Girls,I need advice, GIrls always know what to do,so help? Options

[sukixinaxmou]

Erik and I have been dating for 21 days.That is all.And he and I think we really love eachother.I'm not quite sure about my feelings for him,and I don't know if he is just trying to get in my pants.But,most of the time,he really does seem very respectful,and he does make it seem like he really does love me.I'm 13,and he's 15.And I am always wondering if I really love him like I say I do.So I don't know what to do.And,on top of that,he is a fifteen year old guy,and God only knows what the plans in his head are.But last night,he mentioned to me he wnted to marry me,but we are too young.But he then said after that that we are not too young to get engaged.I have had people tell me that I need to get my prioritys straight,and focus more on school.But I really don't know what to do.I need to clear my head.

[AllyWally00]

Don't be in a rush to get enaged my love. Your only 13 and he is only 15. And you've only been dating for 21 days. Yeah you might like him or love him alot but your still got your whole teen years ahead of you. Don't be in a rush to jump into something you may end up regreting. I am 19 years old and their was this guy I dated in high school. His name was Robert. We where together for about 2 years and a half and well we wouldn't have been in more love with each other. We weren't your typical high school relationship. Our connect was so much deeper then about sex. Which nowadays is the typical high school relationship is all about sex. Their is a rule most woman follow by it's called the 3 month rule. Don't do anything sexual and don't rush anything to fast, don't tell a guy you love him before then and you'll save yourself from alot of pain in the end. A guy may promise you the world and that he will love you forever. But just remember that promise isn't always true. Now til this day me and robert aren't together but I know deep down in each others hearts we'll always truly honestly love each other but we can't be together. We've both changed and we've both grown apart. We tried to hold onto something that wasn't their anymore and fell apart on it's own. Just remember don't do something you'll end up regreting. You may say that now that you wont. But honestly think about it this way. If you where really inlove with him you wouldn't have to go around asking other people for advice or their thoughts on the subject, if you really wanted to get engaged you wouldn't lisen to anyones elses words and you would let it happen on it's own and support yourself threw everything. If you honestly truly love someone and they will love you. They will honestly wait for you for as long as it takes. Your just at the begingings of a new relationship, you two truly don't know each other yet. My ex-boyfriend chris when i was 14 said the same words. And now adays I don't even really remember much about him.