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Posted by: barbieeedollxo Oct 18 2007, 01:13 PM

just thought it'd be interesting....

Posted by: S-Majere Oct 18 2007, 01:53 PM

I'm 19 years old, have been seeing my boyfriend for near 18 months and intend to keep my virtue until after we're married.

Posted by: madgamer Oct 18 2007, 03:01 PM

^Same:]. I don't believe in sex before marriage unless I am hella in love with the guy. Even yet, I might not because losing my virginity means a lot. Girls that lose their virginity before before they are marry are obviously desperate in my point of view. I can wait thnx.

Posted by: RAWRstephishere Oct 18 2007, 04:58 PM

I think Im going to wait until marriage.

Posted by: S-Majere Oct 18 2007, 06:00 PM

I love you guys I promise you won't regret waiting.

Posted by: MissFits Oct 20 2007, 11:56 AM

Obviously desperate?!? Have you ever heard of trying it before you buy it? Sex is an important part of a relationship, and if the sex is miserable your relationship is likely to be miserable.

I'm not saying go out and fornicate with every dude you have ever had a crush on. I am saying, when you've been with someone for years and you really love them sex is okay. Even if you don't end up marrying that person you can look back on it and be happy that you lost your virginity to someone you cared about so much.

Posted by: S-Majere Oct 20 2007, 01:02 PM

You make a good point Missfits; but some girls (some boys too!) are very protective of their virginity. It can be through upbringing, religion or just a personal choice. It was choice for me; and although I love my boyfriend dearly and would love nothing better than to diddle his brains out sometimes, I make myself wait. I love the idea that virginity is a 'gift' that is given on a wedding night, and I do so want to give that gift to my husband.

As for the 'trying it before you buy it' side of things...I'm sure practise will make perfect even if either of you suck! You have the rest of your lives together to perfect the art of lovemaking.

Posted by: MissFits Oct 20 2007, 01:22 PM

It's not that I don't agree with waiting until your married. It's a sweet thing to to, but MadGamer said "obviously desperate" and that didn't sit right with me.
Sure, sex is a gift but just because I gave it to someone before I was married doesn't mean I am "obviously desperate".

Posted by: S-Majere Oct 20 2007, 01:23 PM

Oh no, I totally agree. That was a little too...I'd say 'abusive' as I can't think of the right word right now XD

Posted by: Villainess Oct 20 2007, 01:24 PM

I lost it at 17..
Im still with him too!

Posted by: xhidethedetails Oct 20 2007, 02:41 PM

I lost it at 15 to my ex boyfriend.

Posted by: Synesthesia Oct 20 2007, 03:32 PM

I'm 16 and still a virgin.

Posted by: crueldade Oct 20 2007, 04:37 PM

I lost it at fourteen to a friend.

Sex doesn't mean much to either of us. To me, it's not that big of a deal. O_o

Posted by: S-Majere Oct 20 2007, 05:05 PM

I find that such a difficult concept to understand, crueldade! Sex is the ultimate expression of love (and lust!)...

I guess it just goes to show.

Posted by: StacieFantastico Oct 20 2007, 07:23 PM

I lost my virginity when i was like... 5.

BWAHAHHAA.

beat that.!

Posted by: x_curse_of_the_curves_x Oct 21 2007, 12:19 AM

^I lost mine when I was still a fetus. Beat that!

No but seriously I don't think its that big of a deal, I hate the idea of it being a gift, you lose something and no one gains it so how is it a gift? idk I just don't think its a big deal. Im still a virgin though.

Posted by: lilsnoopy Oct 21 2007, 12:24 AM

you dont know what you got till its gone

especially if it was robbed

Posted by: yupimchuck Oct 21 2007, 12:58 AM

i was 14

Posted by: LOWinSKANK Oct 21 2007, 05:18 AM

there's probably a bunch of similar posts.

but i lost minee when i was 14?
yess 14 mhm.
but, i'm not with the guy anymore, honestly though, i don't regret it.

Posted by: jeanna Oct 21 2007, 10:27 AM

i was 16. i even thought about it for like 2 hours. i didn't really care. it was going to happen eventually and might as well lose it to someone i "loved" at the time. i'm celibate now, i don't regret it. [it sucked so bad haha] even though i sound like i'm saying, "whatever idc", i'm not saying go have sex with everyone. i couldn't have sex with random people like at parties and live with myself.

"Have you ever heard of trying it before you buy it? Sex is an important part of a relationship, and if the sex is miserable your relationship is likely to be miserable."

so true. on every talk show they talk about cheating and it's 99% connected to not getting their sex fulfilled.
personality towards relationships can only go so far, seriously.

