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[princess2113]

i have protective parents...if i dated or kissed or nething n they found out...well my life wuld kinda b over........is ne1 elses parents like this?? i dunt wanna lie to my parents...but i mean is it really that bad for me to have a bf n make out with him??

[*tweeak*]

how old are you?

[sailormei]

Same. It sucks big time. Although my parents are starting to be suspicious... lol...Oh well. I think in their minds they think I'm going out with my boyfriend, but they won't admit that they think that way. It's confusing, yes.

[*grrfield*]

really? but it IS your body...

[Winter]

Lol my parents aren't like that.

My dad doesn't care.

My mom is really out going. She makes me go for youth church just so that I can meet cute guys! o.O And she loves my ex BF to death.

[LiNHy POO]

my parents arent like that.. they trust ME.. but not always the guy... every guy i bring home to my parents.. they always like him... my parents are great! as long as im happy then their alright with it... but yeh they think im really wild with guys... but thats not true!

[xquizit]

Heh, I know exactly what u mean. That's how my parents used to be. They only mean the best.

[princess2113]

my parents arent like that.. they trust ME.. but not always the guy... every guy i bring home to my parents.. they always like him... my parents are great! as long as im happy then their alright with it... but yeh they think im really wild with guys... but thats not true!

o yes i get this..."its not u i dunt trust, its the world i dunt trust" yeahh riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiite they just think im bad

[perdyperdybirdy]

LOL. I dont tell my parents. They find out sooner or later. They either just mention it or not say anything at all. But they never really get mad lol.

[IBathedinAcid]

It's not wrong to want to make out with your boyfriend. Parents need to realize that although teens can screw up, we don't always screw up. Parents just worry about us getting pregnant and that kinda deal. They can't protetc us forever. We need ta fly? You know...

[mouse_3k]

i got parents like tht. im not allowed to do these:

-Wear baggy cloths (I do anyways)
-put my pic online (i dont anyways)
-not allowed to talk to people i dont know online (i do anyways)
-not allowed to curse (I do anyways)
-cannot date till i dont know when (i date anyways...my parents just hadda live with it so they dont care bout this rule ne more haha)


so basically just do it. ur parents will have to live through it sometime, why not now

[*AngelicEyz00*]

My Parent s are protective. It's sucks. I'm starting to rebel a little too, and it's their friggin fault. Err, whatever. I'll do what I want when I want to, without their knowledge of course

[I_feel_beautiful]

yeah my parents are like that too. but try talking to them and see if they understand. and dont forget to cry

but as long as youre not doing or wont do anything bad then you should be allowed to kiss n stuff

[islandkiss]

my parents are also like that. that's why I'd never tell them anything.

[mai_z]

my parents used 2 be like that, they only want the best for you and they want to keep you safe.......how old are u?

[mouse_3k]

my parents are like tht (im 15)...it probably just cause my dad works fore the law enforcment or somethin. idk. before they wouldnt let me date or get a bf. when i turned 13 and went through tht rebel stage, i was like *screw u* and started going out with a guy i liked for a while. they were like *it was bound to happen...y not now?* but still, they wont let me go out past like 10 or some sh!t like tht. im trapped in this stupid house all my life...i dont tell my parents NE thin from my relationship now. they are stupid, they dont deserve to know. sry i just hate them cause they give me NO rite at all...so faggish...

[OriskybusinessO]

Omg, last year my parents has ABSOLUTLY NOOOO trust in me. I couldnt go anywear. This year they are starting to forget all the stuff I did... that they found out about! ;)

[inthemudhole]

My parents won't let me date, yet I have a boyfriend. *shrugs* Just REBEL! I'm starting to.. I'm close to the point of k-i-s-s-i-n-g in our relationship..

[T00000]

its okay, my parents are protective and they found out i had sex with my bf. imagine that! NOT pretty

[Unspoken Sorrow]

dats liike my parents too..but they found out my past two boyfrens..en they look at me like im a devil or sumthangg..they sed if i hav a third one..IM DEAD! lol..my dad sed his exact words "i'll kick your ass"..hahaha im only 12..kant hav a boyfren till 18...but heii..im datin my third one!..im such a rebel!!

[mglbaby]

no my parents arent strict but if i were u i wouldnt tell my parents im datin or kissin im afraid they wont let me...

