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 May 30 2007, 05:47 PM
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ok so i have a few problems, well alot, anyways there are these 2 buys that i like (they have the same name so i will call one bob and the other by his name, brandon) ok so brandon, hes my ex, we went out 2 times and i started liking him again but we broke up 2 years ago and i told him i liked him nad we hung out for a few hours it was kinda boring, but some of the time was fun, he was making me laugh and everything, we talked about everything together, but the day after we hung out he told me he had a new girlfriend and i didnt know what to think so i just thought me and him werent meant to be or he didnt like me or something, so i tried to get over him, but i didnt, me and him are still friends though so i thought maybe me and him could get really close and maybe when him and his girlfriend break up, me and him can be together. But now there is this guy at my school, bob, and i knew him for maybe 3 or 43 weeks now?!, something around there and i started liking him and i think he likes me but im not sure, i mean we played fight, hes always playing in my hair, and so on so i thought 'maybe he does like me' and now im sitting here wornding whats going to happen next, and who do i like more, i dont know, this is the part where i need help at, so.... what should i do?, HELP!
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May 30 2007, 06:00 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
Ummm why is this even a problem? Go for the guy who doesn't have a girlfriend. Stop wasting your time pining for your ex, who obviously doesn't seem to have the same feelings for you. Test out the waters with "Bob".
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May 30 2007, 08:58 PM
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Don't even bother with the ex. It failed twice before. Bob should be better. He seems interested... unless he's just gay or bi and stuff... I've had that happen where I thought the guy was flirting with me and he liked me and when I asked him out he laughed and revealed that he was gay and so we laughed about it but yeah...
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May 31 2007, 05:48 PM
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rdoggydog!
welcome to cb.  anyway. um. don't wait on "bob." i agree with the above. he f**ked up and had his chance two times before, and now he's just like, messing around with other girls.  give the new brandon a chance. =] you know like, 3 brandon's.
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May 31 2007, 05:51 PM
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I say go with Bob. Give him a chance, don`t hesitate`. :D Brandon had his chance, so don`t bother. o.O
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May 31 2007, 05:53 PM
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i would go with 'bob' but the thing is i dont know if he likes me and im scared to ask him if he does because i dont want to be wrong and i dont want him to say he doesnt like me or hes gay or something....
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May 31 2007, 05:56 PM
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Maybe you should just straight up ask him.
Or you could get to know him more and get a bit closer before taking another step. Your choice =) |
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May 31 2007, 06:03 PM
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well like hes been firting with me but i dont know if hes doing because he knows i like him and hes nice so... yea... and me and him are kinda close but i wouldnt really say we are, maybei should get to know him better before i ask him anything
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May 31 2007, 06:07 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 310 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 489,303 |
Good luck(:
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May 31 2007, 06:19 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 844 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 362,677 |
you can do eet!
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May 31 2007, 08:04 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(rdogg549 @ May 31 2007, 04:03 PM)  well like hes been firting with me but i dont know if hes doing because he knows i like him and hes nice so... yea... and me and him are kinda close but i wouldnt really say we are, maybei should get to know him better before i ask him anything Thats the best choice. Obviously don't jump the gun and just try to get to know him more before you make a move. |
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Jun 1 2007, 12:17 AM
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I agree with Rachel, also it wouldn't hurt to see how he acts around other people... does he flirt with other girls, or just you? I'm not saying stalk him or anything, just see if you can get some idea. It's another good way to get to know someone, see how they interact with others, and not just yourself.
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Jun 3 2007, 01:22 PM
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well i already found out that he only flirts with me but alot of his friends are girls so i dont know, like he doesnt flirt with then but is that something i should worry about?
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