Posted by: S-Majere Oct 21 2007, 01:22 PM

Haha, maybe jeanna! There is the whole 'seize the moment' philosophy vs the 'wait and see' one. But I do think that people that go on chatshows have more issues to them than just bad sex lives To be frank, I don't think I could sleep with anyone besides my future husband. I'm a bit fastidious about it really.

Though I feel I've got to say (again) that although I have been seeing my boyfriend for a year and a half, we're both very happy to wait and consummate our love until after marriage.

It is a personal choice; it's always about choice. There is no right or wrong with this.

Posted by: Moderator Oct 21 2007, 02:33 PM

I believe I lost my virginity when I was 13 to my ex boyfriend. I don't regret it. =) I mean, sure it would always be nice to wait til marriage but in most cases that doesn't happen.

What is virginity but an imaginary thing? Is it physical? Or is it emotion? Or is it mental?

Posted by: Sandraaa Oct 21 2007, 02:48 PM

JANE. You've been naughty.

Posted by: kimmytree Oct 21 2007, 03:55 PM

I'm 18 and I've still got mine. I'm proud to say I've made it this long, but its not something I plan on keeping too much longer.

Posted by: S-Majere Oct 21 2007, 04:03 PM

Physically, it's the hymen. But it is more than that and virignity refers to a purity in spirit and mind, as well as body. It's often referred to as innocence - which is why in a lot of myths and legends, virgins are often gifted with foresight or magical abilities. Once they lose their virginity, they lose their gifts. Sounds to me a lot like an incentive to remain celibate! Not sure if I'd like the trade-off though, haha.

Posted by: Elba Oct 21 2007, 04:28 PM

I lost it when I was 15. I look back on it know and think 'damn, I was just a little kid'. I don't regret it or anything, I just think it's a young age.

Posted by: crueldade Oct 21 2007, 06:00 PM

^^I know what you mean. Except I still am a little kid. A little, sexually active kid. O_o

Posted by: misoshiru Oct 21 2007, 06:27 PM

i haven't had sex yet, but i don't think that it's really that big of a deal. when i meet the right person and i believe that i'm in love with them, i'll have sex. and i'm not too sure about marriage. who knows. and if i don't ever get married, well then i'm definitely not staying celibate my entire life.

Posted by: Steven Oct 21 2007, 06:42 PM

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Desperate? Are you sure about that?

Posted by: Elba Oct 21 2007, 07:05 PM

HAHA. Sexually active people aren't desperate. Maybe you just can't get any.

Posted by: omgomgKATHY Oct 21 2007, 07:06 PM

I really wanna wait for the right person, but omg temptation -___-

Posted by: freeflow Oct 21 2007, 08:05 PM

Virgin. You know what when it happens it happens.

Posted by: Steven Oct 21 2007, 11:08 PM

Aww I wanted to see if she responded to her oh so wrong generalization before attacking..

Posted by: Autobahn Oct 22 2007, 12:43 AM

I have not.
but honestly I do not see any big deal about it. No one has to argue with me, but i think it's just another part of life or whatever. Shouldn't make such a fuss about it.

Posted by: S-Majere Oct 22 2007, 01:19 PM

Haha! I was so determined not to lose mine on prom night - seemed very cliched!

Posted by: Gryffindore-Girl Oct 22 2007, 09:52 PM

I haven't lost mine yet not till marriage.

Posted by: S-Majere Oct 23 2007, 10:01 AM

If that's what you want, you go for it.

Posted by: stolen Oct 23 2007, 12:58 PM

not yet...
I'm planning for the right moment. I told all my boyfriends this since they had done it already.

Posted by: barbieeedollxo Oct 23 2007, 01:09 PM

i lost mine when i was 15 and rly i don't regret it. i lost it to somebody that i loved and cared about. and i'll treasure that moment with him forever.

Posted by: madgamer Nov 3 2007, 11:22 PM

Yes desperate. If you love that person so much, why cant you wait till you guys get marry?

I can't get any ? ROFL I am not a slut who would easily give off my body like you do. Thanks.

Posted by: jeanna Nov 3 2007, 11:47 PM

have fun living a marriage with horrible sex.

Posted by: madgamer Nov 3 2007, 11:57 PM

Dont worry about me. When I finally get marry I'll have sex every night hahah.

Posted by: jeanna Nov 4 2007, 12:03 AM

yeah, ok but that doesn't mean it's going to be good sex. a lot of marriages end because the sex sucks and the reason they cheat.

Posted by: madgamer Nov 4 2007, 12:05 AM

so your telling me and me and my husband will end up breaking up cause of bad sex and he cheats ? ookay. im not even married yet, so who know what will happen.

