i am gay. what do i do ?, plaze help |
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 Mar 27 2005, 08:49 AM
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All my frends like gils and wen i go to one of their houses wen look at "magazines" and they r always getting hard and i just have to pretend i do :( wat do i do !
From tim ! |
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Mar 27 2005, 09:24 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
get new friends? don't go to their houses?
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Mar 27 2005, 10:01 AM
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Do they know you're gay?
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Mar 27 2005, 12:57 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
uhh, you should tell them you're gay, you shouldn't hide your sexuality
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Mar 27 2005, 01:01 PM
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QUOTE(swe3ttemptasian @ Mar 27 2005, 10:57 AM) uhh, you should tell them you're gay, you shouldn't hide your sexuality  I agree, but the downfall is that your "friends" might become homophobic of you and your secret of you being gay would come out and eventually reach your parents. Unless your parents do not know about it. But if they really are your friends, they were your friend because of who you are, I mean, if they started to not like you anymore because of you sexuality, then they really aren't friends, are they? |
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Mar 27 2005, 01:10 PM
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 白人看不懂 !!!! Group: Member Posts: 3,838 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,824 |
My man,
It's time to have a good soul searching trip AKA walk to the park and feed the duckies and reflect on life. I'm sure just coming out is freekin rediculous to do, so why bother saying that? It would be the SIMPLEST solution, but the hardest. So the thing you can do now is soul search and reflect on your own life. Then accept it and come out. |
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Mar 27 2005, 01:26 PM
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yerp! Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
You go out, buy a couple of cans of fluffy whip, three male strippers and have yourself a party.
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| *nightmare4taki* |
Mar 27 2005, 01:28 PM
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^Thats just digusting!!!!!!!
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| *mzkandi* |
Mar 27 2005, 01:29 PM
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dont do to their house if you dont want to be put in that awkard postion and if they dont know that your gay you may eventually have to tell them
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Mar 27 2005, 01:39 PM
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 Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
tell, them, find out which of them are really your friends, and those who are will accomodate you
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Mar 27 2005, 01:53 PM
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yerp! Group: Member Posts: 3,489 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,454 |
QUOTE(nightmare4taki @ Mar 27 2005, 1:28 PM) ^Thats just digusting!!!!!!! Chill out. It was a joke. 
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Mar 27 2005, 01:59 PM
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telling your sexuality gives you relief but...some people just won't understand and will just judge you
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Mar 27 2005, 02:05 PM
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 This is all my luck, it's all I got. Group: Member Posts: 1,373 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,532 |
I think you should come out. They should understand. If they dont try to find new friends. I hope everything works out.
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Mar 27 2005, 02:12 PM
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[FONT=Arial][SIZE=1] this is probably easier said than done, but u shouldnt be ashamed of being gay, u should just like tell them straight up, and if they think its weird, then they're not good friends
attached image unnecessary and wayyy too big! -Frankie This post has been edited by Frankie: May 24 2005, 12:42 PM |
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| *mzkandi* |
Mar 27 2005, 02:17 PM
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^^^um resize the pic
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Mar 27 2005, 02:17 PM
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 ¢¾ Wanting it. ¢¾ Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
^ resize that.
i think you should just let it out. no one should be ashmed of their sexual oriention. |
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Mar 27 2005, 02:43 PM
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 Can't have the hand without the cock. Group: Member Posts: 2,481 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,622 |
^yeah i agree.
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Mar 27 2005, 02:47 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
QUOTE([f]eleeza @ Mar 27 2005, 1:26 PM) You go out, buy a couple of cans of fluffy whip, three male strippers and have yourself a party. Rofl. That made me laugh. Fluffy whip and three male strippers. Lmao. If you tell them you're gay, they might freak out because of all those times they look at those magazines. They're straight. You're gay. They just might freak out and spread the news. Unless, if they're REALLY good friends, then they won't do it, but mostly, people end up spreading the news. T_T |
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Mar 27 2005, 02:53 PM
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get new friends.
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Apr 1 2005, 04:37 AM
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 come and get me! Group: Member Posts: 190 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,600 |
well tell them who you really are... they are your real friends when they understand and accept you but if they dont... well find new friends who will accept you for who you are..
iam lyk you but then i have straight guy best friends, they accept me for who iam... 
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| *paul murphy* |
Apr 1 2005, 07:02 AM
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How about... GOING STRAIGHT! Lol. Just kidding. If u swing that way I don't really care but I don'tr think tellin ur friends that u're gay would work. Plus... can I have some of those magazines? Just kidding. Go to a physciatrist or something and find out why you are gay... it might be a phase
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| *Weird addiction* |
Apr 1 2005, 07:06 AM
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Tell them you are gay and if they dont accept you, get new friends that will, or look for gay friends. Its not going to be easy. My half brother is gay and he doesnt have a straight friend, all his friends are gay.
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Apr 1 2005, 07:58 AM
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 xxtaintedlips Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,998 |
i think it may freek them out at first..
most of my friends are bisexual and when i found this out i was a lil wierded out cuz..they kinda liked me so...just feel as you go ....if it seems like they are your true friends tell them...or you can call a hot line and ask them for help |
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| *wind&fire* |
Apr 1 2005, 08:39 AM
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QUOTE(DaTru KataLYST @ Mar 28 2005, 4:10 AM) My man, i think hes putting first dibs on you when you come out... wow... you first boyfriend!!!!! i think your friends may already know if all your friends are girls and you read their magazines |
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Apr 1 2005, 08:44 AM
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At the moment i have a friend that just came out of the closet.. well maybe 2 months ago. All his friends were guys. Not only he gained lots of girl friends by coming out his friends accepted him. I guess his friends had a clue on how he acted.. I love him tho he's my best friend he's liked by many. I mean SOMETIMES (rarely) Ppl would call him a fag pretty sad but his friends got his back.
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