls fourteen and bellow should have sex. But it's up to them. It's their risk. So whatever.

Posted by: lAYDEEessence Aug 15 2007, 04:32 PM

i say yes! i am 14, and i believe it is wrong. it is too young, i think sex should be something your willing to do with a long life partner. i still say sex you should do after you get married. i don't know that is just me. some like to get out of pleasure, but if they wanna deal with the consequences then go right ahead.

Posted by: Claudel Aug 16 2007, 06:57 AM

the boy can go to jail >.>

Posted by: Loserfacex3 Aug 16 2007, 07:09 AM

I don't think it's wrong personally. If you feel ready to have sex, and you go about it in a responsible way, then I think it's fine. It's when people, we have a few of them in my area, have sex with anybody they can, unprotected and frequently, that people should worry. It's not peoples age that makes the difference, it's how people go about it. :]

That's just my opinion though. >_>
<_<

Posted by: Loserfacex3 Aug 16 2007, 07:13 AM

Some people might not want to get married. :] I know I don't. :P For reasons of my own. :] But yeah... Just thought I'd add that.

Posted by: Bishinobi Aug 16 2007, 07:19 AM

I personally don't think its such a problem, seeing as though its been done many times before in history. People are entitled to their opinions, and to me personally it doesnt bother me. But on the other hand, I have no interest in hearing about it nor seeing it (PDA), and I certainly dont wanna hear complaints about how much of a mistake it was: own up to it, I say.

Posted by: joanime Aug 26 2007, 09:53 PM

14 is too young!

i mean some ppl might be ready, m+p, but what if something goes wrong? i dont think a 14 year old is ready for that

Posted by: theRegalDance Aug 26 2007, 10:22 PM

Vote; YES. Being 14 Y/O = KID!!

Question yourself - Is it love or just your hunger for pleasure (Lust)? - I know this feeling.

Being a 14 year old, girls are still undeveloped! Looking back at the reasons why you've done such actions - ITS MEANINGLESS, DUMB AND REGRETFUL... it REALLY makes you feel worthless and astray. How can you bear to say when your 25 "I Lost my virginity at 14" and feel like it wasn't an act of lust?

Where did morals go? Go have a one on one with your mom.
~Dang, I know I learned well :]]

<< I : soon to be 14 Years of Age >>

Posted by: jue Aug 27 2007, 08:40 PM

I think that's too young to have sex..for me at least. But then again, I'm not them. I guess it's up to the person. If they feel they're ready then they should go for it.

Posted by: MissFits Aug 27 2007, 08:44 PM

Age is a only number, although it usually reflects the experiences a person has had in their life and what they have taken from it.
I think when to have sex depends on both of the people and their mental age, their devotion to each other, and their readiness to have a baby.

That said. I personally don't think anyone should even know HOW to have sex at 14, let alone engage in it. I have seen too many young kids having babies.
I think you should just wait. At least two years (hopefully longer) if it's really love it can wait.

Posted by: FelixFelicis Aug 28 2007, 02:59 AM

I think its just disgusting.

Honestly, what does a 14 year old know about love?

Posted by: SimplyMary Aug 28 2007, 03:42 AM

Most people at 14 are really immature.
I can not figure out how kids are having sex...
I think, this can really cause a kind of psycho trauma.

But in my country that's quite normal and almost nobody takes it as a serious problem(

Posted by: FelixFelicis Aug 28 2007, 07:29 PM

I couldn't agree more.

Took the words right out of my fingertips.

Posted by: wesside Aug 29 2007, 09:07 AM

I belive it's a lil too young

Posted by: faydedprimadonna Aug 29 2007, 05:53 PM

i lost my virginity when i was 14... it was the ideal situation, but it wasn't anything catastrophic... i think that if you're being safe and actually thinking things through before you do it, then it's your decision to make... besides, everything happens for a reason right?

Posted by: VaeVictis Aug 31 2007, 07:36 AM

Definitely yes.

It doesn't matter how mature the 14 year olds are, at that age there is no way a baby can be brought up in an acceptable environment.

There's also the risk of STI's, which I don't think a 14 year old would be able to cope with.

Posted by: Ether Sep 1 2007, 05:55 AM

I say no, but this is a question that's always going to be answered with opinion, it's based on a belief, instead of an open idea. No matter what happens, there's always someone, thats going to say, 14 year olds having sex is wrong, than there saying having sex before marriage is wrong, and a sin, etc. etc.

I say, who cares, you only live once, you might as well live it the best way yousee fit.

Also, if you asked me, a 14 year old having sex, with someone a few years older, I would say yes, that is wrong, but thats just what I believe, because some guys are pathetic and like to fondle like girls, because there easy, and those guys are disgusting.

EDIT: I love how everyone says 14 year old are all immature, well in a way this is very true, but not every 14 year old is immature, and sex is usually a act that releases immaturity, or makes them more immature. In every way nobody is mature anyways, because the fact is, no body, can take care of them selves and immaturity is like a disease that you won't grow out of, so really, your always going to be a immature kid, even if you think your mature as you could possibly be.