Posted by: aestheticYOU Nov 4 2007, 12:12 AM

I lost mine at fourteen, and sometimes, I regret it more than anything. We're not together anymore, and it kills me. I gave my virtue (the most precious gift God has ever given me, along with unconditional love) to the one guy I've ever really and truly loved... This was not a teenage fantasy, it was the real deal.
Don't take sex lightly; Maidenhood is not something to be lost on a spur of the moment choice.

I'll say this for all of you virgins; Congratulations.

(By the way, we're not desperate just because we've had sex.)

Posted by: jeanna Nov 4 2007, 12:22 AM

i wonder do people think of hymen reconstructive surgery. i saw on tv this couple was doing it and couldnt have sex for 6 weeks. was pretty expensive too for a 1 second thing and plus she could have broken it again doing daily things or something. i guess mental?

anyways, i think if you dont have your virginity it shouldn't matter to your partner at marriage. if you don't cheat with anyone in your past.. then why would their past sex partners matter now?

Posted by: aestheticYOU Nov 4 2007, 12:27 AM

I agree Jeanna. Most women break their hymen before sex, hence the reason some bleed and some don't.
Hymen reconsruction seems a bit precipitous. It really shouldn't matter to your future husband/wife. I can understand the rejection they may feel because they weren't your first, but afterwards its probably not going to matter.

Posted by: jeanna Nov 4 2007, 12:41 AM

yeah i guess a lot is mental on virginity. i wonder how many people on CB have slept with, number wise. i use to be ashamed of my number but then i tell someone and they are like, "what? other girls i know have much MUCH more." i can't change it and it's not like i'm sleeping around now anyways. i've been celibate for 1 year and 2 months. what pisses me off about when i say that is other people say, "oh yeah me too." there is a difference between saying NO to sex and NOT getting any lol.

Posted by: rebeccalovely Nov 4 2007, 12:50 AM

Haha! Yeah.

I'm gonna say "hurrah!" for everyone who says waiting until marriage is the best route, because it is!

Posted by: aestheticYOU Nov 4 2007, 12:57 AM

I'm not ashamed, nor am I proud. It's nice to know it was with someone I cared about, instead of a random guy off the street. We'd known each other for awhile, but I will say that the relationship was a little forced; we both knew trying was a mistake, but it all turned out well.

I associate my virtue with love; I couldn't of made the choice I did if I didn't care.

Adults scare teenagers with sex to prevent pre-marriage pregnancy. Little do they know that it just makes us curious to try; few people are really in love when they have their first sexual encounter.

By the way, I think if you can't say the word 'sex' openly, you shouldn't be having it; just a thought.

Posted by: jeanna Nov 4 2007, 01:13 AM

my friend got knocked up at 16/17 but she secretly wanted a kid because she was sleeping with any guy and NEVER using a condom. she wanted a crutch in life. pissed me off.
i'm turning 20 and i'm still not all the way normal with talking about it to my dad. i think he knows so, idk

Posted by: aestheticYOU Nov 4 2007, 01:17 AM

My parents don't know, I think. I hope they don't. It's not something I'm prepared to talk about, especially since I was always asked to wait.
That's what really weighs on my conscience.

Posted by: jeanna Nov 4 2007, 01:31 AM

well im sure most parents werent virgins till they were married anyways

Posted by: S-Majere Nov 4 2007, 11:58 AM

^ Mine were. They waited. I'm honouring that and doing the same.

Posted by: breakingdawn Nov 4 2007, 02:04 PM

That's what my mom told me.

Posted by: S-Majere Nov 4 2007, 02:16 PM

Not really a good thing to tell teens.

Posted by: breakingdawn Nov 4 2007, 02:19 PM

Nah she didn't mean it like "GO HAVE LOTS OF SEX BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED" but more like "Once youre older and think youve found the person you want to be with, it's okay to have sex because it's an important part of a relationship and if you don't, and you find out too late that your husband totally sucks, you're not going to be happy and will most likely end up cheating on him."

haha yeah so I'm waiting til I'm older, just not til marriage.

Posted by: sourire Nov 4 2007, 02:48 PM

Eh well...technically I'm not, but I still consider myself a virgin because the way it was lost was kind of...not quite right and I don't even remember it.

Posted by: jeanna Nov 4 2007, 02:53 PM

exactly lol. how do people go a year+ without having sex? idk who can hold out for that long. a month long relationship and you sleep with them, sure that's not good.

Posted by: S-Majere Nov 4 2007, 03:30 PM

That would be me.

I've been seeing my other half now for over 18 months and we've never had sex.

