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 Apr 3 2005, 11:12 AM
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okay well im 12 and my boyfriend is 14, do you think i should dump him once he goes to highschool next year? i mean i really like him, but im afraid thatll hell find someone more mature in highschool. its not the fact that we go to different school because we already do now, URGHH HELPP!
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Apr 3 2005, 11:18 AM
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yerp! Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
Relationships where location isn't a common trait is often a lot harder anyway.
If you think your boyfriend is going to dump you because he's found someone more "mature" than you, then you guys alread yhad some problems from the start. And really, he isn't that much older than you, compared to my fiance. He's A LOT older than me. 
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Apr 3 2005, 11:25 AM
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WHAT?? u r 12 and he's 14 and u think you're too young for him? take this, you are NOT too young for him! i got dumped cuz he was 30 and im 16, take that.
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Apr 3 2005, 12:48 PM
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 because i'm cool like that. Group: Member Posts: 208 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,603 |
you're too young for dating, period.
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Apr 3 2005, 12:55 PM
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 iuvenesco Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 101,221 |
the age difference isn't too bad, but if you think he might dump you, then that shows that you two really aren't that comfortable with each other to begin with. you could if you want, i mean, you'll definitely find other guys, you're only 12
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Apr 3 2005, 01:24 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
QUOTE(staircase wit @ Apr 3 2005, 1:48 PM) you're too young for dating, period.   Agreed. But 2 years isn't that big of a deal. |
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Apr 3 2005, 01:25 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,443 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,050 |
so your saying you dont trust him??? well if thats the case then might as well end it if you really like him you should trust him
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Apr 3 2005, 01:59 PM
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 The windmills of your mind .. Group: Member Posts: 1,317 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,699 |
Well i am 14 and my boyfriend is is almost 17, we are really happy though :)
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Apr 3 2005, 02:00 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 558 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,872 |
I think you should break it off when he goes to highschool (if it lasts that long). Your young, so I'm sure you'll find others too.
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Apr 3 2005, 03:51 PM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
You should try talking to him about it. Really, though, you're not that much younger than him
 . Anyways, I think if it really becomes a problem then you should break it off with him. Good Luck.
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Apr 3 2005, 04:08 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
Hey, you're only 12. No worries.
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Apr 3 2005, 04:09 PM
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 o.x Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,026 |
Age isn't the problem...but your right about him finding more "mature'' girls there. I doubt that he'll be still liking you (physically if you know what I mean) when there's all those girls older,and again, more physically mature. Natural. He can't help it--neither can you.
Live with it. Wait a few years, and then try again. |
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Apr 3 2005, 04:10 PM
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**I'm O sO fLy** Group: Member Posts: 304 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,281 |
i know how you feel... I'm 12 turning 13 and my b/f is uhh 14 also and he's going to high school next year and i'll be in 8th grade but i mean i will always see him in a year i just have to wait a year but i don't tink i want too
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Apr 3 2005, 04:24 PM
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 tHa siiNgLe LiiFe Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,926 |
i think you should just talk to him.. and see what you can come up with..
personally i would want an older bf that`s in high school even though im in junior high [i`m 13 1/2] but i do understand what you mean.. that`s the bad part about having an older bf, but if you guys really like each other it shouldn`t matter that you go to seperate schools.. and i mean if he isn`t a `playa` he wouldn`t go lookin for another girl in high school |
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Apr 3 2005, 04:36 PM
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well its up to you, but 2 years isn't that big of a deal its mostly the trust issue it seems. you have to decide for yourself how much you trust him.
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Apr 3 2005, 04:39 PM
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QUOTE(sandra6645 @ Apr 3 2005, 10:25 AM) WHAT?? u r 12 and he's 14 and u think you're too young for him? take this, you are NOT too young for him! i got dumped cuz he was 30 and im 16, take that. lol. were close im 16 and hes 23 |
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Apr 3 2005, 04:40 PM
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When i was 12 i wasent worryed about having a bf or loosing a bf because he was older then me. I think i was mostley worryed about how junior high is going to be. I think your to young to date, at your age you dont know what the word love mean`s.
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Apr 3 2005, 04:57 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
U dont have to break up with him. hes only 2-3 years older then you. if he was 18 then yes but now, it seems fine
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Apr 3 2005, 05:00 PM
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 cameraman swing the focus! Group: Member Posts: 1,880 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,328 |
you're too young to be dating. go play with some toys or something.
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Apr 3 2005, 06:35 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
you're only 12, you've still got lots more time to get a bf.
well 2 yrs isn't such a big gap, my bf is also 2 years older than me, we even go to different schools. you should try talking to him |
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Apr 3 2005, 08:41 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
u dont really trust him, do u?
if u dont y r u still with him? just b/c hes going to high school doesnt mean hes definately going to find someone more mature than u.. |
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Apr 3 2005, 08:58 PM
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 i heart u Group: Member Posts: 151 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,430 |
naw......my last ex was 2 years older then me too. i prefer guys the same age as me....or 2 yrs max. i'm 14.
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Apr 3 2005, 09:47 PM
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 E=Fb Musicians Theory of Relativity Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,045 |
QUOTE(staircase wit @ Apr 3 2005, 12:48 PM) you're too young for dating, period. /sign Two years is nothing. So what if you are going to a different school? I'm two years older than my bf, and in a few months I'll graduate and we'll be going to different schools. At least I'm staying local. It sounds like you guys have some trust issues if his going to a new school is enough to make you consider breaking up with him. |
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Apr 4 2005, 02:52 AM
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pfffft. i know people who date guys 5 years older.
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Apr 4 2005, 10:52 AM
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 you high baby? Group: Member Posts: 88 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 122,267 |
always go for older guys
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