Change of the degree of attraction, according to change of appearance |
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 Jan 24 2005, 06:29 PM
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do you change the degree of attraction toward anyone when they change their appearances?
For example, my crush, he cut his hair, and i am not as attracted to him anymore. Or, this acquaintance at school who got his hair highlighted, i find him more attractive but i don't like him because i still have the image of his old self in my brain. (yes this topic contains extreme shallowness, but go look through all the topics in girls/boy's locker) Do you change your degree of attraction in similar situations? |
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Jan 24 2005, 07:02 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
sometimes. but if i like someone, i am usually drawn into them because of their looks but then i get to know them and figure out that looks don't matter. because we don't want to go out with someone that we think are is ugly. but after a while, you begin to like them for them, not looks.
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Jan 24 2005, 07:20 PM
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of course...its our reaction that just makes us either hate the person, disklike them ina way, or like them...[[like if a geek turn into a hot guy..never happened]]
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Jan 24 2005, 07:23 PM
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depends on who and what
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Jan 24 2005, 07:30 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
sometimes, i guess. but yeah, it depends on who
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Jan 24 2005, 07:55 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
yeah, i guess. depends really. cause like, if its some drastic change, its a big shift in appearance in ur mind. cause appearance is usually the first thing someone remembers when they meet someone.
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Jan 24 2005, 08:05 PM
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yeah it really depends...
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Jan 24 2005, 08:28 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
I'm like that sometimes. it really depends who i'm with & such.
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Jan 24 2005, 08:38 PM
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 i cannot say that it's never happened to me |
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Jan 24 2005, 09:51 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
sometimes...depends on the person though.
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Jan 24 2005, 09:53 PM
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wow..that is the longest question i have seen in CB...3 lines used
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Jan 24 2005, 10:55 PM
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yes im extremely shallow
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Jan 25 2005, 12:36 AM
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i think it depends on how he changed.. was it for the better? or for the worse. and i admit, looks are important to me but not above other factors like intelligence and how much he cares about me...
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Jan 28 2005, 07:54 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
yeah... i change the way i like someone by their apperance with a crush...
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Jan 29 2005, 12:31 AM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
im gona go with what everyone said. depends.
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Jan 29 2005, 01:31 AM
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 Change Gon Come Group: Member Posts: 2,286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,822 |
My girlfriend, of a little over 10 months, recently got her braces off(yay!). My feelings didnt reallly change either way. i still felt the same, but that's after 10 months..
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Jan 29 2005, 10:14 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
possibly...it hasnt happened to me yet.
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Jan 29 2005, 10:22 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 63 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,783 |
the two guys i really like is because of their personality, they're really not that hot but umm sometimes it depends.
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Jan 29 2005, 06:16 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
Yes, depends.
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Jan 29 2005, 08:50 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
it also depends coz what if they have a really nice personality...
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Jan 30 2005, 06:53 PM
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 free hugs Group: Member Posts: 188 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,202 |
now that i think about it i kinda do, when a guy gets a haircut and looks better i like him more, if he looks worse then i like him less. shallow, i know.
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