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how many of you never, had a boyfriend/girlfriend
Anonymous82
post Sep 22 2005, 11:33 PM
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(how do you create a poll???) I was just wondering how many of you never had a boyfriend or girlfriend before.. I'm 19 and I never had girlfriend before and I don't think I'll be able to find one until I'm 22 or something =[
 
 
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SimplicityGirl
post Sep 23 2005, 06:52 PM
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Why are you stressing over the fact that you don't have a girlfriend? Enjoy being single! Being involved in a relationship isn't all that it's made out to be...relations are complicated, and you can get hurt in the process. Being single doesn't bind you to anything, and you're pretty much free to do whatever you please. Having a boyfriend/girlfriend can be a distraction and it is very time consuming.

To answer your question, yes, I've had a boyfriend before, but that was probably about the dumbest thing I've done, and up to this day, I'd rather not have gone through the whole experience then to have gone through it. That was when I was 16, and I never really considered that to be a real boyfriend/girlfriend relationship anyway. My grades dropped because of that, and after we broke up, I was down for a fairly long time...and I'd rather not know what having a boyfriend was like if I was going to have my heart ripped to shreds.

The right girl will come for you eventually, and meanwhile, just be yourself, and wait. You can also increase your chances by hanging out with girls more often and talking to them. But remember, if you rush it, it will not work out, and I know because that was what happened to me and my ex.
 

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samsam5886   how many of you never   Sep 22 2005, 11:33 PM
Chii   i retract my original post you horrible, lying ass   Sep 22 2005, 11:35 PM
Spiritual Winged Aura   i never have one and i'm not getting one.   Sep 22 2005, 11:39 PM
silver rain   I'm sure you'll find one. Don't worry ...   Sep 22 2005, 11:47 PM
L!ckitySplit   wow, 19? you'll get one...if you try   Sep 22 2005, 11:49 PM
mipadi   Don't feel bad, man, at your age, it's pro...   Sep 23 2005, 12:41 AM
angel_revelation   i'm 14... never had one. i've never even...   Sep 23 2005, 12:45 AM
maypig   im 18 and i never had a bf. but i think he'll ...   Sep 23 2005, 01:55 AM
anubis   think about it. wouldn't you rather have not ...   Sep 23 2005, 03:10 AM
samsam5886   QUOTE(anubis @ Sep 23 2005, 12:10 AM)think ab...   Sep 23 2005, 04:17 PM
sheepy   QUOTE(anubis @ Sep 23 2005, 4:10 AM)think abo...   Sep 25 2005, 02:57 PM
teeners__15   well right now my current boyfriend is my first bo...   Sep 23 2005, 03:42 AM
K!$$   ^ Congrats! I'm in my first relationship ...   Sep 23 2005, 04:14 AM
Cake.   ME. But I'm 14. I'm probably not gonna get...   Sep 23 2005, 04:57 PM
BrokenDream   Don't feel bad. I haven't had a boyfriend ...   Sep 23 2005, 05:12 PM
SimplicityGirl   Why are you stressing over the fact that you don...   Sep 23 2005, 06:52 PM
x3Death.By.Knife.   </3 *sighs* I'm 13, and I was asked out [a...   Sep 24 2005, 01:32 PM
ermfermoo   ELIAR ALERT In the longest relationship thread: ...   Sep 24 2005, 03:08 PM
salcha   OUCH. u just got   Sep 24 2005, 10:03 PM
BOLIN_Vee   i have one. theres a a somone for everybody. m...   Sep 24 2005, 11:39 PM
gigiopolis   Listen to Ariel, everyone! :o   Sep 24 2005, 11:46 PM
BrokenDream   i was, er, asked out last year, but i said no beca...   Sep 25 2005, 02:27 AM
K!$$   ermfermoo, thank you for your warning.   Sep 25 2005, 09:51 AM
REBELnDISGUISE   I'm 14 and I've dated many people.   Sep 25 2005, 01:38 PM
hall0w   im 12 and dont have one   Sep 25 2005, 02:46 PM
sm0kinm0nky   I never had a girlfriend in my life. It's funn...   Sep 25 2005, 05:23 PM
Blue-Chan   Um... I've had a boyfriend before. But I wonde...   Sep 25 2005, 11:50 PM
azn_at_heart   with a g. and i never had one but its cause im ver...   Sep 26 2005, 12:00 AM
FREEcandies   I've had 3 relationships, starting from 9th gr...   Sep 26 2005, 11:51 AM


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