100 things you always wanted to know, about sex |
100 things you always wanted to know, about sex |
Jul 9 2005, 10:57 PM
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Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
no urban legends, embarassing questions, or awkward conversations- just the facts from TWiST magezine. theese cheesy quotes and combacks are NOT mine. lol they are property of TWiST magezine.
10 truths about peer pressure 13% of teens have done something sexually while high that they wouldn't have done sober 15% of teens have sex due to peer pressure 47% of teens felt pressured into sex before they were ready 50% of girls feel pressured into sex by their friends 67% of guys feel the same way 74% of teens say their friends think its cool to stay a virgin 90% of teens think most people have sex before theyre ready 90% of teen moms hadnt even planned to have sex at all 30% of girls say friends are the biggest influence when it comes to sexy, luckily 58% of teens say their friends help them make smart choices 10 weirdest myths about birth control MYTH 1-- a girl can't get pregnant the first time [ sex works the 1st,2nd, and 100th time.] MYTH 2-- pregnancy can be prevented by douching with sode [forget it, theres a reason you won't find diet coke next to condoms in drugstores MYTH 3-- a girl won't get pregnant if she doesn't have an orgasm [nope, sexual excitement has zero to do with pregnancy risk] MYTH 4-- if a girl has sex standing up sht won't get pregnant because sperm can't travel upstream MYTH 5-- a girl wont get pregnant if the guy pulls out before he ejaculates [nope. pre-ejactulte the fluid released before a guy has an orgasm contains sperm, a few thousand in fact.] MYTH 6-- the rhythm method, only having sex on certain days of the girls cycle is an effective method of birth control [heres a not so funny joke we heard: what do you call people who use the rhythm method? parents. get it ? *means it doesnt work*] MYTH 7-- a girl cant get prenant in a hot tub as sperm cant survive in warm water MYTH 8-- if a girl sneezes after sex she won't get pregnant [save the kleenex!] MYTH 9-- a girl cant get prenant on her period MYTH 10-- drinking mountain dew will lower his sperm count FACT : none of these myths are true, not even close. 90% of girls who dont use birth control -as in real doctor approved methos like the pill or condoms- will get pregnant within a year of being sexually active. so use protection. 10 scary STD stats •4% of sexually experienced teens think they have an STD. actually 25% have •teens who've had 5 or more drinks are three times less likely to use a condom •even with 100% perfect condom usage, you can still get genital warts •40,000 people in the U.S are diagnosed with HIV each year. Half of them are under 25 •condoms cost 5$ a dox. treating HIV costs aroung 10,000 a year. •75% of girls worry that carryign a condom makes them look easy but 81% think a guy who carries condoms seem "prepared" related topic about condom carrying. •91% of girls say they worry about HIV or other STDs but only 61% of guys do •57% of sexually active teens say they havent talked about STDs with their doctor •about half never talk to their parents about STDs •40% have never discussed it with their partner. if your not ready to discuss the risks, your not ready. STAYiNG SAFE: WHAT WORKS, WHAT DOESN'T anyone having sex must always use protection. these methos can help reduce risks of pregnancy and STDs- but remember, theres no such thing as 100% safe sex MALE CONDOMS how does it work? a condom has a latex sheath that covers the guys penis during sex and stops semen from entering the vagina does it protect against STDs and pregnancy condoms are up to 97% effective against both when perfectly used everytime. they are available at any drugstore. FEMALE CONDOMS how does it work? its a polyurethane puch inserted into the vagine to keep sperm from entering the uterus available at most drugstores does it protect against STDs and pregnancy female condoms are 79-95% effective against both when used correctly THE PiLL how does it work the girl takes one pill at the same time per day. each pill contains hormons that prevent her body from releasing eggs does it protect against STDs and pregnancy 97-99.9% effective against pregnancy but not all STDs. condoms should always be used. available by prescription at about 25$ per month THE RiNG how does it work a thin ring is inserted into the vagina and releases 3 weeks worth of hormones that stop ovulation does it protect against STDs and pregnancyup to 99%effective against pregnancy not STDs available by prescription is about 40-45$ per month DEPO-PROVERA how does it work its a hormon thats injected that lasts three months and prevents ovulation does it protect against STDs and pregnancy 99.7% effective against pregnancy but not at all STDs SPERMiCiDES how does it work spermicides are foams or creams inserted in the vagina which contains a chemical that kills sperm does it protect against STDs and pregnancy used with a condom or diaphragm, can be 79-97% effective against pregnancy but not STDs DiAPHRAGM how