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 Apr 22 2006, 05:05 PM
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Hi,
I have been dating my girlfriend for about 3 1/2 months. We met at a party last year and have been inseperable ever since. We started out as best friends and it escalated from there. About a month ago, she told me she had feelings for another guy. We talked, and those feelings went away within a week. Now I am always insecure about our relationship and am constantly worried she will leave me for him. She has explained many times that she loves me, but I still get weird when she talks about him. I love her so much and dont want her to leave me because of my insecurity. Does anyone know how I can get over my insecurity? |
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Apr 22 2006, 11:05 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
Just keep in mind that she's with you, not him. She tells you she loves you and she admitted it to you. There's no need to worry. She won't just leave you out of the blue. I'm not sure if it's reassuring but at least you'll get a warning.
Relationships are built with trust and honesty among many other things. She was honest and upfont with you, you kind of owe it to her to trust her. It's not going to help your relationship at all if you dwell on the past. |
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Trumpetman4eva Please Help Apr 22 2006, 05:05 PM
eunie03 If she has feelings for another person, isn't ... Apr 22 2006, 05:13 PM _sarcastic_ maybe you should just let her go
she can tell you ... Apr 22 2006, 06:38 PM pinayprincess you have to trust her Apr 22 2006, 08:59 PM anoniez I'm very impressed she was so honest and up fr... Apr 22 2006, 11:09 PM oOKittyKatOo i think you should trust your gf.. she had enough ... Apr 23 2006, 12:00 AM Trumpetman4eva thanks guys. she keeps sending me mixed signals. w... Apr 23 2006, 12:27 PM _sarcastic_ ^talk to her Apr 23 2006, 08:29 PM My Cinderella. I've had a similar problem like this with my b... Apr 23 2006, 10:00 PM
Trumpetman4eva thanks guys. i am going to sit her down today and ... Apr 24 2006, 09:02 AM |
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