What to do..., when your "fiance" doesnt want to marry you? Options

[Stuckie]

Some of you may know that Im in the army and in Iraq at the moment. But the issue is kinda... yeah. I knew this girl for about 3 years or so. We've been on again off again for all of it. Mostly because of my field of work (A soldier). But I got stationed in Germany around mid July last year, so every time we talked was over the internet. MySpace to be exact. After a few months of messaging and liquor, I proposed to her. Over MySpace. I know its not classy, but I was drunk. And she accepted. So we're still communicating over the internet, and a week before Valentine's Day, I order a bouqet of lilies and a box of chocolate to get sent to her house. The next day I called her to tell her I sent her a gift for Valentine's Day. She told me I shouldn't have done that, because her boyfriend would get upset. So I hang up the phone and try to gather what just happened. I guess its not so much a question, as its more me venting to other random people for feedback. Any comments?

[Stuckie]

Yeah. I guess you're right. But I knew this girl for years. And she knew I couldnt propose in a romantic setting. We were together at the time. She pretty much dumped me and didnt tell me about it. And thats not what really got me mad. What Im really pissed is I bought a $2000 dollar engagement ring. She "dumped" me 1 month and a half before I bought it. That b*tch should have told me the deal before hand. I cant get money back because it was personalized. F*ck it. Charlie Mike. More fish in the sea.