parents drinking?, when is this just a bad idea Options

[coolbutstressed]

this week i went to camp with my dads family. he decided to let me do what i wanted and i met up with some kids from school. he got totaly smashed and when he found out that i didtn tell him where i was going he flifed and drove way over the speed limmint to the sight i was at. he made me get in the car and was speedign again i was so scared i jumped out because he was drunk. he slamed hte brakes adn got out. screamign he threw me into the truck smaked me and pushed. someone broke it up and i walked back to camp fought some more secerity broke it up again. then i got my stuff and went to the entrence my mom was gunna pick me up. my frends came and got me almost calmed down when my dad showed up. he threatened one of my friends and when he swung at the other he hit me. i screamed at him to stop adn he woudnt go away he fought with me adn i told him to bit me he was drunk. adn then he said he woul knock me out... i said hit me i dare you ill put your ass in jail in a moment so f*ckign hit me and then he swung and clocked me and then someone broke it up and he acted like it was nothgn then when secerity went away he swung at my friend again and i was crying so bad but he wouldnt stop then my mom finaly showed up. and he fought with her... idk what to do. im heart broken he hit me adn i hate him. he is dead to me... for life. in my opinion parents shouldnt get smashed when they are the adults in charge.

[Sandraaa]

I get where you're coming from. My dad has hit me when he was drunk. Took a knife and almost stabbed me (not drunk) and loads of shit like that. So yeah, my dad is dead to me.

Thing is in your case, I hope this is the first time this happened. Talk to your dad (when he's cooled down). And keep your distance. Let him know how you feel. If this is the first time it happened, you might still be able to have a relationship with him. But let him know how hurt you were / are because of his drinking.

I wish you good luck from the bottom of my heart. Truly.