does it work a thing rubber dome holds spermicide against the cervix to stop sperm from reaching the uterus does it protect against STDs and pregnancywithout spermicide, its about 80% effective against pregnancy but not STDs RHYTHM METHOD how does it work the girl tracks her cycle and doesnt have sex on the days when she thinks she might be ovulating does it protect against STDs and pregnancy NO way, even with a regular cycle 25% of girls get pregnant. ABSTiNENCE how does it work no sex. at all. does it protect against STIs and pregnancy 100% effective against STDs and pregnancy [ if you avoid oral sex too ] 10 STIs YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT Human papillomavirus [HPV]: also known as genital warts. can cause itching or bleeing Genital herpes: a recurrent skin condition that can cause genital sores or blisters Chlamydia: a bacterial infection that can cause infertility. usually no symptoms Trichomoniasis: an often painful vaginal infection. usually causes a frothy tellow-green discharge with a strong odor, pain during urination and itching. Crabs: an itchy parasite that lives in pubic hair. can be spread even with condom usage HIV/AIDS: HIV weakeans the immune system and develops into AIDS. no symptoms, so testing is the only way to find out is someone has it. there is no cure. Gonorrhea: a common bacterial infection of the vagina which may cause discharge or irregular bleeding Hepatitis B and Hepatitis C: a potentially fatal viral infection of the liver. may cause nausea or flu-like symptoms Syphilis: a serious bacterial infection that can cause a rash, blindness or even paralysis. 10 LAME LiNES GUYSE USE TO GET SEX & 10 cool comebacks. "if you loved me, you'd do it" ----» "if you loved me, you wouldnt pressure me" "don't you trust me?" ----» " sure. i trust your someone to respect my decisions" "even if you did get pregnant, i'd help you raise the child ----» "ok, it costs 106,000 to raise a child for 18 years, wanna pay your half up front?" " if you dont i'll find someone who will" ----» "go ahead. im sure the girls are knocking down your door" "i guess your just too immature ----» "im mature enouugh to make my own decisions, but your whining like a baby" "if i dont have sex im going to get blue balls!" ----» "if we DO i can catch an STI or get pregnant" "it'll bring us closer together ----» " spending everyday of the month hoping i get my period isnt my idea of quality time" " my last girlfriend had sex with me" ----» " i can see that worked wonders for your relationship" "but you know id do anything for you !" ----» "really? can you clean my room and wash my clothes?" "everyone else is doing it" ----» "oh cool. ive always wanted to be a follower" GETTiNG TOO HOT ? need to break the mood? just think about... » how your older brother could walk in and make your life awkward forever » old guys wearing speedos at the beach » the pythagorean theorom » your ex. » having to tell your friends "sorry i cant go to the mall. my herpes medication is making me feel sick" » the last time your mom made you scrub the toilet » david hasslehoff » the fact you havent shaved in like a week » your dream car.... with a baby seat in the back. » hey, you know who else had sex? your parents. 10 great sites for more sex info Planned Parenthood TeenWire ScarleTeen Sex Etc. All About Sex Coalition for Positive Sexuality Youth Embassy Advocates for Youth Smarter Sex Go Ask Alice 5 books to check out The Underground Guide to to Teenage Sexuality by Michael J. Basso Deal With it by Esther Drill, Rebbeca Odes and Heather Mcdonald Am i Weird or is this Normal by Marlin S. Potash and Laura Potash Fruitman Sex, Boys, and You: Be Your own Best Girlfriend by Joni Arredia |
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Jul 9 2005, 11:10 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 139 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,985 |
I'm 13 and I don't think I really care, sorry
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Jul 9 2005, 11:12 PM
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sorry. i drowned your fish. Group: Member Posts: 1,485 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,683 |
whoa i never knew most of these things O.O some are just scaring me x|
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*mzkandi* |
Jul 9 2005, 11:12 PM
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Jul 9 2005, 11:18 PM
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Lil JC Group: Member Posts: 868 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 145,741 |
one correction its STD as in disease not STI as in infection
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Jul 9 2005, 11:20 PM
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Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
oh, lol sorry i just copied out of the magezine. thought it was an entirely differnet thing so i didnt get that into it,
thanks for telling, i'll change it. QUOTE I'm 13 and I don't think I really care, sorry that came off really rude to me, and seriously what mzkandi said, why post in here if you dont really care?