I intend to marry this guy, and he I. I know he's with me for all the right reasons and even if he did suck - so what? We have the rest of our lives to have a giggle and try different things together. In essence, we'd help each other learn the art of lovemaking.

I would never ditch someone who loves me so much, when alls it takes is practise to make perfect.

There seems to be a lot of talk about dumping a guy if he 'sucks', but isn't sex a, ahem, 'team effort'?

Posted by: peaceloveskinny Nov 5 2007, 02:01 AM

im 15 and still a virgin.
me and my best friend plan to lose it to eachother. xD

Posted by: kayla0790x Nov 5 2007, 02:22 PM

I was 15

Posted by: S-Majere Nov 5 2007, 02:41 PM

I hope that's a contingency plan!

Posted by: jeanna Nov 5 2007, 03:11 PM

thing is, not many people are as smart as you

Posted by: RickieStarr Nov 8 2007, 11:45 PM

When I was 7 years old, lets just say my friend and I were really bored.

Posted by: Laughsalot Nov 9 2007, 01:59 AM

yea some gift, giving unexpierience smex to your husband, who he in turn might not be a virgin and might have had ahhhmazing smex some previous girlfreinds.

Posted by: S-Majere Nov 9 2007, 06:00 AM

Yeah, right. I don't want your experiences.

I'm still confused as to the perception that all virgins will be crap in bed forever and after. It's a learning curve; there is absolutely no rush to become sexually active just for the sheer hell of saying you're better than someone else is or will be. We are all going to become sexually active adults at some point in our lives; a head start makes no difference and I'm sure it will be good fun catching up with the rest of you.

As to my husband, I hope he will be my boyfriend. We're both virgins and we're both agreed - we'll lose it to each other on our wedding night. How is that going to be any worse than a sexually precocious couple that have lost it to different partners? It's not, it's far better in my eyes.

Posted by: XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX Nov 10 2007, 06:36 PM

I havent yet but im going to lose it pretty soon (hopefully on my 15th birthday with my boyfriend, before its illegl lol) :)

Posted by: sweetdreamer298 Nov 10 2007, 09:13 PM

I'm waiting until I'm married or until a really wonderful guy comes around and we've been seeing a each other for a while. Just don't think I'd be up for it (or ready) while I'm still in high school.

Posted by: Fraps Nov 27 2007, 06:56 PM

Hmm, this is something really strange for me. I'm still a virgin, and I plan to keep my virginity for quite a while now. It throws me off how a lot of you have lost it at such a young age (in my opinion-- I'm not here as a critic for when you should lose it)

I'm really curious about when to have it. Haha,I mean, I KNOW I was a mistake (:

Posted by: silentriot Nov 30 2007, 08:47 PM

I am proud to say I still am a virgin.
:)

and what I love about it is that no matter how many people at my school think I'm a whore, I can just laugh in their face because I'm not... I haven't done shit with anyoneee!
So I'm good.
:D

Posted by: minot Nov 30 2007, 10:48 PM

^i'v been called a whore too. hate it but i just ignore them.
i'm 17 n i'm still a virgin.

Posted by: deplorable Dec 1 2007, 12:13 PM

you can lose your innocence without having sex

ha ha... anyways... im a proud 17 yr old virgin. I dont plan to have sex til im married...

Posted by: guilinger123 Dec 1 2007, 12:24 PM

damn. I haven't even had my first kiss... or my first boyfriend I'm so lonely.

Unless you count online boyfriends... Tehe.. I was a very interesting 10 year old.

Posted by: EXP0SED Dec 1 2007, 11:50 PM

Not yet. Waiting for the right time

Posted by: foreverNalways Dec 3 2007, 02:06 PM

I lost mine just a couple months ago, I'm 17. I was planning on waiting until marriage but sometimes things don't go as planned. I don't regret anything with life so I dealt with having it stolen from me. At first I was so upset, but now as it's been a couple months, I'm fine. I wish it didn't happen that way, but I'm okay with it now.

Posted by: S-Majere Dec 3 2007, 02:23 PM

Possibly. Sex is the ultimate popper though.

Posted by: jeanna Dec 6 2007, 12:21 PM

then you must have some kind of whore personality for them to think that if you don't sleep around..

Posted by: RyanWasHere Dec 6 2007, 12:37 PM

^ hmm yea idk about that one, rumors tend to follow you for a long time in high school, I know some girls that people think are sluts or have been around and that's not the case at all.

As for me, I lost it when I was 14 to a 16 year old girl, and I've been pretty steadily sexually active with girlfriends since than, I've never had a one night stand.
Don't regret it, and contrary to popular belief, I didn't turn into a slut.

