paying for your boyfriend..., y is that such a bad thing? |
 Apr 18 2005, 08:01 PM
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gRaCiE  Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997  |
well ok here's the thing...my boyfriend's mom lives with his stepdad who hates him n so he lives with his sister but his mom still give him money wen she could. he doesnt have a job so his sister n her boyfriend are paying all the bills n he uses the money he gets from his mom to get food. all he's doing rite now is going to school. no job cuz its hard getting a job n going to school at the same time but he's looking for one. well i've been helping my boyfriend with his cell phone bill n getting food. i paid for his phone bill cuz i want to have a way to reach him. he doesnt have a home phone at his sister's place n he cant eat his sister's food unless she says it's ok n his mom doesnt always give him money for food every time he needs it but she does give him money but the times he doesnt have money to have food i wanna buy him some groceries for him n buy him food. is that really such a bad thing? i mean...is my boyfriend being a bad boyfriend if that's the case? i dont want him getting hungry...i dont see wats wrong with helping out a hungry person...especially if its someone u love. my friends chastise me all the time for givng into my boyfriend so much but i do it cuz i love him n i know he loves me n i wanna do all these things for him. y do my friends get so mad about it? sorry that this is so long...
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Apr 18 2005, 08:25 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
nah...they know his situation. they just think if anything HE should be paying for ME n that he should get a job. but rite now im not even going to school n just working so i dont see wats wrong with helping him out. they think he should get a job n pay for his own shit...i understand but...they just dont understand how much i wanna do for him...n he's not using me. i mean he asks me to buy him food but i ask him to buy me food to. even wen i was broke n didnt have a job he paid for everything. i offer to get him things mostly. he usually doesnt ask. n plus my friend know he's not using me cuz some of them i met through my boyfriend n we been together over three years. they know about alot of things we been through...they dont think its that. they think its just wrong that i pay for him.
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Apr 19 2005, 08:23 AM
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 weird Sarah. yes,me... Group: Member Posts: 714 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,023 |
QUOTE(cHuNsAbAbIe012 @ Apr 19 2005, 10:25 AM) nah...they know his situation. they just think if anything HE should be paying for ME n that he should get a job. but rite now im not even going to school n just working so i dont see wats wrong with helping him out. they think he should get a job n pay for his own shit...i understand but...they just dont understand how much i wanna do for him...n he's not using me. i mean he asks me to buy him food but i ask him to buy me food to. even wen i was broke n didnt have a job he paid for everything. i offer to get him things mostly. he usually doesnt ask. n plus my friend know he's not using me cuz some of them i met through my boyfriend n we been together over three years. they know about alot of things we been through...they dont think its that. they think its just wrong that i pay for him.  ><" who set the rule that BOY should pay all the things for GIRL! i dun think your bf's using u, and u fds r so........ they know his situation and his personality, y keep saying this? |
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cHuNsAbAbIe012 paying for your boyfriend... Apr 18 2005, 08:01 PM
Nicolatofu I'd like to know their reasoning for being ups... Apr 18 2005, 08:07 PM Chii maybe your friends are getting mad because it seem... Apr 18 2005, 08:18 PM aera your friends think hes using you. it really does s... Apr 18 2005, 08:25 PM Just_Dream YOur friends are SOOOO stereotypical! They pro... Apr 18 2005, 08:29 PM mzkandi I are doing nothing wrong. I see nothing wrong wit... Apr 18 2005, 08:30 PM starlette well because I was in a relatioship like that and ... Apr 18 2005, 08:33 PM strwbrrykiwi23 i think what you're doing for him is very swee... Apr 18 2005, 09:31 PM WrathOfOnigo Wow you are a wonderful girlfriend to do that for ... Apr 18 2005, 09:36 PM Chii you shouldn't stop going to school just to sup... Apr 18 2005, 10:31 PM dani41790 when they chastise you then ignore them. I think w... Apr 18 2005, 10:36 PM blah122986 well u love him ..he loves u...its all good....im ... Apr 19 2005, 08:09 AM cHuNsAbAbIe012 lol! i didnt stop going to school to support h... Apr 19 2005, 09:44 AM Shattered_Hope Your friends probably doesn't like you paying ... Apr 19 2005, 05:04 PM JsWuz take advice from a guy
(im not gay)
paying for ur ... Apr 19 2005, 05:30 PM
JsWuz QUOTE(JsWuz @ Apr 19 2005, 6:30 PM)take advic... Apr 19 2005, 05:34 PM
JsWuz QUOTE(JsWuz @ Apr 19 2005, 6:30 PM)take advic... Apr 19 2005, 05:35 PM EmmalieV You really are a loving gf , your friends bother y... Apr 19 2005, 05:31 PM icy_angelx I don't think it's a bad thing to help out... Apr 19 2005, 06:21 PM |
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