Also, who cares about the age your having sex at, honestly?
It's like underage smoking, drinking, swearing, looking at pornography, etc. etc.
Your not going to stop it.

Maybe, if people's parents started acting like parents.

Posted by: lilsnoopy Sep 1 2007, 02:39 PM

NOOOOOOOOOOOO!
Way too young. At 14 you should be learning and enjoying yourself before society rips your innocnece out of you.

Besides, the ONLY reason why people think its allright to have sex even in middle school and high school is our chanigng views that have been influenced by modern tv and music.

Now a days, we are gaing a casual outlook on sex. We see sex on t.v., implied sex, we are even writing sex on the interent. Think about it. Did this stuff happen back in the old days? Of course not! No 14 year old would even think about sex, never the less performiong it. Yet, the 60's created a change reaction, casual sex was a good thing. From there, it increased to intermingle with society to acceptance.
What is a 14 year old suppose to do when everyone around her discusses sex in various ways?
It becomes so common to hear that it only becomes natural! Of course, its so NATURAL that they can only tell their friends if they had sex (not their parents, they'd get in trouble!)

Its like growing up in a house where everyone smokes. Chances are, the kid is going to smoke too. Or if your smoking pot, and your parents would kill you if they found out.

At 14 years old, the kid knows that they shouldnt be having sex, since they WILL get in trouble. Yet, they do it anyways since its a common act and it gives them a thrill of exictment.

Love isnt involved. A 14 year old hasnt been in enough realtionships to understand the concept fully. They just rely on their expereince and feelings they have gained from their three years in middle school

Posted by: yupimchuck Sep 1 2007, 02:46 PM

i dont think its too young if you know what youre doing


well
yeah it is too young

but if you want to have sex when youre 14, just be knowledgeable abotu what youre doing

i was 14 when i lost it

Posted by: xirisx Sep 3 2007, 05:19 PM

ok so what age would you guys say is good??

Posted by: JustinSezRAWR Sep 3 2007, 06:07 PM

Perfectly said. I doubt any 14-year-old has the financial resources or sound mind to raise a child. Other than that, don't they have anything better to do?

Posted by: lyricnae Sep 10 2007, 08:24 PM

There are so many perspectives on this.

I'll stick with a yes. I don't think you would have experienced life enough to understand that deep kind of thing sex is intended to be between two people.

If you feel you're responsible enough for it, then hey, that's you I suppose. But again, many fourteen year olds don't have their lives in order, prepared to deal with consequences if anything goes wrong.

Most guys haven't even developed fully by that age, so...

Posted by: MaAssIsWOW Sep 11 2007, 01:46 PM

Right when you hit puberty, ya no, test your body limits. Its like when you're picking something really heavy up. Lock your knees and use your back, wanna see how much thumpin youre body can handle.

Posted by: DrftJunky Sep 11 2007, 03:00 PM

Why would you even be thinking about it? I think eventually you'll regret it and wish you waited.

Posted by: sms160 Sep 23 2007, 11:14 PM

well i was 14 when i lost it, technally to the wrong person, its just hard not to be wat you r if you try to change for your family sake.

Posted by: ignorance-is-bliss Sep 24 2007, 02:09 AM

i said no.
just because i feel no right to judge when somebody else feels "ready" to lose it.
my cousin (who i love and is one of my VERY close friends) had her baby when she was 14. i don't think any less of her for it, she's a wonderful mom, she still goes to school, and she still has a life.
it's not up to someone else to say what's right or wrong, it's up to the individual.

Posted by: jammylise Sep 24 2007, 06:55 AM

if they are mature...
but still they are 14.
so..ITS WRONG

Posted by: S-Majere Sep 24 2007, 08:01 AM

So what does that make you then?

Posted by: i_heart_dorks77 Sep 24 2007, 09:34 AM

my boyfriend was 12 going on 13 and i was 16 when we lost our virginities.

i know that sounds horrible,
but hes REALLY mature, and i'm kind of immature.
we've been together for over a year,
and now his parents are trying to get me put in jail for rape,
so be careful.

Posted by: Sandraaa Sep 24 2007, 09:54 AM

^

*passes out* WTF?

Posted by: S-Majere Sep 24 2007, 10:01 AM

Christ Almighty.

Posted by: i_heart_dorks77 Sep 24 2007, 10:07 AM

yeahhhhh
kind of a long story,
and this sounds so retarded,
but i love him.

it kind of runs in my family,
all the girls on my oms side have married like 16 years younger.

in reality we are only 3 years apart, but thats a big deal now.
who cares, we don't.
we're gonna wait out 3 years until we can 'legally' be together.

i think we can make it.

Posted by: Kay- Sep 24 2007, 03:59 PM

I'm not going to say yes and im not going to say no because i've done some things [not sex exactly] without thinking it throughly and it's hard to think because the only thing in your mind is i love this person and he loves me.