Posted by: jeanna Dec 6 2007, 12:47 PM

you're a guy. it is praised

Posted by: RyanWasHere Dec 6 2007, 12:52 PM

Yea if your an a-hole and you boast about it, most people think that's how all guys are...and it's sad because that's not usually how it is.

I don't think the girls that I've had sex with are sluts now either or anything like that, we meant and still mean a lot to each other and we decided to have a physical relationship to further that love and get to know each other on a more intimate level, I see nothing wrong with it.

Posted by: Sulfur-in-K Dec 6 2007, 06:48 PM

17

Posted by: Kenzers Dec 7 2007, 03:59 PM

I've decided to save myself for when I get married. AND considering i haven't even had a boyfriend yet, i dont expect that to be for a long time. But im willing to wait. :D

Posted by: xhidethedetails Dec 7 2007, 06:42 PM

::Edit::
Nvm, didn't see that I posted in here.

Posted by: squarepants1113 Dec 13 2007, 02:13 PM

Posted by: Sulfur-in-K Dec 13 2007, 04:00 PM

17

Posted by: c0cONuTTeR Dec 13 2007, 04:41 PM

I feel, age is just a number. It's all about maturity and understanding.

But yeah, 15 for me.

Posted by: me1issaaaa Dec 13 2007, 05:11 PM

17.
I don't regret losing it, just who took it.

Posted by: S-Majere Dec 13 2007, 06:06 PM

Don't be daft. If she were jealous she'd be out there trying to lose it. The girl's got some sense, makes it harder for you guys. Ha.

Posted by: AngelinaTaylor Dec 27 2007, 02:24 AM

Maybe you're just scared? Sex is great.. especially when you're in love =) Nothing wrong with that.

I was with my guy for a year and a half, and we waited for 7 months before having sex. I don't understand those people jumping on the first guy that comes to them.

Posted by: AMBERLY07 Dec 28 2007, 04:03 PM

i lost mine when i was 13:) and im still 13 i don't regret it but whatever

Posted by: oXMuhNirvanaXo Dec 28 2007, 04:14 PM

I was 16.

Posted by: K-I-K-I Dec 29 2007, 12:17 AM

i lost it when I was 14. I don't regret losing it. i just regret who i lost it to.

Posted by: fosheezy Dec 31 2007, 07:15 AM

i'm 17
& still a virgin
:D

Posted by: twotootz02 Jan 2 2008, 11:57 AM

same here, oh sooo tempting!

Posted by: Senta Jan 4 2008, 06:23 PM

I'm still a virgin :D

I'll wait `till after marriage. (If I even get married XD)

...But hey, whatever happens, happens. :]

Posted by: fathomlessdame Jan 20 2008, 01:35 PM

I lost it less than a month ago. I wish we would have waited a little longer til we had sex but oh well. I don't regret it. Sex is awesome and I love him with all of my heart

Posted by: miyashu Jan 21 2008, 06:04 PM

I was 17 at the time. And we're still together ^.^

Posted by: tungmyBANANA Jan 21 2008, 06:07 PM

Posted by: miyashu Jan 22 2008, 07:53 PM

^ a few other people here said the same thing. so i guess that makes them sluts too o_O

Posted by: DoubleJ Jan 22 2008, 08:21 PM

If I could take my virginity back would I? As a matter of fact I would. Looking back on my sexual histroy, I can definitely say, that I did not have a connection emotionally with any of the girls I had/have sex with.

Posted by: Blaqheartedstar Jan 22 2008, 11:18 PM

lost it at 18, well... still 18 now
with the dude? nah we broke up because i pretty much never made an effort to be much of a girlfriend
regret it? nope... it wasn't anything special and i already knew it wouldn't be so no point in assuming it would be the best thing in the world.

Posted by: MyBeautifulDisaster Jan 27 2008, 11:56 PM

For all the people who are saying that people should wait til marriage...
look at adam and eve...
and if you love someone why not go for it?

Posted by: S-Majere Feb 3 2008, 12:57 PM

...Maybe that has something to do with Adam and Eve being the only two people on the face of the planet. Vicars, churches, witnesses and ceremonies with triangular sandwitches would have been hard to come by.

I'll be hitting the 18+ button - I'm 20 this year.

Posted by: teeners4 Feb 3 2008, 01:35 PM

i'm 18. i haven't lost my virgnity yet but i'm not saving it for marriage either. haha i've been dating this guy for over a year and he's not. but i guess i'm waiting for the right moment. if i happen to not do it until marriage. then i guess that's how it flows.

Posted by: ChanelAddict87 Feb 5 2008, 04:02 PM

Great answers! Congrats on holding on to your virginity. Don't let any guy hit it lol... I hate whores.