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*wind&fire* |
Jul 9 2005, 11:20 PM
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i say pin this
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Jul 10 2005, 12:30 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 109 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,215 |
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*Azarel* |
Jul 10 2005, 12:39 AM
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QUOTE(wind&fire @ Jul 9 2005, 9:20 PM) i say pin this There's already an overabundance in pinned topics in this forum. I say pin this and unpin the thread about pimples & attention.
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Jul 10 2005, 12:47 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 111 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 145,762 |
Very good =P I've also heard from watching that one movie they had on the National Geographic channel for awhile that was about pregnancy, etc that a man's sperm becomes more lively and stronger if he drinks coffee or has caffeine. Lol strange eh?
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Jul 10 2005, 12:49 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 7,048 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,696 |
QUOTE » hey, you know who else had sex? your parents. Wonderful, it's not like I needed to know that. |
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*Azarel* |
Jul 10 2005, 12:51 AM
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QUOTE(JlIaTMK @ Jul 9 2005, 10:49 PM) Wonderful, it's not like I needed to know that. ... It's not like you didn't already know.
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Jul 10 2005, 12:52 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 7,048 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,696 |
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Jul 10 2005, 01:05 AM
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jiyOunnn~ Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 109,706 |
lol that was interesting.
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Jul 10 2005, 02:28 AM
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..hawaiian pride.. Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,150 |
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Jul 10 2005, 04:25 AM
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say maydayism. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,447 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,344 |
This is useful information and should be pinned.
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*wind&fire* |
Jul 10 2005, 05:08 AM
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QUOTE(Azarel @ Jul 10 2005, 3:39 PM) There's already an overabundance in pinned topics in this forum. I say pin this and unpin the thread about pimples & attention. agreed... you wont die from pimples... [edit] OR unpin those ones and merge this with Puberty. Sex. Life ?. for girls OR make one topic and link it to each of these topics so there will only be one pinned topic |
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Jul 10 2005, 09:17 AM
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mood: content Group: Member Posts: 2,063 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,325 |
"MYTH 1-- a girl can't get pregnant the first time"
That reminds me of that Degrassi episode with Manny and Craig. He thought she was taking the pill and she thought he used a condom, big mistake there. But she was like, "THE PILL??? That was my first time!" So... yeah. :) Thanks for typing this all out for us. |
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Jul 10 2005, 01:26 PM
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My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
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Jul 10 2005, 01:39 PM
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SCHGEB!SCHGEB! Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 |
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Jul 10 2005, 01:49 PM
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memories live FOREVER<3 Group: Member Posts: 1,150 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 132,793 |
LOLS wowers thanks i definitly learned something from that
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Jul 10 2005, 01:58 PM
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My desperate heart is far too weak to run for you this long. Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 150,342 |
QUOTE » hey, you know who else had sex? your parents. lol ewww |
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Jul 10 2005, 02:31 PM
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Residential Crazy Child Group: Member Posts: 934 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 116,897 |
Very interesting. Very scary too.
The comebacks were corny, but true. |
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Jul 10 2005, 02:39 PM
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Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
lol yeah the comebacks were really corny. but it was from twist magezine. i just thought everyone would be interested [excpet for that rude little 13 year old] and would like to know ways to protect themselves and such.
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Jul 10 2005, 04:10 PM
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A laugh spreads, so do some spreading! Group: Member Posts: 529 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,319 |
QUOTE(hiphop junkie @ Jul 9 2005, 10:57 PM) » hey, you know who else had sex? your parents. not anymore. thanks for the helpful tips! |
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