And then there's alchohal.

Posted by: stolen Sep 26 2007, 09:15 PM

I think it is... I just think it's gross.Wait until your 16 or older.

Posted by: i_love_billie_joe Sep 26 2007, 10:22 PM

well personally i think at 14 you may be physically ready to have sex, but not emotionally.
plus if u break up with your boyfriend, which in most cases at this age your going to break up one day, then you've just wasted your virginity for your whole life.
But i'm not sure really, i guess its a personal thing some could be ready, some may not be.
but as for being wrong, i dont think so.

Posted by: barbieeedollxo Nov 14 2007, 12:23 PM

i think its rly up to the ppl. i mean if they feel like they are ready for it then sure go ahead.

Posted by: Sandraaa Nov 14 2007, 12:25 PM

^ Interesting view coming from someone having a Bible quote as their signature.

Posted by: barbieeedollxo Nov 14 2007, 12:27 PM

yea i believe in god
but that doesn't mean
i can't say what i think.
i lost my virginity when i was 14.
and just because you believe in god doesn't mean you have the same views as other ppl who believe in god.

Posted by: Sandraaa Nov 14 2007, 12:32 PM

^ Nah. You have to have GOD'S view. Which is; no sex before marriage. Having sex at 14 is even worse.

Posted by: barbieeedollxo Nov 14 2007, 12:34 PM

ok well thats ur opinion not mine. i don't care. i wanted to do so i did it.

Posted by: Sandraaa Nov 14 2007, 01:18 PM

^ HAHA. I'm sure God is proud of you.

Posted by: barbieeedollxo Nov 14 2007, 01:20 PM

well whatever
im not going to argue with you.
i don't care what you think about me.

Posted by: Sandraaa Nov 14 2007, 01:26 PM

I don't think anything about you. I am not judging you. I think it's morally wrong for 14 year old BABIES to indulge into sexual activities but like you stated, that's my opinion.
I just find it hypocritical that you're a Christian yet choose to have sex at such a young age.

Anyway, I apologize if I came off offensive. It wasn't my intention.

Posted by: brooklyneast05 Nov 14 2007, 01:30 PM

pick and choose, pick and choose

Posted by: Sandraaa Nov 14 2007, 01:34 PM

Hum JC?

Posted by: brooklyneast05 Nov 14 2007, 01:44 PM

i don't think it matters if it's against her religion. most people pick and choose what they want to follow from the bible any way.

which i personally am pretty happy about considering some of the stuff in the bible.

Posted by: Sandraaa Nov 14 2007, 01:50 PM

But sex being one of the most essential things in the book should mean people ought to respect it.

Posted by: RyanWasHere Nov 14 2007, 02:18 PM

Hmm...that's a tricky question...yes, and no. It all depends on the person(s) maturity level and if there really just simply mentally ready for that, personally I'm 16, and I wouldn't have sex with a 14 year old girl, I know it's only a 2 year difference, but we all know how big of a step that is to go from 14 to 16, mentally and physically, now a 14 year old and another 14 year old having sex..other than the fact it may be very quick and uncoordinated, I see nothing wrong with it, no matter what just do what you feel is right I guess

Posted by: barbieeedollxo Nov 15 2007, 11:54 AM

thank you so much for trying to explain that lol

Posted by: aestheticYOU Nov 15 2007, 04:52 PM

Yes, and no, but of course, I'm biased.

It's fine, especially if it was consensual. I wouldn't recomend it or anything, but whatever, I can't talk.

Just remember: Babies having babies = Awkward.

Posted by: Gryffindore-Girl Nov 16 2007, 04:01 PM

Yes it is I think that you should be married before you have sex and what 14 year old would be married.

Posted by: RyanWasHere Nov 16 2007, 04:28 PM

One in a third-world country.

Posted by: sourire Nov 17 2007, 07:07 PM

Who am I to say it's wrong or not? A couple hundred years ago I would have been married away and popping out babies for a guy a couple decades older than me who I didn't really know. And that was considered right back then.
Sex is so taboo in America, but really, it ulitmately depends on the parties involved to decide whether or not it's right or wrong.

Posted by: Drifted Nov 18 2007, 11:47 PM

People do it anyways. I wouldn't find it wrong, honestly. I almost had sex... sigh.

Posted by: Prophet Nov 19 2007, 12:43 AM

At 14 ugh, I don't know but if you do it you will keep on doing it then no Boys will want to be with you = "Slut".

Posted by: Podomaht Nov 19 2007, 12:46 AM

If it was so important, only married couples who saved themselves would go to Heaven, which isn't the case.

Posted by: S-Majere Nov 19 2007, 02:10 PM

I didn't know you'd been up there, Podo. Put a good word in with the big guy for me.

Posted by: Sulfur-in-K Nov 19 2007, 02:10 PM

If it's not, then what has this world come to.

