Could there be more to your best guy/girl friend?, Are you sure you're just "friends". |
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| *JoanOfArc* |
 May 29 2007, 11:16 PM
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Whether we have one or not, a best girl or guy friend exists in everyone's life. For those of you who have best friends of the opposite sex, you'd find it to be a stupid question: can you have a best friend of the opposite sex without REALLY feeling something for them? Think about it. I mean, sure, you're first thought is "NO WAY! They're like my sister from another mister/brother from another mother!" but is there something there that you don't wanna admit?
Now that I think about it, there are some features in my best guy friend that I wish were in a potential boyfriend. 
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| *StanleyThePanda* |
May 29 2007, 11:19 PM
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My current guy best friend, I do have feelings for. It kind of sucks.
But he knows. heh. I do think its possible to be best friends with someone (of the opposite sex) and not have feelings for them. Like my friends Nigel and Jo, I've never had feelings for them. And I am/was really close to both of them. So yeah. |
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May 29 2007, 11:31 PM
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I think it's definitely possible for there to be no feelings between the two, but for others, some feelings can likely happen between one or the other at some point, whether the other person knows or not.
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May 29 2007, 11:56 PM
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i'm so bored. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 1,261 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 473,614 |
There's always a possibility. A lot of qualities in your best friend are usually in the "someone" you're looking for. I find this funny, but usually you start liking your best friend is when you start thinking about the 'possibilities' a lot more than you probably should...
< Experienced. Hahah. |
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May 30 2007, 12:14 AM
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t-t-t-toyaaa Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
I don't talk to my best guy friend much anymore, but there were sometimes I thought I was falling for him because I thought about him and what he did a lot. Especially since I played a major role in his life.
Funny thing is when you think about you and them being together its like ew. So I really think stuff like that is possible. |
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| *stephinika* |
May 30 2007, 12:18 AM
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It happened to me once. I think it depends on the people, but I believe its more likely than not to happen at some point, whether one acts on the feeling or not.
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May 30 2007, 12:42 PM
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I know he liked me for a long time, but I never felt the same about him. I don't know if he still does or not.
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