Posted by: Something Vague Feb 5 2008, 05:26 PM

13-15? That's a pretty skanky move.

UNDER 13? Gross!!

Posted by: haylerbird Feb 5 2008, 06:51 PM

I see it as a penis in a vagina.
Nothing special.

Posted by: S-Majere Feb 5 2008, 06:55 PM

I feel sorry for you

Posted by: xcocoaxmuffinx Feb 6 2008, 03:29 PM

im not a virgin, but i am by no means a whore. I lost it this year and I know that sex isn't what my boyfriends after. I think if you want to wait, you should but it honestly is your decison whether or not to "do it" and dont do it because of pressure or because you feel like you HAVE to...fall in love first. Its so much better when you love and trust someone.

Posted by: agiri Feb 8 2008, 07:43 PM

18, and still a virgin.

i don't necessarily feel like waiting till marriage, but finding the right guy is definitely important.

Posted by: MissCuppyCake Feb 14 2008, 10:18 PM

Well they could have used a dog or something...
haha

Posted by: MidnightRain Feb 18 2008, 06:39 PM

I'm fifteen and still a virgin.
I plan to keep it that way, at least until I'm eighteen. :)

Posted by: YumiTsubaki Feb 18 2008, 07:40 PM

I've hugged my boyfriend and blew an air kiss at him, but I have yet to hold hands with a guy, much less have sex with him.

I'm thirteen. :3

Posted by: Cwhaticando Feb 19 2008, 12:42 AM

I'm with S-Majere on this one. Not exactly the waiting until marriage, but the fact that it means something. I don't think it should just be something you do because everyone else does. I would definitely regret it if I lost my virginity right now at 15, even if it was with the 'right' person. I mean, what even is the right person when you're fifteen? It's probably that boy/girl that youve been dating for however many months that, in a few years, you probably won't be with anymore.
I'm not criticizing anyone that's lost their virginity, it's just my view.
I'm most certainly waiting. And I know I'm going to be waiting a long time because I want it to be special. Not just something that happened.
Am I making sense?

As for the people who argue the 'try it before you buy it' point, I completely dissagree. A marriage is a partnership where both of you love each other unconditionally.
Sex shouldn't matter. It's sort of just the icing on the cake.

Posted by: Tamacracker Mar 29 2008, 01:08 AM

15 with a 17 year old. Yeah I know hypocritical, kinda regret it but then again... I don't since I learned how to "twurk" it in bed.

Posted by: Kayc05 Mar 29 2008, 02:30 AM

I lost my virginity my first year in college at age 16

Posted by: Tamacracker Mar 29 2008, 03:09 AM

16 years old at college? o.O;

Posted by: paperplane Mar 29 2008, 03:10 AM

If she's British....nevermind, she's from here.

Posted by: Kayc05 Mar 29 2008, 03:39 AM

Yes I started school at age 5 instead of 6 (birthday after sept. 1st rule) & I skipped a grade. I did joint college enrollment my senior year. I started summer school in May 2005 right after graduation & I could've graduated this May @ 19yrs if I hadn't transferred & added a 2nd major so now I'll be still on time according to my educational path & graduating Dec 2009 at age 21. And that is possible for anyone who has the drive to do so, thank you.

Posted by: BadCraziness Mar 29 2008, 08:42 AM

Virginity is overrated IMO.

Plus first times generally suck. A lot. Especially when it's virgin-on-virgin action. Why would you want your first sexual experience with the person you're going to spend the rest of your life with to be an awful, awkward one?

Think of it as being in training.

Posted by: aaayotiffany Mar 29 2008, 11:58 AM

lmao.

umm, i lost mine to an ex-boyfriend. i was his first and he was my first. "first loves" too, so i guess it was special. i can't say i'm proud of it, but i won't say i regret it.

Posted by: danceeNAKED Mar 31 2008, 11:57 AM

wow, people are losing their virginity's earlier on in life.
tama, i think its time you insert one of your STD quotes and make it size 7. mmhmm.

Posted by: Tamacracker Mar 31 2008, 12:03 PM

Which further proves my philosophy of the youth and newer generations rotting.
You like my lil insults, don't you?

Posted by: Reconditee Apr 1 2008, 08:38 PM

I personally haven't lost my virginity yet, nor am I saving it. I used to be one of those people who wanted to wait until marriage, before I actually got into a relationship that I became serious about -- not those "flings". Lack of birth control pills and my boyfriend's refusal to use a condom is pretty much the only reason why we haven't done it, though we have done everything else. I don't count that as taking my virginity though. He's pretty cool with waiting it out and not rushing into things, so I respect him for that.