Posted by: toxicity584 Nov 19 2007, 02:12 PM

I think that if you want to have sex then do it, but beware of the consequences.

Posted by: Sulfur-in-K Nov 19 2007, 02:13 PM

This somewhat belongs in debate.

Posted by: toxicity584 Nov 19 2007, 02:13 PM

Yes it does.

Posted by: claudbaybay Nov 25 2007, 05:30 PM

Yes. I'm 14 and I know for a fact that I'm not ready.

Posted by: silentriot Nov 29 2007, 11:50 PM

I think for someone around that age, they see nothing wrong with it...but when you grow up and mature (not saying that I'm mature) you'll see it's pretty dumb, because most girls I know that age that have already had sex do it to seem cool infront of their peers, but really it just makes them seem like easy sluts.


And that's my view.

Posted by: chocokissez Dec 2 2007, 01:41 AM

Imo, i am a cornball, and i want my first time to be special, call me gay and crap, but w/e.
And i want to LOVE the guy who i lose my virginity to, and nowadays, all the guys want is a bootycall, and at 14, most people are immature and dont realize it until after the fact, and then you're gonna be depressed and crap, and what kind of 14 year old really knows the meaning of LOVE anyways?
I havent seen one so far.
Sure, you say you love each other, but do you really mean it?
Do you want to stick with them thick and thin, good and bad, whatever you may go through?, i dont think so :|...
And, if you actually LOVE each other, go to some country with fake id's and marry each other, then you can truly be together forever.
Me, im waiting until i find a good guy who LOVES me, and when i can understand LOVE itself.

Posted by: foreverNalways Dec 3 2007, 02:15 PM

I dont think a 14 year old is ready for sex.

Posted by: pureimaginationx23 Dec 3 2007, 02:24 PM

I dont see it as being wrong cause its very easy to just give in to our desires instead of being paitient. I rly see it as a bad choice. Like you don't know what could happen! Nothing could happen sure, and you could have a good time with ur bf or whatever. But then again you get a std, you get pregnant, your parnets could find our and kick your ass. You know, typical cons. But I feel like in the long run, its kind of not worth it. For a number of reasons Im to lazy to list. I know for one thing that I won't have sex b4 im old enough that I feel secure about everything that can happen or marriage. I just feel that a teen pregnancy could ruin my life and I have alot of plans! Im sure you do too so you should probably wait and go for your dreams.

Posted by: aestheticYOU Dec 3 2007, 06:17 PM

Everyone is different.
Some are ready, some aren't; it depends on the person.

Posted by: EXP0SED Dec 3 2007, 06:43 PM

Yes. It would be also wrong for a 14 year old to have an STD. Not saying they're gonna get it, but there's always a chance.

Posted by: laelaekeke Dec 3 2007, 06:47 PM

mm.. no. I don't think it's wrong. no. no It doesn't necessarily ruin your life. I mean you get paranoid until you get your period about being pregnant even though you use a condom but other than that Nah. I'm 14 and I had sex in a bathroom at Homegoods o.o Me and my boyfriend are still together. I guess it just depends on if you're able to handle the consequenses or if you think the guy's just using you for "yum yums"

Posted by: AimeelovesJacob Dec 6 2007, 12:59 AM

[font="Comic Sans MS"][/font]i put no. I think that if they think their ready then ok. I have friends that had sex at 13, and my friends that have had sex at young ages have known what could happen and they have used protection all the time. They know it doesn't always help but at least they know to use it. 14 year olds can be very smart, and they know what can happen. So if they want to have sex let them.

Posted by: FoxLucky Dec 6 2007, 09:04 AM

14 year olds get married voluntarily?

Posted by: LDY x ALYSSA Dec 6 2007, 07:07 PM

I really don't know. I'm fourteen years old, and I lost my virginity a year and a half ago .. I don't know what stupid decisions I was making. I thought it was right, i THOUGHT i loved him, but who was I kidding, I do still love the guy I lost it to, I know he wasn't in it for just sex, because we were together for 14 months, and when I didn't wanna have sex, he didn't care. & I know he loved me or whatever cause he cried whenever we argued.. But it was a decision that I had made, I can't turn back the time. It didn't change me, or my personality. I'm the same person. To me, sex is your feeling and your choice, but I don't think someone should judge me because I've had sex.

Posted by: tungmyBANANA Dec 6 2007, 07:16 PM

LOL. So you you lost your virginity at 12.5 years old? What a slut! LOL. So is this picture of you?


Wow, there are so many Filipinos here in the Bay Area, and most of them all sluts. So you are no different.

Posted by: TangyBang Dec 6 2007, 07:18 PM

WHATYOUDOTOMAKEHIMCRY?

Posted by: SilentLaugh Jan 2 2008, 09:34 PM

i dont think its wrong or right. i just think they would be way too young. married or not married (i dont see how being legally committed to someone makes a difference).

Posted by: Drifted Jan 2 2008, 09:37 PM

LMFAO TUNG.

