Is it wrong for a 14 year old to have sex?, -poll- Options

[fanny562]

IN MY OPION I THINK ITS YES BECAUSE AS SOME GIRLS SHOULD KNOW[IF THEY DON']OUR BODY AT AGE 14 ISN'T REALY FINISHED DEVOLPING[OR IN SHORT HASEN'T FINISH GROWING TO ADULTS] SO IF A 14 YEAR OLD WOULD TO HAVE SEX HER BABY WOULD BE LYK A 5O/50 CHANCE THE BABY WELL BE DEFORM/MENTAL

WELL IM JUST SAYING SO DON'T BE TAKING IT TO THE HEAD OK

[LadyXTor]

IN MY OPION I THINK ITS YES BECAUSE AS SOME GIRLS SHOULD KNOW[IF THEY DON']OUR BODY AT AGE 14 ISN'T REALY FINISHED DEVOLPING[OR IN SHORT HASEN'T FINISH GROWING TO ADULTS] SO IF A 14 YEAR OLD WOULD TO HAVE SEX HER BABY WOULD BE LYK A 5O/50 CHANCE THE BABY WELL BE DEFORM/MENTAL

WELL IM JUST SAYING SO DON'T BE TAKING IT TO THE HEAD OK

From what I understood in your post (which was hard by the way), I agree. At fourteen year old, you're just beginning to hit puberty, yet you feel you're old enough to have sex? I don't know.

[brooklyneast05]

14 year olds are not old enough to have sex
and i don't see how anyone over 14 could possibly think it's ok

[reeenana]

^^ AGREED

14 is way too young

[Peanups]

14 year olds are not old enough to have sex
and i don't see how anyone over 14 could possibly think it's ok

Thank God some one agrees.

Yes, the whole puberty thing,
and just everything

it's way to young

[jesusisthebestth...]

I know that I shouldn't judge, but I find it a little disturbing that any 14 year old is having sex. I just wonder what type of society we will have in generations to come with 14 year olds engaging in accepted, pre marital sex. I mean, how will they raise their children? I don't find it to be beneficial to society, but then again, what the hell do I know about what benefits society?

[xFaith]

I personally think that a 14 year old is way to young for that. And the girls that do have sex on their 14, are mostly.. the slutty type (no offence)

But if you know your ready, just do it

[x_curse_of_the_c...]

And you say that because you ARE 14 and you've had sex, and you feel the need to reassure yourself it wasn't a mistake? If that's true, it's disgusting. You're still a kid.

uhh no im a virgin.

[salkamat]

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[arghrawr]

Who am I to say it's wrong?
I wouldn't feel right having sex when I'm this young, but that's just me. It may be right for someone else.
For the most part, I think it's a serious mistake for someone my age to have sex. Girls especially can be emotionally damaged at such a confusing stage of life.

[KayleighKins]

Sex isn't for children, nuff said.

[luku]

I said Yes, it is wrong because most girls at that age are not prepared to handle the emotions or the psychological stress that come with losing your virginity. This amoung other reasons, is why 14 year old should not have sex.

[GirlKissesGirl]

Man, I don't approve. I don't think girls fourteen and bellow should have sex. But it's up to them. It's their risk. So whatever.

[LittleMissSunshi...]

i say yes! i am 14, and i believe it is wrong. it is too young, i think sex should be something your willing to do with a long life partner. i still say sex you should do after you get married. i don't know that is just me. some like to get out of pleasure, but if they wanna deal with the consequences then go right ahead.

[ClaudelGFX]

the boy can go to jail >.>

[Loserfacex3]

I don't think it's wrong personally. If you feel ready to have sex, and you go about it in a responsible way, then I think it's fine. It's when people, we have a few of them in my area, have sex with anybody they can, unprotected and frequently, that people should worry. It's not peoples age that makes the difference, it's how people go about it. :]

That's just my opinion though. >_>
<_<

[Loserfacex3]

i personally say, til marriage, that's how you know the guy really loves you if he'll wait.

Some people might not want to get married. :] I know I don't. :P For reasons of my own. :] But yeah... Just thought I'd add that.

[Amaranthus]

I personally don't think its such a problem, seeing as though its been done many times before in history. People are entitled to their opinions, and to me personally it doesnt bother me. But on the other hand, I have no interest in hearing about it nor seeing it (PDA), and I certainly dont wanna hear complaints about how much of a mistake it was: own up to it, I say.

[joanime]

14 is too young!

i mean some ppl might be ready, m+p, but what if something goes wrong? i dont think a 14 year old is ready for that

[theRegalDance]

Vote; YES. Being 14 Y/O = KID!!

Question yourself - Is it love or just your hunger for pleasure (Lust)? - I know this feeling.

Being a 14 year old, girls are still undeveloped! Looking back at the reasons why you've done such actions - ITS MEANINGLESS, DUMB AND REGRETFUL... it REALLY makes you feel worthless and astray. How can you bear to say when your 25 "I Lost my virginity at 14" and feel like it wasn't an act of lust?

Where did morals go? Go have a one on one with your mom.
~Dang, I know I learned well :]]

<< I : soon to be 14 Years of Age >>

[jue]

I think that's too young to have sex..for me at least. But then again, I'm not them. I guess it's up to the person. If they feel they're ready then they should go for it.

[MissFits]

Age is a only number, although it usually reflects the experiences a person has had in their life and what they have taken from it.
I think when to have sex depends on both of the people and their mental age, their devotion to each other, and their readiness to have a baby.

That said. I personally don't think anyone should even know HOW to have sex at 14, let alone engage in it. I have seen too many young kids having babies.
I think you should just wait. At least two years (hopefully longer) if it's really love it can wait.

[ernestprongs]

I think its just disgusting.

Honestly, what does a 14 year old know about love?

[SimplyMary]

Most people at 14 are really immature.
I can not figure out how kids are having sex...
I think, this can really cause a kind of psycho trauma.

But in my country that's quite normal and almost nobody takes it as a serious problem(

[ernestprongs]

I'm with you 100%.

People who say 14-year-old kids having sex is normal... You're going to make horrible parents. Good luck!

I couldn't agree more.

Took the words right out of my fingertips.