Posted by: Sandraaa May 4 2008, 06:42 AM

Erm, why won't you boyfriend use condoms? Why won't you take birth control pills? Why don't you use condoms?

Posted by: PinkDinosaur May 6 2008, 09:18 AM

totaly wish i saved it ... he turned out to be a right perv

Posted by: LoveToMySilas May 6 2008, 05:38 PM

I feel you, Tiff. Thats the same as my situation.

Posted by: Teesa May 8 2008, 04:53 PM

19 and still intact

Posted by: aybaybay007 May 8 2008, 08:24 PM

right when i turned 15. im still 15 tho i think ive only had sex like 4 times tho. and ive never done it with anyone im dating or anyone i love maybe ill REGRET that (hehe) but o well lets just worry about that laaatterr

Posted by: foxx May 10 2008, 03:17 PM

still a virgin. well, i should be. but yeah..

Posted by: instantmusic May 25 2008, 05:38 PM

if you have a brother, you should not even think about sex until the age of... death, or until your brothers death. if you dont have a brother, its all game!

Posted by: i_love_billie_joe May 25 2008, 09:34 PM

i think to stay a virgin is to stay strong to your beliefs/ relgion/ choice/ etc because it is a hard thing to stick to.
and to lose your virginity before marrige is ok to, after all its your body, no body is in control of it exept you, and who you give it to is for you to decide

neither is wrong, its just a matter of choice and what you see is suitable for yourself. Although, myself speaking im not a virgin im happily sleeping with my boyfriend who i love, people who do wait for their wedding night to come around to lose thier virginity may be disapointed beacuse its not all beautiful and wonderfull like u may think, its actually some-what a struggle the first time.. but then again, personal choice!

Posted by: Becks539 May 25 2008, 10:07 PM

I am 16 and still a virgin. I was raised in a religious family being taught to save it until marriage. I always planned on saving it but lately I don't know anymore. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 1 year and 3 months [he too was raised in a religious family learning to wait until marriage.] and if down the road we have been going out for about 2.5-3 years or something like that, it's bound to happen. If I've dated him that long I know I won't regret it. I'd love for him to be my first. ohh temption.

Posted by: Vyrrei May 27 2008, 06:03 PM

Lost it at 16.

No regrets. :P

Posted by: BillyShakespeare May 27 2008, 08:04 PM

16.
A week short of being 17.
I was with the guy for over a year and a half.
And two months later, *Oh, I know, such a long time*, I'm still with him.

I trust him.
He didn't rush me.
In fact, he's the one going
"Are you sure? We can wait.."

I was raised in a strict family. The thing was, we were never taught not to have sex. I never heard the words come out of my moms mouth. I twas my youth group pastor that bought it up to me. I still DO believe in wating until marriage. The only regret I have is I have nothing to give my husband that is his only on my wedding night.

Posted by: karmakiller May 27 2008, 08:19 PM

LOL riiiiight.

I have two older brothers who are super over protective of me. If they see a guy looking at me they have a problem. That's why there's such a thing as a 'secret'

Posted by: madilove May 27 2008, 10:00 PM

I lost mine when I was 13 to my boyfriend at the time.

When I was younger I wanted to save myself for the right guy, but then as I got older I just decided that the only thing I'm saving for the right guy is marriage.

Do I regret losing my virginity so young? Not at all. I thought it was the right thing to do at the time, and why would you regret something that you were all for at one point?

Posted by: rockable May 28 2008, 04:29 PM

Im 16.. and waiting for the right guy thanks very much. :P

Posted by: SnarphBlat Jun 22 2008, 07:37 PM

Good for you!

We are too. :)

Posted by: ilikeyerrpants Jun 24 2008, 10:46 AM

if you've had oral sex are you still considered a virgin?

Posted by: Just_Dream Jun 24 2008, 07:27 PM

15. Right after I turned 15 I believe... =X

Posted by: Kay- Jun 28 2008, 12:04 AM

13

Posted by: Tomates Jun 29 2008, 08:34 PM

I didnt have my first kiss until This year and i was sixteen!
i think...or maybe 15
oh whatever it was sophmore year of high school XD

it was my best friend, Troy and i was saying "Gyah, im seriously the only girl in my grade who hasnt had their first kiss"
then after school one day after school we had our kiss <3
now were dating and he's literally my first boyfriend XD

so dont feel bad
it will come : D
and it will be magical?

