Case of the Ex, no i'm not falling for him |
Case of the Ex, no i'm not falling for him |
Mar 30 2010, 01:51 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
[Long Story Short]
In my previous relationship, i was with my [now ex] for a little over a year and broke up with him because of him cheating. I moved on and now have a new boyfriend [that i met in college] --mind you, my ex is from home--and have been doing great for the months that i have been with my now-boyfriend. Recently my ex has been contacting me [me of course not replying back]. To be very honest, i wish i could give him a piece of my mind and just spazz on him but i just cant. So many of my girl friends have told me not to and of course my now boyfriend doesnt like the idea (because he is now in the picture) ----- WHAT DO I DO----i am so tempted to text back but.... i just dont know! |
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Mar 30 2010, 01:52 PM
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Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,019 Joined: May 2008 Member No: 653,768 |
throw some ds on that bitch
[kryo] |
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Mar 30 2010, 04:28 PM
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DDR \\ I'm Dee :) Group: Mentor Posts: 8,662 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 384,020 |
It's time for you to move on. If your ex can't stay in contact with you without putting pressure on the relationship, then there's a lack respect for you. If being around him just brings back old feelings, then do yourself and your current boyfriend a favor and stay away from him until you're completely over him. If he respects you he will understand.
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Mar 30 2010, 09:24 PM
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:) Group: Member Posts: 1,234 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 146,496 |
I definitely agree with karmakiller. It's time to move on. He wants what he can't have! Now that you are happy in a relationship, he wants in. Don't let him ruin your current relationship, especially if your boyfriend doesn't want you too.
If you give him a piece of your mind, then he knows he got the best of you. Don't give him that satisfaction. You don't want to stoop to his level. If he's cheated on you once, then there's a possibility he'll do it again. |
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Mar 30 2010, 09:26 PM
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♡♡♡♡♡ Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
I don't think there's any point in "giving him a piece of your mind" when you've already broken up and are in another relationship. I agree with Jessica about not giving him the satisfaction of knowing that he got to you. Forget him and focus on the relationship that you have now.
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Mar 31 2010, 08:37 AM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,665 Joined: Aug 2008 Member No: 676,364 |
have you seen that show called " The X Effect"
YOU SHOULD WATCH IT :) |
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Apr 14 2010, 11:49 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
Thanks guys....well to update, i talked to my mom about it (because i am under her cell phone bill--family plan) and she agreed to block his number...no more phone/text message :-)
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