Posted by: BrandonSaunders Jan 2 2008, 10:15 PM

12? Love? Sex?

Getdaf**kouttahere!!!

Posted by: WakingLife Jan 3 2008, 04:00 PM

I voted yes.

Because I think most fourteen year olds aren't mature enough to handle the physical and mental after effects of sex.

I think when you're fourteen you have too much to lose, and there is so much life ahead of you. Why take that giant leap into adult hood? You're only young once, be a kid while you can.

Posted by: MissHygienic Jan 3 2008, 04:03 PM

Why is this up for discussion? People can do whatever they damned well please, even if it's wrong or right.

Posted by: WakingLife Jan 3 2008, 04:14 PM

This is true, but why not discuss it? It's just peoples opinions on the subject.

Posted by: MissHygienic Jan 3 2008, 04:29 PM

It's just a bit. . . impractical to discuss it. Yeah, it's a forum, but this thread also has nine pages whereas a thread in the Debate forum will only have two or three pages.

It's all a matter of personal choice. It's a simple, "Yes or no" discussion. Perhaps I'm being too logical, here. And there's no difference between a 14-year-old and a 20-year-old having sex, besides a tad bit more life experience.

Posted by: Sulfur-in-K Jan 3 2008, 05:38 PM

I still stand with my answer, yes.

Posted by: WakingLife Jan 3 2008, 05:38 PM

Mm, well that's your opinion.

I think there is a much larger difference between a 20 year old and a 14 year old having sex, but that's me.

So, I guess I'm trying to say we obviously have different opinions on it so why not discuss it?

I mean, I honestly don't care if this board is up or not, because to me it really doesn't matter either way. I'll live.

But, I don't know.. I don't see why it has 9 pages though, I didn't go through and read everything.

Posted by: deplorable Jan 3 2008, 05:49 PM

yes. i think its wrong.

at least people like this make me feel like its wrong. wooooo, yay for the mature girls who can handle the physical and emotional aspect of relationships. so did he bang ya hard at homegoods, girly?

Posted by: Sulfur-in-K Jan 3 2008, 06:03 PM

Love at that age?

Posted by: deplorable Jan 3 2008, 06:06 PM

i know. things like this is what makes teens look so crude and stupid.

Posted by: Sulfur-in-K Jan 3 2008, 06:14 PM

mmhmmm.

Posted by: andherlayouts Jan 5 2008, 06:35 PM

we have this discussion at school quite often;;
i first thought it as completley rong and i wouldnt but most of my fiends say
that if it feels right then yes it should be ok but i dont no
:/

Posted by: BunkyWhiteGirl Jan 5 2008, 06:37 PM

That's kinda gross I could never do that at 14. You're still a kid legally.

Posted by: B-NOX Jan 18 2008, 07:18 AM

hahaha

my first time was at 14 years


i was maybe not mature but mayba for a boy this is diferent

Posted by: BunkyWhiteGirl Jan 19 2008, 07:41 PM

That happened to my friend's ex bf also.
He's a smuck! He's in his late 20s now.

Posted by: aestheticYOU Jan 19 2008, 07:48 PM

Grah; everyone is different. Some are ready, MOST aren't. You can't give one definitive answer based on the people you know. There are a lot of mature young adults.

I'm not condoning pre-marital sex at fourteen, but you shouldn't rule it out entirely.

Posted by: brooklyneast05 Jan 19 2008, 07:49 PM

i rule it out completely. 14 year olds are little kids.

Posted by: aestheticYOU Jan 19 2008, 11:51 PM

^ With that in mind, are you going to discriminate against me?

Posted by: Kagome Jan 20 2008, 02:07 PM

in my opinion, i think its way too young. i wasnt completely ready for sex at that age, but when i was near becoming 16 it just happened without being stopped

Posted by: ProudLeechLover Jan 30 2008, 09:47 AM

yeah, unless their married. no one i know is.
plus its agenst the law.....

Posted by: THAT-ONE-GIRL-143 Jan 30 2008, 01:18 PM

i think these days theres about 3% of people who are waiting. i was raped at 14, but i think i was 14 going on 15 when i chose to have sex too. the majority of my friends lost it when they were 14-15 as well. im not saying its "right" but im not saying its "wrong" either. its 2008 ppl..times are changing. little girls && boys for that matter..are growing up quicker than we did. its just like how the majority of our parents say they waited or they didnt lose it until they were in their 20s. then our generation goes out && says that losing it at 16-18 is ideal. like i said..times are changing..

Posted by: haylerbird Jan 30 2008, 07:34 PM

Having sex at 14 or any teenager/early 20s before completing your education can have massive consequences.

BUT

It won't ruin your life. It can make life alot harder, but you can overcome obsticles like having a baby at a young age.

Posted by: CarolineHsu Feb 4 2008, 02:12 AM

It's wrong. If an individual can't accept the responsibility of a child, it is wrong for him/her to have sex. A fourteen year old has neither the biological resources (emotional stability with changing hormones, etc.) nor the financial resources to provide the environment to raise a child.

