whats your opinion??, long distance?? Options

[icecoldtears1234]

well, recently all of my relationships have happened to be long distance, what do you think of long distance relationships?? do they work or not....

[*This Confession*]

Yes, i think long distance relationships can last...and do work..


For some, they work out very well. For others, they can be difficult and disappointing. The most important criteria is that both people must be completely committed to the relationship, and they must trust each other. If one person isn't committed, they may be easily distracted by other people. And if the people don't trust each other, they're likely to fight often about what one person did or didn't do with so-and-so at the party last night.

as well as..

Think about it: When you're a few hundred miles apart, you can't see each other that often. So what do you do? You talk to each other! Get on the internet, pick up that phone, write a letter or email. It's all communication. If you never have anything to talk about, you will NOT survive a long-distance relationship. All you can do is talk; so if you can't talk, your relationship is officially on hold!

Of course, to make long-distance love successful, you must also have honesty, trust, and dedication. It's very difficult not to be able to see your love very often, so you must make sure neither of you has a wandering eye - or worse, wandering interest. If you know you'll be tempted by Mr. or Ms. Right-here-right-now, as opposed to wanting to wait for the person you really love, do NOT try for long-distance love! You'll never make it. It's obvious that you both must be willing to wait until you can be together, and that you both must truly love each other. You have to be dedicated to such a difficult relationship because you love each other, despite the situation.