[vehvih]

well you are not alone

[LatinaLady]

My Parent s are protective. It's sucks. I'm starting to rebel a little too, and it's their friggin fault. Err, whatever. I'll do what I want when I want to, without their knowledge of course

i do the same aslo.

all the stuff i did was behind their backs. i get peopel over my house when theya rent home, i go to thier house while i say im ging to library or so. they dont let me do crap. at times they even listenin through the phone!!! thats why id ont be on it long... =(

[DisneyPrincessKa...]

My parents tell me that I can have as much freedom as I can handle. I love this rule. My parents trust me, so I can basically go where I want, when I want to. I can still get grounded and stuff, but as long as I don't do anything wrong I can have as much freedom as I want.

[wonderful]

[COLOR=green]i think its not very smart of parents to put so many restrictions on us girls when were getting pretty old. im in highschool and i dont really tell her anything but im officially alowed to start dating...and telling her when in 16. oops. but i know girls who go off to college and theyve lived a really restricted life and all of a sudden when theyre in college they have so much freedom they never had they go wild. i mean theyre not used to being allowed to stay out passed 12, drink, blah blah blah.

[rOckThISshYt]

no. it's not bad. and my parents aren't like that. they don't know that i've ever hooked up. i don't know if they'd care or not. probobly not. as long as i didn't do anything more ( ). but they've known i've gone out with guys.

[sheepy]

Same. It sucks big time. Although my parents are starting to be suspicious... lol...Oh well. I think in their minds they think I'm going out with my boyfriend, but they won't admit that they think that way. It's confusing, yes.

yeah my parents always get suspicous...

[xsweetdreams12x]

My parents aren't like that. At least I think not because I've never kissed anybody.

Sometimes my Mom think I'm lying to her when I say my best guy friend is JUST a friend. I smile because she does, so she ends up thinking that.

It makes me so fricken mad because whenever I lie to her, she believes it and when I'm telling the truth then she thinks I'm lying. God, she can be so damn annoying.

Well, if they ask about it just say a simple no. Sorry, but I can't really think of anything you could say.

[Darkpekkle]

it's ok. i'm not supposed to be dating anyone till i'm out of college, have a job, living in my own apartment, basically till i'm independent and able to support myself. << i think this is the stupidest thing my parents have ever told me. so yes. i have gone out with a few guys already.

i don't feel bad about lying to my parents about having/not having a bf because i'm being pretty responsible about it. i mean, it's not like i'm... off having wild orgies, drinking, smoking, etc. so why should i deny myself the people i like and want to be with?

Furthermore, i think my parents already figured out that i went out with some guys (it's kinda hard hiding the fact that you're dating someone with all the long phone calls, the anniversary gifts, etc.). and despite all their threats about beating me or whatever, they didn't say a word about it. i guess they're just accepting the fact that i'm growing up. (i'm 18 btw, and started dating at 15-16, so as you can see.. i stayed with their no-dating rule for as long as i could).

[*a painefull euphoria*]

my dad islike that,
but really i dont care.

[creamyxlicious]

I'm sorta questioning my parent's motives now.
They're overprotective about TONS of things..
Dating is the one that bugs me most.

Sure they allowed my sisters to date back when they were in high schools.
But they expect me to date when I hit college?!!
I've been breaking that rule since the near end of jr high.

I feel horrible having to lie and be sneaky like about the subject,
but I feel better reminding myself to be responsible and not
do anything that I'll reject and what my parents would REALLY disapprove of.

Oh poo. I wonder if I'll have to expect
the same things from my own kids someday..

[Evony]

tjahnking u in africa we don know who daddy momther. so we have lots of std bad bad form y country

[-sincerely]

ahaha. same. but now i think people around here are changing and letting me.

[youlovejade]

i'm not allowed to date guys, so they think i'm not even into the whole "relationship" thing because i never mention anything EVER.
i tell them all the guys i actually like are really gay, so my parents will be more chill.

when my parents finally started loosening up about hanging out with guys, i totally screwed up.

they found out i was doing drugs. and on top of having really bad grades, i'm screwed

so i've been grounded since october, i'll be grounded until february, i'm guessing. and i will get drug tested after all parties, so i can't have any fun :( so i'll basically be on proabation

and my parents won't let me date until i'm 18, they say. but i can date now if i really want to, and i know they would be fine with it (at least my dad will). but hell no. i'm not telling them shit. :/

[brthtkrsmlfkr]

my parents aren't that protective. my mom likes it when i have a boyfriend cuz it gets me out of the house lol. she trusts me & knows i won't do anything too bad. my dad doesn't really care if i have a boyfriend. he just doesn't like me hanging out with a bunch of guys because he thinks it'll "give me a reputation"