Posted by: DeviantShadows Jun 29 2008, 11:44 PM

My boyfriend and I have just recently had a sex talk- about whether or not we were ready for it, etc. I'm still a virgin and he is not. To us, sex is a big deal. A very big deal that should only be shared between two people who really love each other and plan on spending the rest of their lives together. I'm confindent that my boyfriend is the guy that I'm going to marry, and I know he feels the same about me. I'm not necessarily waiting until marriage, just until I feel right about it. Right now, I'm just not ready.

Posted by: BrokenDream Jul 2 2008, 09:53 PM

Yes, you're still a virgin.
You're not a virgin if you had intercourse.

I am a virgin. I plan on staying that way until I know I'm good and ready with my boyfriend. I also want to wait until I'm more mature, and older.

Posted by: RylieDinosaur Jul 3 2008, 06:20 PM

I'm glad to see that most of the people on here are prudes like me.

Posted by: thatonegirl143 Jul 5 2008, 01:42 AM

unwillingly..14.
willingly..16 going on 17.

Posted by: Vyrrei Jul 5 2008, 02:27 AM

Posted by: thatonegirl143 Jul 5 2008, 02:46 AM

its alright. ive learned to cope with it && i know that shit happens && life goes on "]

Posted by: MiSSP Jul 9 2008, 09:21 AM

13 and younger waaat?

Posted by: CelestialAbyss Jul 20 2008, 10:52 PM

I feel that we take the dea of verginity a little too lightly now. I'm currently a virgin and have had boyfriends in the past who wanted to have sex but I feel that keeping yourself until the time is right is best.

Also, I have friends who aren't virgins and they tell me that ever since they lost theirs, they're been straight horn dogs... and I really don't want that to happen to me.

Posted by: Tracy-14 Jul 20 2008, 11:48 PM

Not yet, I plan on keeping it till im 16.
And its hard, but I still got it.

Posted by: Tomates Aug 4 2008, 02:27 PM

I think i knew someone who lost theirs in 6th - 7th grade
and apparently from my mom they were rumors of kids giving blow jobs in the hallways during 6th-7th grade.
but i think it was at my friends school.
Not positive though

Posted by: aaayotiffany Sep 16 2008, 12:38 PM

i hear stories about 6th-7th graders doing these things in the bathrooms and on the school bus. its disgusting. ugh, they're like twelve.

Posted by: Wereismybelt May 3 2009, 03:17 PM

just wondering

Posted by: Wereismybelt May 3 2009, 03:22 PM

just wondering

Posted by: manny-the-dino May 3 2009, 06:39 PM

Topics Merged

Posted by: DressYourEyelids May 7 2009, 08:16 AM

i lost my virginity two months shy of my 18th birthday.
there have been no regrets as my boyfriend and i had been going out two years before we had & we currently live together as we attend university. it was a well thought-out decision & we definitely didn't rush things.

Posted by: lilxroxy May 30 2009, 07:48 PM

Word, just watch the Sex and the City movie :P

Posted by: Ten21 Jun 19 2009, 06:02 PM

I plan to keep mine untill marriage.
I mean my mom had sex with some random person
who promised to marry her and now he's in new york
with three kids and all she has is me. Lookin
@ that and everything else...i'd rather wait.

Posted by: Beenly Jun 19 2009, 06:32 PM

who wants to take mines, ladies? (;

Posted by: ilovehaterz Jun 23 2009, 03:55 PM

Um, to say someone is desperate for losing their virginity is going to piss A LOT of people off. If you lose your virginity to someone you love, well that's not desperate. But if you lose your virginity to someone you don't even know, well that would possibly be someone "desperate" or maybe insecure...Idk. Just because you have morals, doesn't mean you have to tear everyone else's down. Most people plan on waiting to have sex after their married, but that rarely happens.

Posted by: ilovehaterz Jun 23 2009, 03:56 PM

Exactly, good idea:)

Posted by: Uso Nov 8 2009, 10:09 PM

like Tomates said too with the rumors, its wierd thinking about little 7th and 6th graders doing that cause tbh i wasn't even thinking about crap like that unitl 10th grade


Im still a virgin, tbh i know im not ready and too scared to.

Posted by: jcp Nov 8 2009, 10:29 PM

peer pressure is unbelievably real.
If I wanted to have sex I know a couple girls who I know I could pressure into doing it. thankfully I'd never do that. unfortunately odds are some other nasty guy will come along and pressure them into doing it.

also its like every guy in highschool around here asks every girl he knows to send them n00dz and a lot of them actually do it. what they dont think about is that, that is actually cheese pizza.

Posted by: HiFemaleSeanFeng Dec 24 2009, 09:32 PM

I'd like to save it for the right time. :)

Posted by: prettylicious026 Nov 23 2010, 06:54 AM

my plan of loosing my virginity when i get married!