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post Apr 12 2010, 08:43 PM
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one thing ive noticed about myself and other girls is that we're always complaining and starting drama over nothing which is ridiculous. One thing i noticed in high school was that you are NEVER allowed to date your friends ex's. i could see why this would be a problem but a group of myfrens got into the biggest fight over this when they already had new boyfrineds. it was completly pointless in starting drama...the funny thing is that i was the one friend who got mad for my fren dating my ex n vise versa.

I just wanted to know what RULES as a women do you have or go by?
 
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post Apr 12 2010, 08:51 PM
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The number one rule I go by? Stay in the kitchen.
 
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post Apr 12 2010, 08:58 PM
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QUOTE(spambot @ Apr 12 2010, 08:51 PM) *
The number one rule I go by? Stay in the kitchen.

_unsure.gif thts messed up lol tht sound like somethin kaNye would say
 
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post Apr 12 2010, 09:00 PM
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This is why I don't like most girls, because they're so catty and become involved with pointless drama. One rule that I have for myself is to avoid girls like that.
 
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post Apr 12 2010, 09:49 PM
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girls= drama period. there is no if, ands, or buts because it's in our genes. if you think about it, everyone is drama, because we get into arguments with boys, and vice versa about silly things that we later laugh about it. the reason we laugh about it later is because we mature and been through it. we handle it in a insecure manner in the beginning, after we learn from it, we handle it in a more mature drama-less way.
 
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post Apr 12 2010, 10:09 PM
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Speak for your self. Unless I do have a hidden penis somewhere I don't have said gene.
 
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post Apr 12 2010, 10:21 PM
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QUOTE(LittleMissSunshine @ Apr 12 2010, 10:49 PM) *
girls= drama period. there is no if, ands, or buts because it's in our genes. if you think about it, everyone is drama, because we get into arguments with boys, and vice versa about silly things that we later laugh about it.

QUOTE(spambot @ Apr 12 2010, 11:09 PM) *
Speak for your self. Unless I do have a hidden penis somewhere I don't have said gene.

To say that girls are genetically inclined to be dramatic is silly. As Abbey said, speak for yourself, because I don't like getting involved in drama; I'm one of the least dramatic girls you'll ever meet. I don't like wasting my time on stupid things, one of those things being drama and fights with other girls. Are we all dramatic sometimes? Sure. But are all girls dramatic all the time? Definitely not.
 
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post Apr 12 2010, 11:44 PM
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I hardly ever got into drama. I always stayed to my self. Actually... I still do. But as for friends going out with your ex, or vice versa... That's kind of awkward. I couldn't ever find myself dating my friend's ex-boyfriend.
 
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post Apr 12 2010, 11:52 PM
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I think it's common decency to wait a little while at least.
 
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post Apr 13 2010, 09:46 AM
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i think it's some sort of competition between girls. same applies for guys.
guys compete with each other to become the dominant alpha male of the pack,
while girls start shit or fight to become like the best female of the pack
 
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post Apr 13 2010, 04:29 PM
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QUOTE(Cum @ Apr 13 2010, 09:46 AM) *
i think it's some sort of competition between girls. same applies for guys.
guys compete with each other to become the dominant alpha male of the pack,
while girls start shit or fight to become like the best female of the pack

We're all pretty much equals in my group of friends.
 
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post Apr 13 2010, 07:05 PM
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Thank god im not a "typical girl"
and Why so many new topics?
 
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post Apr 13 2010, 07:21 PM
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I would rather be a typical girl then whatever the f*ck I am now.
 
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post Apr 13 2010, 08:57 PM
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QUOTE(itanium @ Apr 13 2010, 01:29 PM) *
We're all pretty much equals in my group of friends.

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QUOTE(Cum @ Apr 13 2010, 08:57 PM) *
animals do not count

yes they do shut up
 
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post Apr 13 2010, 09:44 PM
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QUOTE(spambot @ Apr 12 2010, 10:09 PM) *
Unless I do have a hidden penis

isn't that the general consensus?
 
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QUOTE(serotonin @ Apr 13 2010, 09:44 PM) *
isn't that the general consensus?

pretty much
 
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post Apr 13 2010, 11:23 PM
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I am starting to think it's more of a growth
 
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post Apr 15 2010, 09:22 AM
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http://edition.cnn.com/2010/LIVING/persona...+Most+Recent%29

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You need to weigh the value of your friendship with the woman vs. the amount of love, commitment and investment you had in your relationship with your ex-boyfriend.

If the woman is a close friend, the likelihood of this becoming an issue is slim. Your closest friends will know every dirty deed, bad situation or heartbreak he may have caused. And because they are familiar with all the dirt on him, they wouldn't touch him.

However, if you and your ex didn't work out just because you just weren't right for each other and there was no real drama involved, what's the harm if your current girlfriend and someone you once loved end up together?
 
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post Apr 18 2010, 05:13 AM
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QUOTE(azz90 @ Apr 12 2010, 06:43 PM) *
I just wanted to know what RULES as a women do you have or go by?

Hang out with guys.
 
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post May 21 2010, 11:34 PM
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there are plenty of fish in the sea why does girls have to compete and see who's better by dating their friend's exs
 
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post Jun 17 2010, 10:56 PM
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QUOTE(azz90 @ Apr 12 2010, 09:43 PM) *
I just wanted to know what RULES as a women do you have or go by?


id tell you, but then id have to kill you.
 
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post Jul 9 2010, 07:29 AM
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QUOTE(Cristy @ Apr 12 2010, 08:21 PM) *
To say that girls are genetically inclined to be dramatic is silly.

no its not, its pretty much an accepted fact that girls tend to deal with emotional stress more verbally relative to men, unless your reidar, then you hug your stuffed teddy bear and call Joanne when you gets ronery

btw, theres physiological backing to my claim so BOOYAH
 
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post Jul 9 2010, 07:42 AM
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Reidar also writes poetry to express how he feels and volunteers at rescue shelters (not to gain access to moving punching bags either, for helpful non macho reasons)
 
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post Jul 9 2010, 10:35 AM
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QUOTE(aflyingcumshot @ Jul 9 2010, 08:29 AM) *
no its not, its pretty much an accepted fact that girls tend to deal with emotional stress more verbally relative to men, unless your reidar, then you hug your stuffed teddy bear and call Joanne when you gets ronery

btw, theres physiological backing to my claim so BOOYAH

I agree that women are more vocal/verbal when dealing with distress, and can also be downright bitchy and manipulative to those around them because they either don't know how to regulate their emotions in a healthier way, or prefer to be melodramatic rather than reasonable. I just don't like it when people assume we're automatically bitches with a million stupid rules solely because we're female, since a lot of us aren't/try not to be stereotypical girls.
 

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