Posted by: instantmusic Feb 4 2008, 02:16 AM

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Posted by: agiri Feb 4 2008, 04:47 PM

It's just too young. I don't give rat's ass if you're bloody in love -- feed each other chocolates till you're 16+.

But that's just me.

Posted by: superficial Feb 5 2008, 11:01 PM

If you want to f**k up your whole life just for an hour of two of sex (which you can get when you're older), than that's fine. You can go get pregnant and end up working at McDonalds. Fourteen is actually a bit too earlier to be even thinking about having sexual contact with the opposite sex (to me, at least).

Posted by: BrandonSaunders Feb 5 2008, 11:04 PM

I doubt its that long at 14.

Posted by: agiri Feb 6 2008, 12:08 AM

Agreed. Now the figuring out process ... THAT could take a while.

Posted by: manny-the-dino Feb 6 2008, 12:18 AM

agreed.
i have very strong morals.
that just goes against what i believe in.

Posted by: xcocoaxmuffinx Feb 6 2008, 03:36 PM

yes, you're not old enough to get a job therefore you are not old enough to support a baby. dont do it.

Posted by: RealTalk Feb 6 2008, 04:03 PM

I think it's messed up. When your fourteen you're still a kid and why would you want to have sex? Dumb as hell.

Posted by: Tamacracker Feb 29 2008, 05:05 PM

Nope... and I hope those of you who are currently having sex at such a young age, catch STDs and HIV. And die a slow tormenting death with blood leaking out of all of your orifices. (Yes serious)

Posted by: shei Feb 29 2008, 05:20 PM

ROTFL!

Posted by: Tamacracker Feb 29 2008, 05:39 PM

Posted by: shei Feb 29 2008, 05:44 PM

^ your just f**king hilarious dude.

Posted by: Tamacracker Feb 29 2008, 05:45 PM

OMG... Finally someone sees the brighter side of things. Normally people flip out and call me a crazy terrorist psycho o.O;

Posted by: shei Feb 29 2008, 05:49 PM

Why? i dont get whats NOT funny about the shit you say.

Well if anything i guess we'll just have to fight a bitch.

Posted by: Tamacracker Feb 29 2008, 05:59 PM

Oh... I like you. You're cool people

Posted by: shei Feb 29 2008, 06:01 PM

well now; lets just stay on topic.

Posted by: JuggaloSKfan Mar 3 2008, 05:59 PM

im 14 and well i think it depends on if your comferitable with it, and if you know what your doing, so im fine with it if you know what your doing

Posted by: carolannexbh Mar 3 2008, 06:02 PM

Yes. I was 14 not too long ago and I could not imagine having sex that young. I do have a friend whos mother's best friend's daughter is 14 and having sex. Shes had 4 different sex partners who are all 16 - 17. IMO, way too young. To me, not matter how mature you think you are at 14, theres no way you can deal with getting pregnant. I'm not saying thats what would happen every time, but its a lot riskier because most 14 year olds dont even know how to use a condom.

Posted by: JuggaloSKfan Mar 3 2008, 11:56 PM

i am 14 and i know how to use one, do think its okay, i mean i know theres everything there is to know about it and no i havent done it, but i've got plans this summer.

Posted by: sh299 Apr 4 2008, 04:57 PM

i voted no...ya some ppl at that age are immature so i can see y some voted opposite me but imho its their choice...i was 15 when i first started having sex with a bf of 6 months and we were safe about it...since then ive always been careful and used protection, ive bought bc pills continually for a while now and ive never had to worry about being pregnant ...as i see it, 14 year olds can do what they want but do it responsibly and with someone they can trust

Posted by: sh299 Apr 4 2008, 05:04 PM

im 20 and when im in a serious relationship i do tend to have sex and use proper protection...i dont beleive you HAVE to be ready to have a baby in order for it to be OK for you to have sex...like i said, im 20, i still dont want a kid and honestly i probably wont want one for the entirety of my life, but this doesnt mean i should never have sex imo and the same goes for younger kids i think...they dont have to be wanting a baby in order to have sex, they just have to be responsible

Posted by: j4ye Apr 5 2008, 03:13 PM

14? shoot no, they should be watching elmo and eatting candy..
what do they know?..

Posted by: mizzkewl06 Apr 10 2008, 03:13 PM

i wasn't even thinking of sex at 14... and i sure don't believe kids (yes KIDS) at that age should be having sex, no matter how "mature" they think they are. i had a bf but we preoccuppied ourselves with other things... like enjoying childhood & school work!!!! i think kids having sex at such a young age is the reason why there are so many kids dropping out of high school and so many teenage pregnancies.

Posted by: pedophile Apr 10 2008, 06:31 PM

It's only okay if the kid knows what he/she is doing, uses protection, and is mature enough to accept the consequences. Although that is pretty rare.

