A cinderella story that was never there., should I brake up with her now Options

[gr00vyswordsman]

Ive been thinking about this for awhile, and really appreciate your alls thoughts. If your in a relationship, or were in one, What would you want to happen? I thank you all cb who are reading! I do have some feelings for her still, though in the end we don't really work together ( some differences in personality and hobbies that just dont fit and will never....fit)

Let's say you were in a relationship and your boyfriend had to move to a new state for some months. Believing your boyfriend still loves and wants to continue the relationship, you bought flight tickets to see/spend time your man for 3 days, and the last time you saw each other was 3 months ago.. Though in reality, he would have the relationship aspect not coninue.

Though he still would like to be friends with her, she may be hurt too much and not wanna accept his friendship. Would you rather have the relationship aspect stop before or soon after the visit? ( keep in mind already that she already bought flight tickets).

[alysaphobia]

yes, i think it'd still be bad to tell her after the visit.
her flying out to see you is a pretty big deal. it's the first time you guys have seen each other in 3 months. you don't really want to make her feel like "the whole time i was visiting him he was only pretending he still wanted a relationship with me!"
it's a tough situation, but breaking it off before she visits you for the first time in a while would probably be wise.

good luck