Tough Love in Military, how do i deal with tough love bully type people |
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 May 24 2010, 07:52 PM
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 Seisuke  Group: Member Posts: 289 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,523  |
I'm having a difficult time where I work i'm in the military air force. How do you respond to tough love and bullying type personalities? I find that when I react with kindness its taken advantage of, and giving tough love back creates more of a problem. I'm tired of being belittled. What's the right way to deal with it?
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May 24 2010, 07:56 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 1,938 Joined: Jul 2008 Member No: 667,832 |
Ignore the people who are being dicks to you, then it'll die down, cause the yprolly like the reaction you give to them
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May 24 2010, 10:14 PM
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 Sex, Blood, & RocknRoll Group: People Staff Posts: 5,305 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 596,480 |
Drink their blood and eat their soul.
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May 24 2010, 10:15 PM
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 I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
need more detail, don't really get it
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May 24 2010, 10:17 PM
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Sex, Blood, & RocknRoll Group: People Staff Posts: 5,305 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 596,480 |
Yeah. Exactly what are they doing? and are you a male, female and or both.
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May 25 2010, 08:03 AM
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 Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,019 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 653,768 |
"f*ck off" and walk away
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May 25 2010, 02:50 PM
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 Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,142 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 514,926 |
it's obvious that their only being that way because they're trying to make you better.
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May 27 2010, 11:00 PM
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 Watch This Group: Member Posts: 886 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 118,408 |
I'm sorry for posting in here but I saw the title and had to. I am prior service and I'll let you know that half the people are insulting or being negative to you because they are either insecure with themselves or they just are shitty people. They key is to focus on your job and your training because when you do that it blocks everyone and everything out. Good luck and hooah.(Army for life)
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May 27 2010, 11:29 PM
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 Sarcastic Mr. Know-It-All Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 29 |
Sounds like you're a huge pussy. Man up, Private Pyle.
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