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 Jun 1 2007, 11:09 PM
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it's not that i'm not trusting or anything, because i know my boyfriend wouldn't do anything with any of my friends... but i just feel weird when he's with other girls while i'm not there. if i'm there with him, it's fine, but when i'm not there, KNOWING he's with my friends [all girls] somewhere else where i can't go, it just makes me feel insecure.
any other girls like this? |
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Jun 1 2007, 11:56 PM
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My boyfriend always stick with my female friends at school and sometimes they go out (as in going out to somewhere), and I'm not with them all the time, but I don't mind and I trust my boyfriend, so we have no problems at all.
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Jun 2 2007, 12:22 AM
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I think if you're going to be in a relationship with him you need to learn to trust him and get rid of your insecurities. You should tell him how you feel.
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Jun 2 2007, 07:04 AM
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 Don't touch me you drink! Group: Member Posts: 310 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 518,707 |
Yes, trust is a must when you're in a relationship. Definately tell him how you feel.
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Jun 2 2007, 07:49 AM
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I feel like that too sometimes..
I really trust him and know I don't have to worry, but most of my past boyfriends have cheated on me and thats always in the back of my mind. |
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Jun 3 2007, 10:10 AM
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Oh man I hate insecurities. I trust Michelle more than anyone, but the thing I don't trust is the other guys. Ya kno?
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Jun 3 2007, 01:39 PM
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i felt like that with my ex boyfriend, i felt weird hwne he was around girls when i wasnt there but i thought it was nothing so i didnt care and i just forgot asbout it but i started to hear things and i told him how i felt and we ended up breaking up cause he was creating on me with my best friend so if i was you i would talk to him about everything before something happens, i waited to long to talk to him so if i was you i would talk to him as soon as i can
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Jun 3 2007, 05:36 PM
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It's normal to be like that. You want the relationship to work out and your instincts are screaming that you are alpha female and he is alpha male and all of these other lesser females are trying to kick you out of the alpha spot so you're a bit weary of them. Just talk it over with him and tell him how your feeling...
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Jun 4 2007, 02:19 PM
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eh, i would, but i just don't wanna screw up anything. i mean, it's not to the point where i get someone to spy on them for me.
 it just makes me feel a bit uncomfortable, i guess. 
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Jun 4 2007, 04:16 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
a little jealousy is sometimes understandable. it's always nice to show someone that you care and that you only want them to be with you. :) i think i worded that correctly? lol :)
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