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 Apr 27 2010, 04:13 PM
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So, theres this cute girl, I like her, and I'm getting the impression she likes me. She only has a facebook, and we are both on at the same time at least once a day. What I'm wondering is how much talking is to much when you're just starting to get to know eachother?
We've talked or seen eachother every day for a while now. I was gonna go today without talking to her, just cause I didn't want to seem pushy or anything, but she started talking to me. Of course I'll see her every chance I get irl though. I just don't wanna talk about anything other than casual conversation online, but we don't get that many chances to see eachother and not that many chances when her friends aren't around. So what do? She sending out some pretty strong signals but I could be wrong, cause it's happened with girls in her circle before. |
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Apr 27 2010, 05:15 PM
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 Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 |
I would maybe ask her to something simple like to lunch and try to get a better feel for where shes at on the "like" scale.
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Apr 27 2010, 08:25 PM
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Just go with the flow. Watch out though, she could be a psycho.
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Apr 27 2010, 09:25 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Designer Posts: 5,880 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,382 |
Hmmm, if it was up to me I would talk to her all I can. I just don't want to look like I'm being pushy. I'd rather take it easy and make her want me more.
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Apr 27 2010, 10:27 PM
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 /人◕‿‿◕人\ Group: Official Member Posts: 8,283 Joined: Dec 2007 Member No: 602,927 |
stick it in her pooper
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Apr 28 2010, 02:34 PM
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 Sarcastic Mr. Know-It-All Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 29 |
Propel across a ballistic trajectory a moderate quantity of the fourth letter of the alphabet on that young lady with a poor attitude
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Apr 28 2010, 05:22 PM
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 I'm Jc Group: Mentor Posts: 13,619 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,556 |
you shouldn't even waste your time wondering. there is a 99% chance whatever you do will be wrong. if you talk to her too much, she will think you're pushy. if you take it too easy, she will decide you are not interested enough and trash talk you to all her friends about how you are stupid and slow and can't read between the lines. CAUSE SHE'S A WOMAN.
you should attempt to be in the middle |
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Apr 28 2010, 05:28 PM
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QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Apr 28 2010, 05:22 PM)  you shouldn't even waste your time wondering. there is a 99% chance whatever you do will be wrong. if you talk to her too much, she will think you're pushy. if you take it too easy, she will decide you are not interested enough and trash talk you to all her friends about how you are stupid and slow and can't read between the lines. CAUSE SHE'S A WOMAN. you should attempt to be in the middle K, that's what I'm trying to do. I think it's going well. Now I just need to figure out if she's just being friendly or likes me. Shes giving off that kind of vibe like she would be more casual if she just wanted to be friends. edit. Wo, I'm really starting to get the impression she likes me. But Imma take it real slow. I ain't got nothing to rush. |
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Apr 30 2010, 08:22 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Designer Posts: 5,880 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,382 |
So now I'm stuck. I don't know if she thinks I don't like her and shes anoyying me so she's not talking to me or she just doesn't like me or if I'm just paranoid and all this has happened in a short period of time anyways.
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Apr 30 2010, 08:47 PM
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You're just paranoid.
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May 1 2010, 04:49 AM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
does she live around you or go to your school? or you just met her online? -___-
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May 1 2010, 03:13 PM
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QUOTE(LittleMissSunshine @ May 1 2010, 04:49 AM) does she live around you or go to your school? or you just met her online? -___- We go to school together. My friend told me that they were talking and she has a hunch I like her. I don't think that's good. I just wanna be friends for now even though I do like her. How can I make her think I just wanna be friends? |
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May 2 2010, 10:02 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
why would you want to be friends with her, if she likes you and you like her? if you be friends with her now, wouldn't it be expected for her to get the sign and she finds another guy to like upon?
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May 2 2010, 10:32 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
wait. i thought you were gay.
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May 4 2010, 04:16 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Designer Posts: 5,880 Joined: Nov 2007 Member No: 593,382 |
QUOTE(LittleMissSunshine @ May 2 2010, 10:02 PM) why would you want to be friends with her, if she likes you and you like her? if you be friends with her now, wouldn't it be expected for her to get the sign and she finds another guy to like upon? Good point. But it still hasn't been that long and I'd rather be friends than try and be more and ruin what we have. QUOTE(misoshiru @ May 2 2010, 10:32 PM) wait. i thought you were gay. How'd you know? |
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May 22 2010, 01:11 AM
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just be straight up; tell her you like her
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