Posted by: Tamacracker Apr 10 2008, 06:31 PM

ROFLMAO Comin from a username of, "pedophile"

Posted by: pedophile Apr 10 2008, 06:37 PM

Aren't you the witty one

Posted by: emberfly Apr 21 2008, 12:17 AM

hell yea

Posted by: Tungster Apr 21 2008, 12:19 AM

Sorry that none of your 14 year old female classmates want you.

Posted by: emberfly Apr 21 2008, 09:14 PM

you wouldn't know.

Posted by: Tungster Apr 21 2008, 09:14 PM

fixt.

Posted by: S-Majere Apr 25 2008, 07:34 PM

Guys, really

At 14 I was still collecting Pokemon cards and arguing over who was cooler - My Chemical Romance or The Used.

14 is far too young IMO.

Posted by: doughnut Apr 25 2008, 08:14 PM

hahahha
pokemon cards.

yes its wrong. but steph sucked some dicks already, so i dont know.


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so i realized that many of the answers here about the female. "what if she gets pregnant?" "can she handle being a mother?"

what if it was a 14 year old boy having sex? would that be any different than a 14 year old girl? except for the fact he might be too young to even ejaculate, or that he won't be getting pregnant anytime soon?

Posted by: only-tuesdays May 20 2008, 07:32 PM

Way too young. You're still a baby! You can't even get a learner's permit in most states at that age! Where would you even have sex? Where are your parents???

At fourteen what would you even do if the worst case scenario happened? Can you get a job? With insurance? You can't go to the doctor without your parents knowing, I know that much.

This is making me feel old. And I'm only twenty.

Posted by: Shellie May 21 2008, 07:48 PM

no it's not wrong. it's just really disturbing thinking of 14 year olds getting it on. like i mean when ur 14, ur bodies aren't even fully developed yet (majority speaking). ewww. i don't think 14 year olds are ready for it mentally

Posted by: nikx618 Jul 22 2008, 08:03 PM

MY OPINION; hell yes its wrong. 14? waaay too young.
sex entails so many possible things to happen
stds, pregnancy, etc. craazy lifestyle. specially
at 14, immature and naive. just wait.

Posted by: simplyytricia Jul 22 2008, 08:04 PM

Is this really a question?

YES! It's wrong. Fourteen year olds are not capable of taking care of a baby. Fourteen year olds are still babies, themselves.

Posted by: simplyytricia Jul 22 2008, 08:10 PM

^Maybe they're not. But, it's still completely wrong to even do it at such a young age.

Posted by: LoveToMySilas Jul 22 2008, 08:15 PM

Okay, I'm not gonna lie and say I was off doing some other gallavanting and not thinking of sex whatsoever because...I was. BUT! I do believe that you should wait til you're a little more mature (in both ways!) and not do it simply to satisfy your sexual cravings.

Posted by: KryMeARiver Jul 22 2008, 08:24 PM

Doubleposting, reported.

Posted by: Butterflyphoenix Jul 22 2008, 11:10 PM

I don't believe its wrong if the girl is mature to handle such a situation, by using protection from getting pregnant or gaining STIs that would ruin her future. It depends on the maturity of the girl.

Posted by: Vyrrei Jul 23 2008, 12:41 AM

^^

Posted by: moninja Jul 23 2008, 03:23 PM

^wow, that was a useless post.

i don't think it's wrong for a 14 year old to have sex. as long as they're mature and know the consequences.

Posted by: Tomates Jul 23 2008, 03:49 PM

I guess its their choice but mu opinion having sex at 14 is pretty young.
atleast wait, when your in the 8th - 9th grade phase its just getting to the "im older going to high school time for sex."
thats just my opinion though

Also ive known some people who have done it in middle school and looking back and even seeing some middle schoolers now its like "wtf some people i know did it this young!?"
its weird.

Posted by: Vyrrei Jul 23 2008, 11:05 PM

I was agreeing with the person above me.

Posted by: PCDKitty Jul 27 2008, 04:31 PM

Pretty much everyone I know had sex at 14. I never thought when I got to high school everyone wouldlose their virginity right away. I don't think it's wrong but when you're promiscuous at 14 that's just wrong.

Posted by: PrIncEoFSeXaPpeAL Jul 27 2008, 05:23 PM

FUKEN fatt fuglii beechezz..

Posted by: mouse_3k Jul 28 2008, 03:18 PM

To me, my opinion, yes I think it is tooooo young for a 14 year old to have sex. At least wait til their 16 or somethin..I think someone younger than 16 should be doin something else OTHER than sexual things..

kids these days

Posted by: ddddeadly Jul 29 2008, 12:35 AM

Depends how mature and responsible the person is.

Posted by: nitrogoat Jul 29 2008, 07:37 AM

I dont know many 14 year olds who are married

Posted by: asiaface Aug 1 2008, 06:51 PM

I don't think it's wrong. I mean, it's their life right?
Everyone's got their own opinions, though.
So yeah.

