this guy..., advice please Options

[quirky]

so theres this guy i like named jake. we met during some volunteering thing. we go to different schools. but we are both in the same volunteering club that meets twice a month. so jake and i met, and we really clicked. i liked him sooo much, and i always asked to hang out with him like, going to the mall together and stuff. one day, we were talking, and i found out he really liked me too. so this was GREAT! we both liked each other alot. but then he told me he wasn't ready for a g/f because of his past relationship. he said because of his past girlfriend, he couldn't seem to like any other girl for more than one week. then he told me i was lucky because he still liked me after a week. and he said he was scared if we got together cuz he says i am really special to him. but he just wasn't ready. so, i decided to leave him alone and wait. but its been over 2 months. do u think i should ask him out? or stay friends?

[murderwaltz]

wow. well i say give him time. past relationships can be really tough if it was a long relationship. dont rush things with him. now if you're impatient, then look somewhere else :| but he does have a point. if you guys go out and breakup that "special" thing he sees in you will hurt him cause of everything that went on & at times, your old friendship will never be the same. not to be thinking negative but sometimes you have to think negative.