Posted by: Tomates Aug 4 2008, 06:29 PM

That is true

but 14 is a bit young.
Like if something went wrong they arent mature enough to know how to deal with it.

Posted by: Rachie84 Sep 11 2008, 01:48 PM

Yes quit being a little slut and close your legs.

Posted by: shannlovin Sep 11 2008, 06:47 PM

LOL
all you guys have to do is watch THE SECRET LIFE OF AN AMERICAN TEENAGER.. and you got your answer (;! ahaha, okay, all i know is that 14 is pretty young, but since the world is corrupted you'll probably find a 14 year old watching porn or something.. guy or girl, cause thats the stage they get really hormones-y. but all i can say is TOO YOUNG.

Posted by: YukkeKay Sep 22 2008, 10:01 PM

If you're ready for it, then no.

I wouldn't tell someone what to do with their body, but I think it's disgusting to have sex with someone you have no relationship with.

Posted by: applejaxkz Nov 10 2008, 12:04 AM

Totally agree with you.

Posted by: RCKstarh Nov 10 2008, 08:14 PM

i voted yes

these types of questions can often be based on religious views. i think anytime anyone has sex b4 marriage, its wrong. especially at 14. 1 major consequence from having sex is becoming pregnant. so then you think: can a 14 year old take care of a baby at that age?

Posted by: forgottenromance Dec 9 2008, 04:39 PM

You're kidding right? You are saying that nearly everyone under the age of 22 (since a majority of parents pay for college), cannot handle sex. They can marry, smoke, drink (depends on the country i guess),go to war, etc. Did birth control never enter you're vocabulary? The mature and responsible way of having sex is to protect oneself, yes? That includes a precautionary measures to avoid pregnancy, std's etc. Though it is an obvious possibility that having sex may result in pregnancy, there is an easy way to avoid that, since birth control (other than just using a condom) is so highly effective. Beside the fact that we are not talking "sexual relationship" we are talking about sex, since you can have a sexual relationship without technically having sex.


Exactly, the "well they couldn't handle a child" argument is pointless, a few people have said "at least wait till 16+"
Does that mean they think a 16yr old could ? Lamesauce.



Same here, but the group of friends I had, was the one with kids having sex, lol.


Actually, you can in my state.
I got my permit like two weeks(?) before I lost my virginity, and I was 18, so that made me laugh. I didn't feel any bit more mature than most of the kids in my drivers ed class either.

For the second part-
I'm pretty sure I couldn't do that now but I'm not sure it would have been any harder than it has been for me to find a job currently, at 14. At least the economy was better then.



I LOL @- that with all this pregnancy talk, no one's mentioned abortion. (I don't think anyone has?)

My opinion, I think it takes a very responsible 14yr old for sex to be even considered ok, but that doesn't mean that they do not exist. Hell, 14yr olds can get jobs, that's a mature responsibility.
As for the "omg your virginity can never be taken back" type arguments, it's sex, big woop. I don't quite understand the big deal with ones virginity. Some people regret who they lost it to, at any age, and some don't.

Posted by: Tomates Dec 9 2008, 04:49 PM

^

Posted by: shanaynay Dec 9 2008, 04:52 PM

haha. But then why do 12 year olds look like they're asking for it.

Posted by: MissUchiha Dec 9 2008, 05:01 PM

though it's their choice, i think that it is not a smart idea, like a lot of people said
14 year olds are immature, they do not know responsibility and a lot of relationships dont last

Posted by: andherlayouts Dec 20 2008, 09:07 AM

heya :D

welll i know some people who have had underage sex at 15 and 14
but i think that if they are ready for it .... i dont have a problem with it
but can we really draw the line on when it is wrong to have sex?

anyway yeh this is my personal opinion :P

xx

Posted by: hypnotique Dec 20 2008, 11:47 AM

IN MY OPION I THINK THAT 14 IS TO YOUNG FOR PEOPLES TO HAVE SEX BECAUSE YES IT IS GOOD AND NICE AND AT 14 KIDS ARE IS STUPID AND THEY TYPES LIKE A MONKEY PRESSING BUTTONS ON KEYBOARD.WE CANNOT TRUST 14 YEAR OLDS TO HAVE THE BABIES IF THEY HAVE THE BABIES WE WILL HAS DISEASE AND FLIPPER KIDS RUNNING ARPUND AND I MAKES MYSELF LOL LOL CAUSE THAT IS WHAT 14 YEAR OLD GIRLS DO FOR MONEY AND STUFF. DEFORM/MENTAL.

PLEASE TAKE THIS TO THE HEAD OK


ii CRiiED iiN LAUGHTER AT THAT STATESMENT

Posted by: Fabianwashere Dec 20 2008, 02:06 PM

They should decide theirself.

Posted by: gojira Dec 20 2008, 02:18 PM

lol so if you guys had a kid, you wouldn't mind them losing their virginity at a young age? of course, informing of them all the precautions and safety.

are they ready to carry a child of their own????? without mommy and daddy's assistance? get out of here